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Ryanair wtaf???

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MangosteenSoda · 08/02/2026 14:35

I’ve never traveled with Ryanair before so had only heard of their awfulness.

Trying to book a flight for my disabled dc (not a mobility disability) and myself and the system will only let me select certain seats for the disabled passenger.

It’s giving me an option of two seats to choose from on the whole plane which isn’t very full at all. Moreover, neither seat has an available seat next to it, so it’s effectively trying to get me to book seats several rows apart (at the closest) for me and a non verbal tween.

Just wtaf?

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Treylime · 09/02/2026 08:02

On your photo the seats with the wheelchair logo are window and aisle seats. That seems a bit odd

Jade3450 · 09/02/2026 08:42

SaturdayNext · 09/02/2026 07:52

FFS, do you really know so little about neurodivergence? Try standing in a queue with a non-verbal ND child who becomes massively anxious about queues and waiting as they become increasingly distressed and go into full-blown meltdown and you might understand why a decent society tries to help the parent of that child so he doesn't have to queue.

There’s no need for FFSing.

My point is that a tired 2 or 3yo without autism could just as easily have a meltdown in a queue.
Being in a different queue doesn’t really help.

MangosteenSoda · 09/02/2026 09:12

Treylime · 09/02/2026 08:02

On your photo the seats with the wheelchair logo are window and aisle seats. That seems a bit odd

Indeed. The essence of the thread is that it’s a bit odd/pretty awful to allocate totally unsuitable seats to a disabled child.

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MangosteenSoda · 09/02/2026 09:20

Figcherry · 09/02/2026 08:00

The seat that was greyed out may have been selected for you to sit next to the person needing assistance.
I've always been put next to dm when asking for assistance automatically.

This wasn’t the case. I had to select a seat from the other blue ones.

Of the two seats that were permitted for selection, only one of them had an available seat next to it (when I tried booking again without assistance selected). So I doubt they were automatically giving me the neighbouring seat because there was no indication of that during the process and because it appears that that would only have been possible with one of the seats.

I assume it’s something related to the algorithm, but it’s pretty rubbish and unhelpful.

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Soontobe60 · 09/02/2026 14:19

SaturdayNext · 09/02/2026 07:43

Why not try reading the OP's posts where she explained that she had tried this but couldn't be stuck on the phone whilst working through a queue of 200 whilst looking after her disabled child.

Actually, on the Ryanair website it does say this

  • Assistance type (DPNA): Passenger with cognitive or non-visible disability requiring assistance - select option DPNA. Please contact our Special Assistance team to provide details on the type and level of assistance required
So from that I would assume that customers have to contact their special assistance team.
MangosteenSoda · 09/02/2026 17:19

Soontobe60 · 09/02/2026 14:19

Actually, on the Ryanair website it does say this

  • Assistance type (DPNA): Passenger with cognitive or non-visible disability requiring assistance - select option DPNA. Please contact our Special Assistance team to provide details on the type and level of assistance required
So from that I would assume that customers have to contact their special assistance team.

But they don’t need to be contacted before booking the ticket. Only after, if you need to specify what kind of assistance.

The very next step in the booking process is to confirm that a wheelchair is not needed. Yet RA then went on to restrict him to a choice of two unsuitable seats. That’s all this thread is about, yet you seem determined to imply something else.

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