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to think some people would be weirdly excited if WFH came to an end?

383 replies

LoveWFH · 13/02/2026 09:22

Why do some posters sound almost delighted at the thought of Nigel Farage stopping WFH?

There’s this tone of “that’ll teach them” whenever it comes up. As if people working from home have been getting away with something.

Here’s the practical bit though. My company couldn’t bring everyone back full time even if it wanted to. They’ve sold off chunks of the office space. Whole buildings gone. Desks gone. Leases not renewed. There literally isn’t room for everyone anymore.

Hybrid working isn’t some trendy phase. It’s how a lot of businesses are set up now. They’ve planned for it. Budgeted for it. Recruited around it.

You can’t magically create space that no longer exists.

If you prefer being in the office, fair enough. Plenty of people do. But I don’t get the satisfaction at the idea of other people losing flexibility that works for them and their employer.

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Talkingtomyhouseplants · 13/02/2026 12:01

MsWilmottsGhost · 13/02/2026 11:22

This.

Most of my career has been in jobs that can't be done WFH. I went into workplaces all through COVID lockdowns. I'm still very in favour of people WFH where they can, I don't understand the hatred,and naked jealousy, from some people who can't WFH.

When everyone was WFH I could get to work in 15 minutes. Once everyone went back to the office it took over an hour in 3 lanes of crawling polluting traffic jams. It's actually even worse now than pre COVID.

I have no words for how fucking stupid it is 🤦

Completely agree. DH and I both work hybrid and there are murmurings at his workplace about taking away WFH days. He has no issue going into the office when there is service user facing work to be done but equally a lot of his work is taken up by recording things, emails and triaging referral to the service based on paperwork - all of which he is much more efficient from at home.

He works longer hours at home as well because he will be much more inclined to stay on and finish something when wfh compared to staying an extra 15 minutes at the office adding 30 minutes to his commute.

WFH allows you to live your life AND work. It benefits women, neurodivergent people, people with chronic health conditions, or people who like us who live in a small semi rural town where unless you are a doctor or an accountant, professional people will have to commute to the nearest city.

I travel to locations for work which I don’t mind and I enjoy seeing different places and don’t mind the driving as it’s part of my work day. But if I’m concentrating on some administrative stuff I need to be at home with my multiple screens, and no one wittering on about what they did at the weekend.

Oopsya · 13/02/2026 12:03

Bitsandbobs2 · 13/02/2026 11:59

Because when I spent 1hr 34mins waiting to speak with an agent- I don't want to be cut off because of "signal issues" or wait 53mins for response on chat because someone doing school run with laptop.
It's very easy to blame other being jealous until you are affected by it. I literally missed very important procedure because I couldn't hear a word (dogs barking) and had to wait 6 weeks to get another appointment.
If you think I'm wrong- try to contact someone through customer services 9am or 3pm.

Most of the wait times aren't to do with wfh in call centres, its to do with the fact they're massively reduced their workforce to save money. I've worked in several wfh call centre jobs, the restrictions are high and there is software that records your every minute, you can't just pop off to the loo you have to log it.

BringBackCatsEyes · 13/02/2026 12:03

God…I’ll struggle, what with my colleagues being in Portugal, Bulgaria, USA.
The man is an idiot.

Sparklechoppy · 13/02/2026 12:04

Strawberryfruitstarburst · 13/02/2026 10:18

WFH keeps women in the workforce who want or need to be in it.

I say this as even though men can take time off work to raise kids or part time work, let’s be real, it is primarily women who do this!!!

Because of WFH I was able to do a full shift then pick my baby up from nursery at 16.10pm for four years, rather than him being in there till 6pm!

I was able to be just down the road if he was sick and needed me to pick him up within minutes not hours.

I was able to exercise on my lunch break in comfy clothes when time is limited as a working mum.

Now he’s at school, I am able to pick him up him up at half 3 and make up any lost time later.

Without this I would be working part time or SAHM, be out of my career and not earning enough as a household.

I think a lot of people do this. They save money on childcare etc. However how do you look aftera child and work eg if in a meeting or on a call?
When i worked from home, I found it so hard with people knocking or my dog barking etc. With kids as well i can imagine it more stressful!

I do think overall WFH is great. Especially for women, people with health issues and those with kids or dogs. I do get a bit jealous of my neighbour in the freezing cold etc when I am up and out at 7am. Bit not enough to want to stop it for others.

Happyjoe · 13/02/2026 12:06

They don't care really if people WFH imo. It's the knock on. Office space rentals, coffee shops/cafe's near offices. All bring in cash for the gov.

But, WFA is a really good work/life balance. My OH would rather leave his job if he has to drive an hour every morning and an hour back - and that's the bare minimum as the motorway often has hold ups and accidents. I've known it for him to take 6hrs to get home before now.

