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People walking on treadmills in the gym

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crinklechips · 04/02/2026 11:00

OK to start with I know I'm being a bit U but I need to have a mini-rant.

I use currently use the gym mainly for running intervals and speedier sessions which are easier to manage indoors.

Every time I go in all the treadmills are taken, and mostly by people walking.

Now I can totally understand that people have different fitness levels, might be using the treadmill to warm up or for recovery and that's absolutely fine.

But there seems to a growing number of people (actually, exclusively younger women in my observation) just using the treadmills for a gentle stroll while messing around on their phones.

I ended up next to a young woman last night who spent the entire half hour I was on the neighbouring treadmill walking at 3kph, no incline, while scrolling instagram. I can barely call that exercise, it's below a normal walking pace. If that's how you want to kill time then I guess it's up to you but it just seems selfish when there's a queue of people waiting for a treadmill.

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Topseyt123 · 04/02/2026 16:42

You often cannot tell by looking at someone what medical conditions they have.

My DH has a degenerative, life limiting neurological condition. It isn't outwardly obvious at present (though that will probably change). If he used a treadmill he would have to walk on it as he wouldn't be stable enough to run. I would hope that people would not sit in judgement on him for doing that.

The walking would really just to keep actually being able to move for as long as possible. How would you be able to tell that from just looking at him?

Also, these other people have paid to use the gym just as you have. They are allowed to use the equipment in a manner that suits them.

MatronPomfrey · 04/02/2026 16:43

I was a walker following spinal surgery, now back to running. I think gyms should have a maximum time you can use cardio equipment at busy times, maybe 20 minutes. It’s isn’t what they’re doing, it is how long they’re using the equipment.

Riverz · 04/02/2026 16:43

Fulmine · 04/02/2026 16:01

When people talking about only having a limited amount of time available to use a gym, I do wonder why they bother at all. They have to go through all the faff of getting there, clocking in, going to the changing rooms, changing and putting your stuff away, then showering and changing again after their class or workout and getting back for whatever they're supposed to be doing afterwards. That means you use at least 20 minutes of the limited time you have available on peripherals, and you are paying a lot of money for the privilege. Whereas you could have a run from your doorstep in the mornings and spend more time actually exercising, all for virtually no cost at all. Seems like a no brainer when it comes to making the choice.

I do run near my house for this reason unless the weather is so dire I can’t face it and I tend to use the gym for weights. I prefer outdoor running but it’s just not always practical.

Being time poor is just a life phase, usually late 30’s-50’s then you get some of your time back again.. I am just adapting to my time poor life and just look on enviously to all the younguns who have so much freedom.. no point judging them over it, but also no point judging me as to ‘what’s the point’ I’m trying my best the same as everyone else! If I want to ram gym into my crazy life then that’s my own issue and not your concern

Bryonyberries · 04/02/2026 16:43

I have knee issues so would be walking on them rather than running but the gentle exercise would be important to my joint health.

Sartre · 04/02/2026 16:44

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 04/02/2026 11:48

Go outside and run. It's the same as going outside to walk only faster.

I do run outside all of the time unless it’s icy but during that period it made more sense to do it in the work gym so I could access the lockers, changing rooms and showers. It was the only way I could fit it in around work. I’d do it on my lunch break or if I had a gap between lectures.

SummerHouse · 04/02/2026 16:45

I think you are reasonable op. It's not like you are elbowing them off, just a bit miffed that they are hogging treadmills. I think it would be annoying if Paula Radcliffe herself came in and ran a marathon. People are waiting Paula!

Catza · 04/02/2026 16:45

FreeTheOakTree · 04/02/2026 15:54

Machines love, not free weights. Whilst I have understood your need to belittle what I said, I know the difference between the machine use I am talking about vs someone who dead-lifts their body weight.

It makes not difference whether it is deadlifting own weight or doing 0.5kg lateral shoulder raise. If the load is challenging for the individual, they need to recover properly before the next set. I don't know what you do that you only need 20second rest. I say, you are probably not working at the right intensity.

ThatCyanCat · 04/02/2026 16:45

This is my point better expressed - I think it's a reflection of poor gym etiquette.

Poor gym etiquette is thinking other people have to pass your purity tests on the machines to be worthy of using them when you're there too.

And if you really think that poster is expressing your thoughts but better, that's no good thing; she thinks people shouldn't socialise at the gym nor use the machines at a speed or incline that doesn't meet her approval. Don't look there for gym etiquette.

