To be done with my marriage

[Yoloohno]

For context we’re currently on holiday at an all inclusive.

For the last 2 days I’ve been throwing up and have diarrhea to be the point where I’ve messed myself.

He’s not bothered and has accused me of spoiling his holiday as I’m not enjoying the food (I can’t actually eat anything without throwing up), I can’t sit in the bar. I’m miserable because I’m unwell.

Once again I’m sitting alone in my room, he’s not checked on me despite me saying I’ve been sick again.

I honestly think my marriage is done. We have no dependent children. I don’t know what I’m getting out of it.

So sorry you’re ill on holiday- that’s tough. And so sorry your DH is not showing you the care and concern you deserve. Is he like this at home?

I'm so sorry you are so ill, especially when you are away from home.
Is he always so uncaring? Is this behaviour out of character or typical? Either way it sounds awful. I would leave if I were you, you deserve so much better.

This is not the marriage you want.
Get rid.

I’m so sorry OP - I hope you feel better soon x

He sounds like a selfish arsehole! I'd be done with him too. Hope you feel better soon OP 💐

Horrendous. I'd be concerned/worried about my DH if he was having a vomiting bug, not blaming him for ruining my fun. How callous of him.

Some people genuinely struggle to be around people who are sick because of their own fears, especially when it’s the type of sick that involves d&v. No one ever makes good life choices when they are in the middle of a debilitating illness.

Wait until yo are better, and look at your marriage overall. It might not seem that bad.