And before anyone says anything, he works harder at home, often working his lunch, he works in the eve too if needs to catch up on something important and he works better without all the chit chat in the office. It really does suit some people really well and not all take the mick.

Dosomethingnow · 13/02/2026 12:10

Snootsnoot · 13/02/2026 10:03

I don't understand how the same people who don't want WFH to continue are also usually supporters of AI. AI makes their jobs easier, fine, but it also means many jobs are now obsolete. Eventually the idea of AI is surely to make it possible for us not to work, or work less? IMO it is business owners (see Farage's funders) who want cheap or free labour for their personal profit and again, mostly men who gain more from being out of the house.

Edited

Anyone might think that Farage is adopting policies only to benefit his rich financial backers, surely not?

snowmichael · 13/02/2026 12:14

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/02/2026 09:59

Of course NF and his backers and most of the government have invested in office spaces. There needs to be a discussion on what to do with these empty spaces if more people wfh/hybrid.

Having said that I was on a bus going past City Thameslink and through Farringdon this week and noticed lots of offices including Linked In’s so obviously a few people still prefer to work in the office.

> Of course NF and his backers

I'm old enough that NF has a completely different meaning for me

(Well ... maybe not that different ... )

snowmichael · 13/02/2026 12:16

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 13/02/2026 10:02

Here’s a question. Suppose you took a job that was office based but they turned it into wfh and sold off the office space. Would your only option be to find another job?

When I had to wfh due to covid we had lots of online fun things to do including escape rooms. Maybe not a perfect solution but helped us bond a lot.

> Would your only option be to find another job?

Obviously not - you have the option to wfh

You also might be able to rent office space for e.g. team meetings on an ad hoc basis

usedtobeaylis · 13/02/2026 12:17

People just really hate other people getting something they don't or something that makes them a bit happier. Jane sitting in her cubicle doesn't give a shit about the sandwich shop over the road, she just feart of missing out.

WFH meant I could increase my hours which means I have more money to spend, as a pleb who doesn't have enough to hoard. That money goes right back into the economy. Without WFH I would still be working restricted hours on less money - if I had been able to keep working at all. So forcing me back into an office doesn't benefit the sandwich shop over the road anyway.

wfhwfh · 13/02/2026 12:17

Any Government’s priority should be getting people working to manage the benefits bill. Not dictating how taxpayers and their employers structure their working arrangements - particularly not private sector employers.

I just cannot see how they can justify concerning themselves with this given the economic difficulties facing the country. Taxpayers are a scarce resource.

JustMyView13 · 13/02/2026 12:20

Nigel is definitely not trying to detract from the fact he has been found in the 3pstien files. Nothing to see. Move along.

Pinkday · 13/02/2026 12:20

Your assuming a reform government next ..
If labour get their finger out and crack down ,that may not happen.
It's only reform saying this rubbish,and they are not in government yet , hopefully not at all

Pinkday · 13/02/2026 12:21

I've no skin in the game re working from home
But personally if it takes more cars of the roads ,that's got to be a good thing .

MissSpindle · 13/02/2026 12:28

My DH's company is now like this. There is not enough physical space to accommodate everyone as many people are on hybrid or fully remote contracts and there are more staff than spaces in the office for them.

Like most of the things Nigel Farage says I suspect it is just a lot of hot air. He can't dictate how a business operates at the end of the day, especially in the private sector.

Imisscoffee2021 · 13/02/2026 12:29

Some people have a race to the bottom mentality and if they see somethng as a benefit they dont have they are quick to crow when it goes or are vocal while it remains. I can't wfh in my job but never begrudge those who do.

Its like when funded nursery hours came in for more people when their child was younger and those who had unfortunately had to pay for private nursery til age 3 prior to the new way were furious that people benefited from new rules when they'd had to pay. Race to the bottom mentality is rife.

AmusedShark · 13/02/2026 12:35

Bitsandbobs2 · 13/02/2026 11:59

Because when I spent 1hr 34mins waiting to speak with an agent- I don't want to be cut off because of "signal issues" or wait 53mins for response on chat because someone doing school run with laptop.
It's very easy to blame other being jealous until you are affected by it. I literally missed very important procedure because I couldn't hear a word (dogs barking) and had to wait 6 weeks to get another appointment.
If you think I'm wrong- try to contact someone through customer services 9am or 3pm.

What a weird comment 'try to contact someone through customer services 9am or 3pm'

What customer services? There's no national or international 'customer services'. There's customer services for numerous organisations and companies so which ones are you talking about?

And are you talking about an NHS organisation where you missed an important procedure? because you couldn't hear because dogs were barking? it's very rare NHS admin are calling from home to arrange an appt but if they are, they also send texts, emails. letters..how did you miss those?

