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To agree with the Guardian about the Netflix coverage of the Lucy letby case?

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justwandered · 04/02/2026 11:49

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/feb/04/the-investigation-of-lucy-letby-review-netflix?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other]]

I honestly don’t think I’ve come across a show in such poor taste before and I am no stranger to stories about murder and the like.

It crosses a huge line in terms of stripping individuals of their dignity.

I don’t plan on watching it but when I turned Netflix on the other night to put a TV show on for my children there it was - horrid and completely unnecessary.

The Investigation of Lucy Letby review – this sensationalist take isn’t what this awful case needs

The broad-brush, emotive telling of the questions around the neonatal nurse’s conviction uses arrest footage that her parents have said ‘would likely kill us’ if they watched. Did her mother’s howl of distress need to be broadcast?

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/feb/04/the-investigation-of-lucy-letby-review-netflix?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other%5D%5D

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Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 04:50

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 04/02/2026 20:24

So why do you think the defence couldn’t provide experts beyond a plumber and couldn’t win their case if there was “no evidence”? Did you follow every part of the case?

How can there be any evidence if no crime has been committed? How do you defend yourself if you’ve done nothing wrong?

mbizzles · 06/02/2026 04:57

To those of you convinced of her guilt I suggest you read the Private Eye special reports on Lucy Letby (available for free online). This is going to turn out to be one of the biggest miscarriages of justice the UK has even seen.

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:05

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 04/02/2026 20:58

Do you have a source for this?
And are you implying that this means the case wasn’t reported on properly? Because contempt of court a really serious crime

What part of Liz Hull’s writing is inaccurate?

I do trust live court reporting actually because the standard is so extremely high and contempt of court is taken so seriously that no journalist would dare misreport what happened in court, unless they wanted to go to jail.

Go look at Lucy Letby analysis which goes into great detail about the trial, there is a section about Liz Hill, think they did FOI from the police. Has very knowledgable guest speakers even people who used to work on the unit.

3tumsnot1 · 06/02/2026 05:10

Aquarius91 · 04/02/2026 15:01

The “poor woman” was convicted in court of murdering multiple children. Sick of internet detectives who know nothing spouting this crap. Think of the poor parents of those babies who have to read this.

You’re a fool who’s clearly very unread.

I would be absolutely fuming if I was one of the parents. To go through this complete fast to protect the NHS from prosecution, when there was clearly neglect at providing sub standard care. Those poor parents could have been compensated by now. Not that that would take the pain away. Instead they are dragged back through this horrendous event over and over again.

expert witness panel states no murder. Just poor care from NHS. Thats it. All circumstantial evidence is just that circumstatial and means nothing.

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:15

nomas · 04/02/2026 21:35

Some things that were interesting in the documentary:

  • that LL organised the handover notes of her designated babies from her shifts in chronological order in a box marked ‘Keep’.So many people defending LL have said that she would have just shoved the handover notes in a bag without much thought. But organising them in chronological order shows there was thought behind it. Not proof or wrongdoing but an interesting update.
  • That there were other notes where she said ‘murder’,’murderer’ and ‘they will never know what happened’, that were not just on the infamous yellow post it note. Again, not necessarily proof but it shows that the public hasn’t seen all the evidence against her.

That is not true they were found in a carrier bag under her bed & in a black bin bag in the garage so obviously not in chronological order maybe together as she emptied her pockets.

3tumsnot1 · 06/02/2026 05:19

FMLGFastMovingLuxuryGoods · 05/02/2026 09:37

Maybe the defence team didn’t get any expert witnesses on the stand because there were none who could reasonably defend her under cross examination. She had a VERY good and reputable defence team, who have apparently refused to answer why they didn’t call any experts. I don’t think it’s dodgy, maybe it’s simply indefensible from an expert POV.

Yes maybe, except the massive panel of international experts in their field who were clearly up for it…..

really? Or she just had a really shit defence team ? Looks like the latter doesn’t it ?

