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To think statutory maternity pay should be the same amount as the state pension?

395 replies

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:06

I don’t have children, probably never will. But I do think SMP is shockingly low, and if the government is really worried about the birth rate they should look at this.

Many women on maternity only get SMP and no enhanced package from their employer. It’s current set at a maximum of £187.18 a week for 39 weeks. If mothers want to be off for 52, it will be unpaid.

The new state pension is £230.25 a week. While those on maternity may have a partner to support them, they probably won’t have any other income while many pensioners also have a private pension alongside the SP.

AIBU to think that if £230.25 is needed by all pensioners over 66 for a basic standard of living (who probably have less outgoings than a young family), SMP should be the same?

If we can afford to pay the state pension to every pensioner for the rest of their lives out of NI, we can afford to support new working mothers birthing and raising the next generation of workers for a short amount of time. The financial hit is a big deterrent for people having children. I also think SMP should be paid from birth until the child’s first birthday.

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Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:49

TheGoodLadyMary · 15/02/2026 19:41

Er yes, I do realise, what’s your point?

My point is that many people in their 60s, 50s or even 40s won't have 'years' to pay into a pension if they started in 2012. I would have thought that was obvious.

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:50

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 19:48

We are a million miles away from 'if no one has babies'. People should be preparing in advance for parenthood through savings and the right choices e.g. some might have to have 6 months mat leave instead of 12 or might only be able to have 1 child instead of 3. Old age isn't a choice we can make and we've paid for our pension throughout our lives.

You paid for the pensions before you, not for your own. Today’s workers are paying for the pensions of today, and the babies born today will be paying for pensions in the future.

You can also prepare in advance for your pension.

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Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:52

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:50

You paid for the pensions before you, not for your own. Today’s workers are paying for the pensions of today, and the babies born today will be paying for pensions in the future.

You can also prepare in advance for your pension.

As it has always been. Why has it suddenly become an issue?

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 19:53

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:52

As it has always been. Why has it suddenly become an issue?

This

Yewoo · 15/02/2026 19:54

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:52

As it has always been. Why has it suddenly become an issue?

Because lots of people are spending at least 20 years retired, often more, in varying degrees of health. While it’s amazing that health care has progressed to an extent that we are keeping many people alive well into their 80s, 90s and even 100s, it is exponentially increasing the amount it costs to both pay these people’s pensions alongside their care costs.

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:55

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:52

As it has always been. Why has it suddenly become an issue?

Because the number of workers to pensioners is decreasing and will reduce further due to the declining birth rate.

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CaptainMyCaptain · 15/02/2026 19:56

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 18:47

‘Being old isn’t a choice, having a baby is’

But if no one has babies there will be no workers to pay pensions when we are old. There is a panic happening in western countries now due to the declining birth rate and people opting out of having children as it will cause a massive issue in a few decades time.

Which is why child care is the real issue as it goes on for 4 or 5 years.

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 19:57

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:55

Because the number of workers to pensioners is decreasing and will reduce further due to the declining birth rate.

The answer isn't to continue to grow the population. The planet can't cope. Our infrastructure can't cope. The answer is to live differently to make things more sustainable. However, few seem willing to do that.

RabbitsEatPancakes · 15/02/2026 19:58

TigerRag · 15/02/2026 18:46

Many dsabled people get less than SMP

You can for the most part, plan and save for time off for pregnancy

Haha, You have much longer to plan and save for old age than pregnancy!

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:59

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 19:57

The answer isn't to continue to grow the population. The planet can't cope. Our infrastructure can't cope. The answer is to live differently to make things more sustainable. However, few seem willing to do that.

Ok, but in that case how will things be funded, if we don’t have the young workers to do it?

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Fearfulsaints · 15/02/2026 20:01

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:52

As it has always been. Why has it suddenly become an issue?

The ratio of workers to pensions has reduced from 5:1 when it was set up to 3:1 now and is apparently set to reduce even more.

MoiraPlunkett · 15/02/2026 20:01

Well, as long as they don't make you wait for it for five years after you've had your baby, then part way through the five years, change it to seven years and part way through that change it to eight years ...

