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Voluntary contribution of £120 for school

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Voiceofreason92 · 07/02/2026 20:25

My son’s school have always asked for a voluntary contribution of £35 per year per child. This year they have decided to up it to £60 per child. I have two children. In the past it’s never been clear what that £35 is going on so have always reluctantly contributed. This year they have asked for money for revamping the year 1 toilets, building a ‘summer house’ style cabin as an intervention room and to support their staffing structure.

since September, it’s been in the newsletter every week saying they still don’t have 100% of families contributing and they would really like it. (Only 50% have) This week a letter came home in my kid’s book bag from the head teacher saying that they noticed I havent paid my £120 contribution and they really think it’s time I contributed for my boys.
AIBU unreasonable for not contributing out of principle that I feel hounded and it’s meant to be voluntary.
(this is a state primary school not a private one)

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Kitte321 · 22/02/2026 20:49

EvieBB · 22/02/2026 20:28

And I'm surprised by how little you understand how some people struggle financially.
Not everyone can afford even a minimal contribution....even if they have worked all their lives....
There's no reason why there shouldn't be sufficient money in pot for education. We pay taxes so that education is free unless we choose to go private.

I’m sorry, but this just isn’t correct. The majority aren’t paying enough tax to cover everything that the state provides. You will
note that I said ‘if a voluntary contribution can be afforded’.
I understand that things are tight for many. But, I also believe that the vast majority could afford a minimal sum if it was a priority. Not everyone BUT most.

Avenueoftrees · 22/02/2026 21:11

@EvieBB Even if we don't do the wealth tax at 15% (which was actually not what I was going for) but 15% of tax on dividends that are 4% of the value of the pot (that's always growing) that's still £9k or more than it costs to educate a child. But let's keep the complication. Let's keep the smoke and mirrors.

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