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:20

Oftenaddled · 04/02/2026 22:21

I don't think many nurses would be crying a lot about patients who died 3-5 years after the event. She cried at the time, as parents testified. And she cried for one of them at her trial

People in caring positions shouldn't be expected to bury their own emotions - about their pets, their jobs, their lives - just because they deal with other people's pain and tragedy.

Did anyone ask the consultants whether they cried for the children who died?

I cried with sombody recently remembering a 1 yr old that died after swallowing a penny & choked, I was 18yrs old then now nearing 60yrs old these incidents never leave you.

kkloo · 06/02/2026 05:30

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:20

I cried with sombody recently remembering a 1 yr old that died after swallowing a penny & choked, I was 18yrs old then now nearing 60yrs old these incidents never leave you.

And other people probably think about that same incident and don't cry. Not everyone acts the same.

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:31

CommonlyKnownAs · 05/02/2026 07:35

This is a very important point. People being condemned for not meeting specific emotional display standards in a situation is potentially really disablist. It may not have been in this case, but it will be in some.

Didn’t they say the same about Joanne Lees & the dingo baby mom. That they were emotionless funny how the same is not said about men.

Ponderingpondering · 06/02/2026 05:43

Aquarius91 · 04/02/2026 15:01

The “poor woman” was convicted in court of murdering multiple children. Sick of internet detectives who know nothing spouting this crap. Think of the poor parents of those babies who have to read this.

Yes the poor parents. I feel very sorry for them, but if letby didn’t actually do it I still feel sorry for them . If there is any doubt that the truth is different surely they have a right to know ?

kkloo · 06/02/2026 06:11

Pricelessadvice · 05/02/2026 07:23

Letby’s slightly deadpan demeanour certainly didn’t help her, but as someone who doesn’t react to things how ‘most’ people traditionally do, I get frustrated at the people who are convinced she did it because “she didn’t look sad/upset”
Not everybody reacts to things in identical ways.
It actually wouldn’t surprise me if she has ASD. I’m not normally one to armchair diagnose someone but as someone with Asperger’s myself, I recognise some of the traits.

It's ridiculous because it shouldn't even need to be said.

Someone would have to have been locked up in their house and never met any people or had any life experiences to believe that everyone reacts the same way.

With LL it could easily be trauma rather than ASD, unless you are referring to anything that was said about her earlier life. I believe she did say she was diagnosed with PTSD (maybe someone else can confirm that)

Ponderingpondering · 06/02/2026 06:38

Pricelessadvice · 04/02/2026 18:30

There was a man released recently after spending 40 years in jail for the
murder of that young lady in Birkenhead.
He didn’t do it.

It does happen. It also happens and nothing ever gets done about it.

That poor poor young women’s family hasn’t had justice and the poor poor man who soent his whole life in prison. If there are doubts ( i don’t know enough about the LL case to have an opinion) things do need to be looked at quickly.

alittleprivacy · 06/02/2026 06:44

Aquarius91 · 04/02/2026 15:01

The “poor woman” was convicted in court of murdering multiple children. Sick of internet detectives who know nothing spouting this crap. Think of the poor parents of those babies who have to read this.

The Birmingham Six, The Guilford Four, along with many in Gerry Connolly's family, and The Bridgewater Three were all convicted in court too. The British justice system has an extreme history of a 'convict someone, anyone' policy in highly publicised cases.

rubbishatballet · 06/02/2026 06:51

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 02:36

Think it was more vindictive than that, she complained about care they bullied her for 2 years she then took out a grievance against them & was found in her favour they were made to apologise to her. Then they ( doctors) went to police without management input to force the situation. There had been 2 investigations & no evidence found.

I’m not aware that she had formally complained about care on the unit other than raising a few datixes (which is very common and everyone is required to do if they become aware of something, however minor, which might compromise patient safety or result in loss or damage to property).

Her grievance related to the fact that she had been moved off the unit. How had the consultants bullied her other than raising concerns to the trust management that she might be linked to the deaths?