Yewoo · 15/02/2026 20:01

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 19:57

The answer isn't to continue to grow the population. The planet can't cope. Our infrastructure can't cope. The answer is to live differently to make things more sustainable. However, few seem willing to do that.

What does The answer is to live differently to make things more sustainable actually, tangibly mean though? While trying to be as sustainable as possible is a great thing, fundamentally we will need (lots) of people to provide the physical care of the ever aging population, and more people again to pay taxes to pay the cares salaries. Maybe at a planet level we are done with people - which by default means, if we don’t want to support our native population to have more children, we need to embrace a lot more immigration.

TwoBlueFish · 15/02/2026 20:04

How about Carers Allowance being increased, it’s currently £83.30 a week for giving a minimum of 35 hours of care.

noctilucentcloud · 15/02/2026 20:04

batt3nb3rg · 15/02/2026 19:17

I would rather see pensions cut or frozen to fund incentives for childbearing, if people don't have children you will not recieve a state pension. For some reason pensioners are the only group in society who are not expected to shoulder their fair share of the consequences of difficult economic times. Contrary to what they claim, they have not "paid in" their entire lives, they were taxed to fund the welfare bill that existed at the time, and now the welfare bill is rising, it's completely unfair to expect working adults and children to be suffering disproportionately so pensioners can maintain their standard of living. They should in fact be amongst the first to feel cuts, along with those chronically reliant on unemployment benefits without cause, as over half of pensioners have wealth exceeding half a million, and a quater have assets over one million.

I have no horse in this race however, as I am fortunate enough to not need to consider working or recieving maternity pay while raising children. This shouldn't be an unusual position, as we know it's best for children for them to be raised by their own mothers, for at minimum the first three years of life, and what is the point of society and economic growth if we're deciding as a society that it's acceptable for a six or nine month old baby, who should still ideally be breastfeeding, to be separated from its mother for nine hours a day.

"if people don't have children you will not recieve a state pension."

That would create a whole host of problems eg poverty for some retired people, how would you deal with not all people having the choice of whether or not to have children, or that not all people should have children and by incentivising it you might get people who have children for the wrong reasons.

"we know it's best for children for them to be raised by their own mothers, for at minimum the first three years of life"

I don't agree with this. I think nurseries and childminders play an important role in allowing children to experience new things and new people. It's also an assumption that being with the mum is best - what if the mum is unhappy or isolated or wants to work, and not all mums/parents are good, some children are far better off with other care givers for some part of their week.

deadpantrashcan · 15/02/2026 20:04

crossedlines · 15/02/2026 18:57

Maternity leave is always going to be a time-limited period. Women have been saying for years that it’s childcare costs which are the real killer - and this is now pretty heavily subsidised from 9 months old. So a woman can actually go from being paid SMP up to 9 months and then getting a significant chunk of free childcare. Quite rightly imo. I had babies back when mat leave was only 3 months paid and there were no free hours at all - now that was a real killer! I fully support the govt making work more accessible to mums and dads by subsidising childcare but I don’t think there’s any really persuasive argument that making SMP the same as state pension will encourage couples to have a baby

The childcare thing doesn’t kick in until they’re 3 in Scotland 😔

Kitte321 · 15/02/2026 20:11

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 19:26

Yes it’s a choice many are now opting out of (see the declining birth rates across the West). And this will have serious consequences in the not too distant future.

It’s already causing issues though isn’t it. According to the Office for National Statistics (ONS):

  • The number of people aged 65+ is growing significantly
  • The number of people aged 85+ is rising fastest
  • The working-age population is growing much more slowly
Add to that, additional NHS costs, the unsustainable cost of maintaining the triple lock and the rising social care costs and the shift in demographics is a huge huge problem.
batt3nb3rg · 15/02/2026 20:11

noctilucentcloud · 15/02/2026 20:04

"if people don't have children you will not recieve a state pension."

That would create a whole host of problems eg poverty for some retired people, how would you deal with not all people having the choice of whether or not to have children, or that not all people should have children and by incentivising it you might get people who have children for the wrong reasons.

"we know it's best for children for them to be raised by their own mothers, for at minimum the first three years of life"

I don't agree with this. I think nurseries and childminders play an important role in allowing children to experience new things and new people. It's also an assumption that being with the mum is best - what if the mum is unhappy or isolated or wants to work, and not all mums/parents are good, some children are far better off with other care givers for some part of their week.

