Our local bank is permanently closing in about 5 weeks. Aside from the general inconvenience that it will cause me, I feel sad at the social loss in my life.
I’ve used that bank mostly weekly, sometimes 2 or 3 times a week, for 18 years (I use it for business cash banking). There’s ladies working in that bank that have seen me through two pregnancies, and have watched my children grow up. I mean, I see them more than my own family!
The other day I was in the car with my DP and we drove past the bank. I said to him “I’m going to miss the bank when it’s gone, I’m really sad it’s closing.” He turned to look at me in amazement, laughing, and said “I wish I lived in your little brain!”.
Of course it’s not the only thing I worry or feel sad about, and of course life will go on, but am I am unreasonable to be sad about the bank closing?