And the consultants did not go to the police without management input, it was trust management who made first contact.

EricTheHalfASleeve · 06/02/2026 07:05

kkloo · 06/02/2026 02:12

Impossible to know really.
Wasn't her first ever one kept pristine in some special box away from the rest of them?

She said she loved her job so perhaps when she accidentally brought them home she kept them because she was proud she did such a great job.

But then if that were true and she admitted that then it would be jumped on as narcissistic and proof that they were 'trophies' even though they were trophies of a different kind.

Presumably she was just putting them in the box in the order she found them which is why they were in chronological order

Taking home 1 handover sheet - easy to do but shows carelessness. Nurses don't have (or shouldn't have) their personal bag on the ward, and should change in and out of uniform in the hospital changing rooms. To leave accidentally with a handover sheet means they have had it in uniform pocket and been careless. Equally easy to take it back on their next shift and put in confidential waste.

To accumulate many handover sheets at home is very clearly deliberate and any member of staff doing that is breaching patient confidentiality and hospital policy.

CommonlyKnownAs · 06/02/2026 07:07

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 05:31

Didn’t they say the same about Joanne Lees & the dingo baby mom. That they were emotionless funny how the same is not said about men.

Isn't it just.

And it's particularly disappointing when this sort of pig ignorant sexism comes from other women.

rubbishatballet · 06/02/2026 07:12

Catpuss66 · 06/02/2026 03:19

The point is a lot of us aren’t uninformed, lots of us have worked in this field & feel that this is an unsafe conviction, greater experts then Dr Evans have reviewed the evidence & said there were no murders, there was poor medical care but the deaths of these very sick babies were natural like the original pathologist said.

It is not for the panel to determine that there were no murders. They may have put forward alternative explanations for the babies’ deaths and collapses but that is just their opinion and doesn’t by default mean that the prosecution case was wrong either. It also does not take into account any of the other circumstantial evidence that built a much fuller picture of what happened.

Ironically, in being so vocal about her supposed innocence a good number have the panel have now ruled themselves out of being able to give evidence if there were ever a retrial. It may also be a problem for them with the CCRC too.

Pricelessadvice · 06/02/2026 07:20

alittleprivacy · 06/02/2026 06:44

The Birmingham Six, The Guilford Four, along with many in Gerry Connolly's family, and The Bridgewater Three were all convicted in court too. The British justice system has an extreme history of a 'convict someone, anyone' policy in highly publicised cases.

Your last line really hit home. It was something I realised about the British justice system when I was in my twenties and it shocked me.
In high profile cases, the pressure is on to secure a conviction. It becomes less about making sure it’s the right person and more about getting a conviction fast, even if the evidence isn’t solid. We see evidence of this time and time again.
Then once they get it to court, it becomes a battle of egos between defence and prosecution.
You can’t rely on truth prevailing, and when people say “if a person is innocent, they have nothing to worry about”, they are seriously naive.

Pricelessadvice · 06/02/2026 07:25

fartotheleftside · 06/02/2026 01:53

Imagine thinking that someone murdered your baby. Not only that your most precious thing is now gone, but that someone purposely made them suffer and ended their life. It’s beyond comprehension.

then imagine being told that that maybe isn’t true after all, they died from inadequate care and you’ve been lied to.

it’s really messed up, both options are horrible. I feel awful for the parents.

This is why it’s so important that the truth comes out, whatever it is. These parents deserve to know why they lost their children. Imagine thinking that your child’s killer is locked up, when in reality it was due to the severe failings at the hospital, which they’ve gone to great lengths to cover up.
The whole thing is a mess.

rubbishatballet · 06/02/2026 07:26

3tumsnot1 · 06/02/2026 05:19

Yes maybe, except the massive panel of international experts in their field who were clearly up for it…..

really? Or she just had a really shit defence team ? Looks like the latter doesn’t it ?

She had one of the best criminal KCs in the country defending her.

bigboykitty · 06/02/2026 08:08

@rubbishatballet but they failed to call an expert witness to challenge the evidence given by the prosecution's "expert" witness. A fundamental failure.