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 16:47

Pistachiocake · 04/02/2026 16:31

Some gyms do have a ten minute limit on certain machines, so those who want a quick sprint can do so, and those who want to walk for ages can. This might be a policy you would like, and you could research other gyms in your area.
But I have been the super gym bunny who could outrun most people-and also that person who could hardly manage to put one foot in front of the other, when I'd recently had an operation. Being superfit today doesn't guarantee you won't be the one struggling tomorrow. They might feel safer/warmer being in the gym, just like runners often prefer the treadmills to running outside.
You could join some of the aerobics classes, then you'll get your full workout done without having to wait for anyone.

I've been at both ends of the spectrum too and TBH I'd find it a bit frustrating whether I was there to do physio-mandated rehab or to run flat-out.

I've been at better gyms before that have more active management but this happens to be where my DC have lessons so I just use it for convenience, and I'm following a specific training plan for an event at the moment so I'll just grumble to myself until it's done and then I won't need to worry about it again!

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tilypu · 04/02/2026 16:48

Would you criticise people for not lifting heavy enough weights if you were waiting for that equipment?

If there aren't enough treadmills available at you gym when you want them, either try a different gym or try a different time.

Would you think it ok for someone waiting for the treadmill you were using to be annoyed at you, because they wanted to use it faster?

tilypu · 04/02/2026 16:49

Cross post!

NemesisInferior · 04/02/2026 16:50

I do have some degree of sympathy for OP - in a busy gym it can be frustrating if it looks like people are just fannying around on machines - but everyone has paid for access to the gym and so it is what is, and of course what is low intensity for one person is high intensity to another. At busy times people do need to know to limit their time though.

There is, however, a special place in hell reserved for users of weights machines who hog the machines for ages between sets and refuse to let others work in.

MNdrama · 04/02/2026 16:51

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 14:05

I know I'm being U for presuming to assume anything about about what anyone individually is able to do based on their appearance.

But I might be surprised if the demographic of people using blue badge spaces shifted significantly to people in their 20s and (in so far as I can stretch the analogy) this is this shift that's happened in the gym.

It's not for me to judge what any one person is or isn't doing on the treadmill but I've been asking myself the question "why are there now so many people using the treadmills for prolonged periods of very slow walking?". When I last used the gym regularly (which is well over a decade ago!) it wasn't the case.

If you know you're being unreasonable, why did you even post this in the first place?

Pasta4Dinner · 04/02/2026 16:53

There’s a guy on mine that does a walk whilst on the phone. Whatever. Except he goes on the specialist running treadmill to do it, there’s only one! He is just doing a slow flat walk, it’s a waste of equipment.

Theres also a pair of sisters who come to basically socialise and chat. Which would be fine but they are the rudest people alive, pressurising people to come off equipment (and then not really using it) huffing because people are using the cleaning spray. I don’t know why they don’t just go to a cafe.

ladyamy · 04/02/2026 16:56

It annoys me when people sit on the equipment talking to their pals or wherever, taking it up for someone wishing to use it. When people are actually using the machines, I couldn’t care less they do. Jeez 🤦🏻‍♀️

WitchesCauldron · 04/02/2026 16:59

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 11:00

OK to start with I know I'm being a bit U but I need to have a mini-rant.

I use currently use the gym mainly for running intervals and speedier sessions which are easier to manage indoors.

Every time I go in all the treadmills are taken, and mostly by people walking.

Now I can totally understand that people have different fitness levels, might be using the treadmill to warm up or for recovery and that's absolutely fine.

But there seems to a growing number of people (actually, exclusively younger women in my observation) just using the treadmills for a gentle stroll while messing around on their phones.

I ended up next to a young woman last night who spent the entire half hour I was on the neighbouring treadmill walking at 3kph, no incline, while scrolling instagram. I can barely call that exercise, it's below a normal walking pace. If that's how you want to kill time then I guess it's up to you but it just seems selfish when there's a queue of people waiting for a treadmill.

Completely agree- what's mad is these people drive to the gym and then just walk. Seems a bit daft to me...

Newbutoldfather · 04/02/2026 17:02

I agree with you OP.

There is gym etiquette, especially when the gym is busy.

In the same way, you don’t sit on a popular weight machine scrolling on your phone, treadmills are for meaningful exercise over a sensible period of time.

I have every admiration of an unfit person pushing themselves by walking hard and improving their fitness. Everyone has to start somewhere!

However, having a slow walk and playing on your phone isn’t working out and isn’t what a gym membership is for.

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 17:02

tilypu · 04/02/2026 16:48

Would you criticise people for not lifting heavy enough weights if you were waiting for that equipment?

If there aren't enough treadmills available at you gym when you want them, either try a different gym or try a different time.