Apologies if my comment was poorly worded, I mean that if people in general do not have children then you (meaning the person I replied to, and of course everyone else) will not be able to receive a state pension as there will not be enough working age adults to pay for it. Thus, freezing or cutting state pensions now to put those freed up funds into incentivising childbearing is in the long term interests of society.

It's not an assumption that being with mum is best, it's based on decades of research and is a proven fact at this point. Children under a certain age receive no benefit from full time socialisation with others their own age.

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 20:13

Yewoo · 15/02/2026 20:01

What does The answer is to live differently to make things more sustainable actually, tangibly mean though? While trying to be as sustainable as possible is a great thing, fundamentally we will need (lots) of people to provide the physical care of the ever aging population, and more people again to pay taxes to pay the cares salaries. Maybe at a planet level we are done with people - which by default means, if we don’t want to support our native population to have more children, we need to embrace a lot more immigration.

It means more communal living, more communal eating, less food waste, less waste overall, mending rather than buying new, less plastic tat, people living within their means, societal expectations of what Xmas and birthdays look like are reduced, more public transport, not living in houses with more bedrooms than we need, growing more of our own food. Basically lifestyles that means we can save more to prepare for old age.

TheGoodLadyMary · 15/02/2026 20:14

Katypp · 15/02/2026 19:49

My point is that many people in their 60s, 50s or even 40s won't have 'years' to pay into a pension if they started in 2012. I would have thought that was obvious.

Auto enrol is a very small piece of a much wider picture, I’d have thought that’s pretty obvious 😂. Or are you honestly trying to claim people have only known about private pensions since auto enrol?

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 20:16

RabbitsEatPancakes · 15/02/2026 19:58

Haha, You have much longer to plan and save for old age than pregnancy!

Except mat leave is approx 12 months. Old age is for far longer.

TheGoodLadyMary · 15/02/2026 20:18

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 20:13

It means more communal living, more communal eating, less food waste, less waste overall, mending rather than buying new, less plastic tat, people living within their means, societal expectations of what Xmas and birthdays look like are reduced, more public transport, not living in houses with more bedrooms than we need, growing more of our own food. Basically lifestyles that means we can save more to prepare for old age.

Well to be blunt it means that the younger generations should adapt and make sacrifices while the current pensioners continue to enjoy their state pension which they have simultaneously “paid into all their lives” and “funded the generation above” 🙄.

BridgertonToBe · 15/02/2026 20:21

TheGoodLadyMary · 15/02/2026 20:14

Auto enrol is a very small piece of a much wider picture, I’d have thought that’s pretty obvious 😂. Or are you honestly trying to claim people have only known about private pensions since auto enrol?

The way some people talk, you’d think private pensions didn’t exist pre-2012. When actually, many private pension schemes used to be far more generous than they are now. Including final salary pension schemes which barely exist these days.

The difference is, lower paid workers were less likely to have been in a scheme, whereas now they’re auto enrolled. But even for lower paid workers now, the amount they will pay in will not amount to much. When I was on a lower salary (but higher than minimum wage) my forecast for private pension was less than £2k a year - this was with the minimum contributions from me and my employer, if I remained on the same salary with inflation until state pension age. Better than nothing but it’s hardly going to make low paid workers comfortable in retirement, especially as they will be older when they receive the state pension. In fact they will likely be worse off as they will need to wait several years longer.

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Yewoo · 15/02/2026 20:26

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 20:13

It means more communal living, more communal eating, less food waste, less waste overall, mending rather than buying new, less plastic tat, people living within their means, societal expectations of what Xmas and birthdays look like are reduced, more public transport, not living in houses with more bedrooms than we need, growing more of our own food. Basically lifestyles that means we can save more to prepare for old age.

So is that people living and eating communally within age cohorts? Or within extended families?

Whereohwhere2026 · 15/02/2026 20:30

Yewoo · 15/02/2026 20:26

So is that people living and eating communally within age cohorts? Or within extended families?

A mixture of both. Not everyone has extended family. Wouldn't have to be age cohorts necessarily e.g. neighbours sharing things.