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Ghosted and he came back … ?

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Karlaken · 13/02/2026 17:05

Talked to this man back in late November for a couple weeks consistently. About one week into us talking he was already trying to plan a date and see me, I was kinda dragging my feet and declined for a later date but we still continued to talk. He kept pressing to see me so I agreed, the days following up to the date he kinda dragging his feet with his replies.

Make a king story short the day of the date comes we still haven’t decided on a time or location but he texts me early in the morning asking how I was doing. I then brought up the date and he send me a long voice memo of him with a bunch of nervousness talking. Explaining family issues and having to drive up to the hospital etc. Told me he could still see me but it would be later, I charged it to the game told him to focus on that and not to worry about. Then that was it no communication from either party.

He then now reaches out in February sending me several a voice memos talking about how he apologizes how the month of November was hard for him and how it was one thing after the next. Says he could have communicated this to me etc and it wasn’t cool.

What y’all think ? I personally think it’s Bull

OP posts:
MyLimeGuide · 13/02/2026 21:42

No no no no!

BauhausOfEliott · 13/02/2026 23:53

You again, OP? Good grief.

None of the many men you’ve posted about are interested in anything other than a casual hookup at most and, honestly, you need to be a lot more discerning about who you date/talk to.

Stop dating and get some therapy. Your desperation is making you vulnerable.

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