Would you think it ok for someone waiting for the treadmill you were using to be annoyed at you, because they wanted to use it faster?

It's more like if someone was just dicking about on the equipment between sets rather than letting someone else take a turn.

I've said right since the first post that I've got no issue with people walking slowly because that's what they need to do for their health, but it's a bit irritating if it feels people are just doing it to fill time hanging out in the gym - not that I object to people hanging out in the gym but there's loads of equipment they could use to hang out on which doesn't have a queue waiting to use it).

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nomas · 04/02/2026 17:06

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 17:02

It's more like if someone was just dicking about on the equipment between sets rather than letting someone else take a turn.

I've said right since the first post that I've got no issue with people walking slowly because that's what they need to do for their health, but it's a bit irritating if it feels people are just doing it to fill time hanging out in the gym - not that I object to people hanging out in the gym but there's loads of equipment they could use to hang out on which doesn't have a queue waiting to use it).

Walking at 3km ph is not 'dicking about'. It's still movement.

Multitrickpony · 04/02/2026 17:07

It's VVU to complain about people moving too slowly on the treadmill as many others have already said. However, it's not U at all for a gym to limit total time on cardio equipment at busy times to e.g. 20 minutes, I've been a member of a gym that did this and it helped quite a bit. Perhaps talking to the gym management might be a way forward for you?

BitOutOfPractice · 04/02/2026 17:07

Dilemma87 · 04/02/2026 16:31

There’s actually quite a bit of research suggesting that walking and hitting around 10k steps a day can be really effective for fat loss compared to lots of intense cardio. There’s also growing research around how high intensity workouts can affect women’s hormones and how that can show visually on the body, but obviously it’s very individual and depends on the person.

If you’re office based or working from home it can be hard to get steps in, so I often add them in after a heavy weights session. It sounds like you might just be going at a particularly busy time at the moment too and we’re still in the thick of the January gym crowd.

You could always try swapping to the bike or doing some cardio alongside weights during that time so it’s not wasted and still keep running for when it’s quieter.

I’d love to see this research. Can you link?

Jenkibuble · 04/02/2026 17:08

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 11:00

OK to start with I know I'm being a bit U but I need to have a mini-rant.

I use currently use the gym mainly for running intervals and speedier sessions which are easier to manage indoors.

Every time I go in all the treadmills are taken, and mostly by people walking.

Now I can totally understand that people have different fitness levels, might be using the treadmill to warm up or for recovery and that's absolutely fine.

But there seems to a growing number of people (actually, exclusively younger women in my observation) just using the treadmills for a gentle stroll while messing around on their phones.

I ended up next to a young woman last night who spent the entire half hour I was on the neighbouring treadmill walking at 3kph, no incline, while scrolling instagram. I can barely call that exercise, it's below a normal walking pace. If that's how you want to kill time then I guess it's up to you but it just seems selfish when there's a queue of people waiting for a treadmill.

I empathise (I run on them too) , but equally at least they are doing SOME exercise and taking some personal responsibility !

I find it bizarre how people can not take a break from the socials for such a brief time though . This is worrying !

I suspect the January NY resolutioners will quit soon though and the queues will be less !

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 04/02/2026 17:09

A thread bashing people who go to the gym and don't meet your high standards. How original.

I walk on the treadmill to warm up and cool down. I also look at my phone, I'll watch tennis or rugby. I'll do what I want and mind my own business, maybe you should do the same.

crinklechips · 04/02/2026 17:11

Newbutoldfather · 04/02/2026 17:02

I agree with you OP.

There is gym etiquette, especially when the gym is busy.

In the same way, you don’t sit on a popular weight machine scrolling on your phone, treadmills are for meaningful exercise over a sensible period of time.

I have every admiration of an unfit person pushing themselves by walking hard and improving their fitness. Everyone has to start somewhere!

However, having a slow walk and playing on your phone isn’t working out and isn’t what a gym membership is for.

Yes, basically this. And I completely understand that appropriate exercise for some people isn't going to look like they're pushing themselves and I haven't got insight into who has an invisible disability or health condition. But I don't think that there are so many young women in my area with health limitations to account for the number who only stroll-and-scroll.

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PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 04/02/2026 17:13

It's more like if someone was just dicking about on the equipment between sets rather than letting someone else take a turn.

It isn't, they're active. Unless you're saying some people are just using the treadmill as a leaning post and not moving at all.

I'm sure the big strong people wish I'd piss off when I take a prime position in their preferred area, lifting my unimpressive weights. But it's tough shit isn't it? That's what I want to do and I won't be intimidated or made to feel like I shouldn't be exercising in a way that I'm comfortable with.

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