Hoardasurass · 06/02/2026 08:16

rubbishatballet · 06/02/2026 07:12

It is not for the panel to determine that there were no murders. They may have put forward alternative explanations for the babies’ deaths and collapses but that is just their opinion and doesn’t by default mean that the prosecution case was wrong either. It also does not take into account any of the other circumstantial evidence that built a much fuller picture of what happened.

Ironically, in being so vocal about her supposed innocence a good number have the panel have now ruled themselves out of being able to give evidence if there were ever a retrial. It may also be a problem for them with the CCRC too.

The original pathologist found that they died from natural causes. The panel mearly agree with those findings.
The only person who said murder was the prosecution "expert" who is not a pathologist nor a neonatal specialist whos "expert opinion" has been found to be absolutely bs in more than 1 other case and is known for tailoring his testimony to what is required for the team who are paying him. He also claimed that she had killed other babies in the same manner but those deaths were dropped when it was proved that she wasn't even on the ward those days, 1 of which has just had an inquest which found that the baby died from an untreated water born infection.
The claims that she was responsible for excess deaths at her previous hospital have all been dropped, the police couldn't find anyone to agree that she was linked to any of the excess deaths or that they were from anything but natural causes.
The dr who testified lied either on the stand or in all of his witness statements as none of them correspond with each other, the door entry data was false and you didn't even need to swipe in.
Basically the case should have never made it to a crt let alone a conviction as there are far to inconsistencies, contradictions and unanswered questions.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 06/02/2026 08:22

All the comments about her emotional presentation or lack of it really grind my gears.

I happen to know, from bitter cumulative experience, that prolonged periods of stress and trauma do very weird things to a person. It is medical fact that neurological pathways get re-wired, the brain physically changes as a form of self defence. It can be seen on scans. That's how it's known about, it's neuroplasticity.

Years of being bullied and under suspicion can lead to CPTSD. The brain goes into survival mode. Hypervigilance and paranoia are big features. After a while numbness can set in.

Crying or not crying is not a good indicator of guilt or how a person thinks or feels.

A couple of months after Iost my DP, the absolute most crushing blow on top of years of unexpected and difficult life events, I bumped into someone who knew him through his work, in a pub. They were celebrating their birthday and extremely drunk. I was not. They wept and wailed on my shoulder for nearly half an hour, while I stood dry eyed feeling completely semi-detached. And I'm sure they wondered how or why I wasn't falling apart, because to be fair I was wondering that too. But I couldn't just turn on the tears because a performance might be seen as appropriate.

When I was under scrutiny for three years, I read reports that criticised me for being too emotional - I was six weeks post partum after a traumatic birth and brwildered, terrified for my DC and angry. Down the line when I'd pulled myself together for the fight of my life, I was criticised for being too cold and analytical - but still angry. I could not win.And neither can Lucy Letby.

At that point what they didn't see was me sitting in cold baths at 3am because I truly believed I was going to self combust, because if what was hapoening was possible, so was every unlikely / impossible thing . And I couldn't even seek help or support for that because it would have given them another weapon to use in their quest to prove I was an unstable and unfit mother, because much like Lucy Letby, all their "evidence" was based on "medical opinion". I've written about it elsewhere on here if anyone wants to look. And I don't care if people think I'm lying, or biased, I have the receipts and I fucking lived it, and barely survived.

On this forum, people are very quick to criticise posters who claim they are shaking and crying for any reason. They are accused of lack of resilience. People are very quick to project how they imagine they would react or behave in certain situations. Certain experiences soon provide unwelcome enlightenment that everyone is different, and while crying might be a typical or expected reaction to certain things, sometimes a person doesn't for multiple complex reasons. We are complex individuals and much as we like to think we know it all, we really don't

Hoardasurass · 06/02/2026 08:51

MistressoftheDarkSide · 06/02/2026 08:22

All the comments about her emotional presentation or lack of it really grind my gears.