And if you really felt you couldn't hear a word and didn't receive any texts, emails or letters. why didn't you call the dept and say that?

usedtobeaylis · 13/02/2026 12:36

People really do make up the most silly stories.

Pasta4Dinner · 13/02/2026 12:38

all my local councils have sold off their office spaces. They are already going bankrupt so not sure how that will work out.

U53rName · 13/02/2026 12:40

TiredofLDN · 13/02/2026 09:45

Oh god like my great aunt and uncle who voted for- very loudly and proudly- for Brexit…. Having spent 20 years of their retirement living in Portugal between September and April every year….

They can’t do that any more of course. But they blame the Portuguese for “not playing fairly”.

I love this for him.

My neighbours have a house in France and were holidaying there during the referendum. They didn’t arrange for absentee ballots, and missed the election/didn’t vote. They were counting on the rest of us to have their best interests at heart.

The best one by far was a market stall florist who was interviewed on the BBC. He gets his stock from Holland, and was upset about the difficulties he was now facing. He voted for Brexit.

TressiliansStone · 13/02/2026 12:41

JustMyView13 · 13/02/2026 12:20

Nigel is definitely not trying to detract from the fact he has been found in the 3pstien files. Nothing to see. Move along.

Might not be just the Epstein files he's trying to distract from.

There was a VERY interesting parliamentary committee session on Monday responding to "e-petition 744215 relating to Russian influence on UK politics and democracy."

It's Shock regarding Reform.

I knew about former Reform leader for Wales, Nathan Gill, being convicted for treachery on behalf of Russia. I didn't know about all the other links, especially the financial ones and Reform's enthusiasm for untraceable donations.

Full transcript here:
https://hansard.parliament.uk/Commons/2026-02-09/debates/F9F28AFA-E1F3-449C-B18B-63DDCABC411E/RussianInfluenceOnUKPoliticsAndDemocracy

TressiliansStone · 13/02/2026 12:42

That debate is also viewable on YouTube.

E-petition debate relating to Russian influence on UK politics & democracy - Monday 9 February 2026.
https://www.youtube.com/live/BXlk5ufZTDM

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/live/BXlk5ufZTDM

AgnesMcDoo · 13/02/2026 12:46

My workplace is completely virtual- there’s no office to go to. And that won’t change no matter what Nige or the anti-wfh nutters on MN want

the government can only mandate where government employees go to work.

Binus · 13/02/2026 12:46

5128gap · 13/02/2026 11:20

I think this is unfair. Many older people like in person service. Sometimes for valid reasons. They struggle to hear as well on the phone. They prefer to deal with physical documents rather than E versions. They find technology slower than conversation. They tend to equate the loss of in person services with WFH, without realising that in person services have disappeared because remote delivery is cheaper. So things would be remote regardless of whether the person on the phone is sitting in an office or their house. These people are not wanting people in workplaces to be mean, its because they believe if they were there they'd get to see them. Which would by no means be the case.

Yes, there's probably some truth to this. I've come across people, of a wide variety of ages actually, who've blocked out the 2010s reduction of in person services because they were being delivered remotely by people who were usually in the same room as each other.

I do think some people might benefit from knowing how much more they'd have to pay if they wanted more in person or even just in office services. Then preferences can be an informed decision. In most online discussion, I've noticed it doesn't usually go down well when people are asked how much more they'd be willing to pay in order to secure more in person customer service and the like. Maybe there'd be general benefit to a greater understanding of this.

Furlane · 13/02/2026 12:47

likelysuspect · 13/02/2026 11:02

Theres quite a lot of overlap between school refusers and households where no one leaves the home in a routine way, either because the parent doesnt work for whateve reason or the parent is at home working

Some children suffer with anxiety that hooks itself into 'Ive left my parent at home' or 'whats going on at home', the idea that home is warm and snuggly with everyone there except you because you're at school can be anxiety provoking

There are other reasons for that anxiety but it can play out in that way. A proportion of children fear whats going on at home so conversely want to remain there during the day to keep an eye, be hypervigilant, thats not necessarily connected to WFH

Then there is the basic presentation that life 'happens' inside the home, not outside the home, we dont need to or want to go outside the home. There is quite a level of isolation, it becomes the norm that you dont leave the house to do things.

If the child is a school refuser then of course a parent is going to need to stay home with them, so those statistics would be nonsensical. You’re making some massive leaps there without any data to back it up.

MoFadaCromulent · 13/02/2026 12:48

For someone who bangs on about red tape and bureaucracy it seems really hypocritical to be advocating for a big government approach that would dictate the terms of individual workers employment.

It's almost like his beliefs and policies are not held in goodfaith and he's really just trying to harness meaningless culture war anger

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