Primary teacher for 25+ years.
I love it. But it's a different job to the one I started in. The workload has got easier in time for me. I love that no 2 days are the same.
Some schools will allow staff to attend their own children's performances/shows. Others don't.
Some schools are easier on workload than others.
Some schools allow staff to have a paid day off every year to do something of their choosing. Other schools allow staff up to 3 unpaid days a year to attend friends weddings, go on a long weekend away. Other schools regard requesting this type of stuff as a disciplinary.
Our school is utilizing the apprenticeship schemes, so 1 TA is currently doing her teaching degree. Another 2 teachers are in their first year of teaching, having completed lots of on the job study from being a TA. All paid, on the job, throughout.
TAs are not paid enough for the work they do. It's a national scandal that (99%) women are allowed to remain on this low wage for such a high demand role. But as the hours work with childcare, woman put up with the low salary.
All the best finding the right role for you.