I happen to know, from bitter cumulative experience, that prolonged periods of stress and trauma do very weird things to a person. It is medical fact that neurological pathways get re-wired, the brain physically changes as a form of self defence. It can be seen on scans. That's how it's known about, it's neuroplasticity.

Years of being bullied and under suspicion can lead to CPTSD. The brain goes into survival mode. Hypervigilance and paranoia are big features. After a while numbness can set in.

Crying or not crying is not a good indicator of guilt or how a person thinks or feels.

A couple of months after Iost my DP, the absolute most crushing blow on top of years of unexpected and difficult life events, I bumped into someone who knew him through his work, in a pub. They were celebrating their birthday and extremely drunk. I was not. They wept and wailed on my shoulder for nearly half an hour, while I stood dry eyed feeling completely semi-detached. And I'm sure they wondered how or why I wasn't falling apart, because to be fair I was wondering that too. But I couldn't just turn on the tears because a performance might be seen as appropriate.

When I was under scrutiny for three years, I read reports that criticised me for being too emotional - I was six weeks post partum after a traumatic birth and brwildered, terrified for my DC and angry. Down the line when I'd pulled myself together for the fight of my life, I was criticised for being too cold and analytical - but still angry. I could not win.And neither can Lucy Letby.

At that point what they didn't see was me sitting in cold baths at 3am because I truly believed I was going to self combust, because if what was hapoening was possible, so was every unlikely / impossible thing . And I couldn't even seek help or support for that because it would have given them another weapon to use in their quest to prove I was an unstable and unfit mother, because much like Lucy Letby, all their "evidence" was based on "medical opinion". I've written about it elsewhere on here if anyone wants to look. And I don't care if people think I'm lying, or biased, I have the receipts and I fucking lived it, and barely survived.

On this forum, people are very quick to criticise posters who claim they are shaking and crying for any reason. They are accused of lack of resilience. People are very quick to project how they imagine they would react or behave in certain situations. Certain experiences soon provide unwelcome enlightenment that everyone is different, and while crying might be a typical or expected reaction to certain things, sometimes a person doesn't for multiple complex reasons. We are complex individuals and much as we like to think we know it all, we really don't

I'm so sorry you went through that.
I've been questioned by people including the police over my lack of tears and obvious grief when a family member died unexpectedly (massive brain aneurism dead before he hit the ground). I am asd and rarely cry, I either shutdown completely or just go numb, cold and analytical when it comes to grief as I just can't emotionally deal with it. Yet the police and others judged me for it even after the autopsy came back i didn't get an apology just got blamed for my "suspicious affect". Noone could understand why a 17 year old kid with asd might not react as expected when their grandfather literally dropped dead infront of them.
The only person who showed any compassion was the pathologist who I guess has seen just about every type of grief out there and recognised that I was still in shock.
I really wish people would stop judging people for not crying or behaving as they deem appropriate.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 06/02/2026 09:04

Hoardasurass · 06/02/2026 08:51

I'm so sorry you went through that.
I've been questioned by people including the police over my lack of tears and obvious grief when a family member died unexpectedly (massive brain aneurism dead before he hit the ground). I am asd and rarely cry, I either shutdown completely or just go numb, cold and analytical when it comes to grief as I just can't emotionally deal with it. Yet the police and others judged me for it even after the autopsy came back i didn't get an apology just got blamed for my "suspicious affect". Noone could understand why a 17 year old kid with asd might not react as expected when their grandfather literally dropped dead infront of them.
The only person who showed any compassion was the pathologist who I guess has seen just about every type of grief out there and recognised that I was still in shock.
I really wish people would stop judging people for not crying or behaving as they deem appropriate.

Thank you, and a big unashamed virtual hug coming your way. You would hope that professionals in such roles could recognise shock, because it's not just an emotional response, it's completely physiological and can have severe consequences, lasting for a long time until the system can regulate itself - the support offered - or not - has a big influence on that. I am so sorry you had to go through all that x

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