OK, so want to keep it as short and sweet as possible. Been with partner for 11 years. He's now a pilot, I stay at home with our youngest. I've supported him fully etc left him to it, helped financially, tea on table. Never had many suspicions of any other women, heard the odd thing from many years ago, he was a bit of a boy at the time of meeting but whatever it's been 11 years. I do find he looks at women a lot, even my 12yo son noticed this one day. I've never pulled him up on it though as I feel he would just love the fact I feel insecure at this. He loves attention,always has. Says only from me.. 🙄Theres been a time he was a little shady with his phone but again that was probably 3 years ago now. We've had our ups and downs but still together but recently I'll admit I do feel insecure now. Had always trusted him (until those little things appear). I guess I feel quite low with my appearance, cant get botox or anything like that as still breastfeeding our youngest, hair is probably not the best shade of blonde and have lost it all! I could probably tone up! So to the main thing that has annoyed me and want to know if you guys think I'm being silly/insecure. He has linkedin, it's mostly for professionals, my friend had a little look at his profile last week and saw he liked a photo of a rather pretty girl who was celebrating another year at the airline. She wasn't in work clothes. It was a short dress. I got it in there and asked whether liking photos of girls was a red flag to him and he said yes if they are bikini pics but not if they are achievements. I said but couldn't you just say well done to their face, he replied but what if you don't see them. In my head I personally think they should be irrelevant to you, and you don't Really need to like this photo. Anyway. Fast forward few weeks, friend sees so many more photos being "loved" and "liked" by him, all very attractive female cabin crew/pilots. This just doesn't sit right with me. In my eyes it opens a door for possible conversation, its like he's showing himself to them, he's putting himself out there as such. They see his like, they message him and that could lead to more. These people aren't people he's super close to. So I don't really get the need to like it. One girl was sat in a gym.. Please be honest, am I being insecure, would any of you guys be happy with this? Should I just trust him? Sorry it's so long!