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to absolutely hate the how people are speaking English!

539 replies

exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:35

I really hate how we have "suddenly" starting gifting presents rather than giving them as we did only a couple of years ago. Vacations - when did we start having vacations instead of holidays?????? The other day I saw an advert for pants - turned out to be trousers. Apparently when I speak to someone it is now liaising & if I call or text, I am reaching out..... the other day someone was talking about the front end, or as I prefer to call it - the beginning!!🙄

Dont get me wrong, I love the evolution of language & that generations make it their own but this isn't that this is not teenagers or cultures developing own language its...... weird management/pop psychology speak

is it just me??

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Echobelly · 03/02/2026 16:38

The worst thing is when fashion editors describe a pair of trousers as 'a pant' . Seriously.

CeciliaMars · 03/02/2026 16:38

I think if you're going to complain about incorrect English, you should proof-read your title.
Other than that, most people I know wear trousers and go on holidays.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 03/02/2026 16:39
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I get what you mean

I HATE when female influencers use Americanisms and use an American accent

Icky and worrying

that said, I do use the word ‘ick’ so am I really any better 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Badatmostthings · 03/02/2026 16:39

Always been pants for trousers in the NW

exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:39

CeciliaMars · 03/02/2026 16:38

I think if you're going to complain about incorrect English, you should proof-read your title.
Other than that, most people I know wear trousers and go on holidays.

ha ha!! good point. I stand corrected but only on the lack of proof reading

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BitOutOfPractice · 03/02/2026 16:40

Hmm, maybe check your own SPAG before berating others.

I don’t hear people using any of those phrases irl. Are you referring to online people op?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/02/2026 16:41

The irony of the typo in your title😀

Language evolves. We watch a lot of american TV/films/etc so americanisms are going to creep in.

In fairness though, I'm Irish and was utterly bemused when I realised pants means knickers in British English. Pants are trousers in hiberno english.

I'm 100% with you on corporate speak. It's a while since I left industry for academia so the buzz words have probably changed but no, I do not want to get in to bed with you, thanks all the same. The idea is really not sexy and no, I'm not reaching out to anyone as that could be considered inappropriate behaviour. I will, however, contact them.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 03/02/2026 16:41
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Ugh I also hate when influencers tap the product they’re showing me with their nails

let me stop just listing my pet peeves 😅

BitOutOfPractice · 03/02/2026 16:41

mumofoneAloneandwell · 03/02/2026 16:39

I get what you mean

I HATE when female influencers use Americanisms and use an American accent

Icky and worrying

that said, I do use the word ‘ick’ so am I really any better 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Is it only women who annoy you? And what If they happen to be American. Personally I find posting an only marginally relevant gif more annoying.

exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:42

Badatmostthings · 03/02/2026 16:39

Always been pants for trousers in the NW

in the NW?? North West?? Lancaster or Cumbria?

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OchonAgusOchonOh · 03/02/2026 16:44

Echobelly · 03/02/2026 16:38

The worst thing is when fashion editors describe a pair of trousers as 'a pant' . Seriously.

Do you only get one leg in the pant?

Interestingly enough, we would use pants here for trousers but a women's suit would be a trouser suit rather than a pants suit. If using trousers, it would be a pair of trousers but pants would be just pants.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 03/02/2026 16:44

BitOutOfPractice · 03/02/2026 16:41

Is it only women who annoy you? And what If they happen to be American. Personally I find posting an only marginally relevant gif more annoying.

shocked kim kardashian GIF

Oh, say how you really feel @BitOutOfPractice !!

fwiw, if they are American, I obviously don’t hate them being American

and fwiw also I only really follow women so it’s women who annoy me! The gay make up men I follow don’t really do that 🤷‍♀️

JamesClyman · 03/02/2026 16:45

YANBU. There is no such word in English as "gotten". It's "got"!

exse24Londoner · 03/02/2026 16:45

BitOutOfPractice · 03/02/2026 16:40

Hmm, maybe check your own SPAG before berating others.

I don’t hear people using any of those phrases irl. Are you referring to online people op?

yes, I have already been picked up on my lack of proof reading (which I can't edit) though that was an error rather than a deliberate choice of words - there will certainly be more!

no, I don't refer to on-line - this is real life

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OvernightBloats · 03/02/2026 16:47

Saying 'pissed' instead of 'pissed off' is something that grates. More and more people are using it and I get confused with what they mean. Pissed will always mean drunk to me.

Astra53 · 03/02/2026 16:47

The use of the word 'homicide' has crept in. I thought we had 'murders' in the UK!

NimbleMoose · 03/02/2026 16:47

My DB uses a lot of Americanisms and it does really annoy me. Sidewalk, store, gotten, trash bag, vacation.. so many!

Mithral · 03/02/2026 16:47

JamesClyman · 03/02/2026 16:45

YANBU. There is no such word in English as "gotten". It's "got"!

It's just fallen out of fashion, we used to use it. It's funny we retained forgotten.

Toddlerteaplease · 03/02/2026 16:48

One of my colleagues says ‘elevator’ and ‘vit-a-mins, she also pronounces the letter Z as Zee. It makes my teeth itch.

Lovelynames123 · 03/02/2026 16:48

Definitely been using pants in the NE for trousers for years, jogging pants, ski pants, pyjama pants...my pet peeve is " can I get...." when ordering, although do sometimes hear myself say it!

Rayburn · 03/02/2026 16:48

JamesClyman · 03/02/2026 16:45

YANBU. There is no such word in English as "gotten". It's "got"!

Tell that to Shakespeare.

MrsPenelopeBridgerton · 03/02/2026 16:49

Is your title satire? Otherwise I’m embarrassed for you.

5128gap · 03/02/2026 16:50

I think when new phrases enter our orbit they sound strange and irritating. Then if they stick, rather than being a passing trend, we become accustomed to them. I remember finding give someone 'a call' affected when it first started replacing giving someone 'a ring', but now its just normal.

BitOutOfPractice · 03/02/2026 16:50

JamesClyman · 03/02/2026 16:45

YANBU. There is no such word in English as "gotten". It's "got"!

I await your right royal flaming from lots of Scottish MNers as gotten is in common parlance there.

tiredlazydoesntmatter · 03/02/2026 16:51

Hard agree/ disagree irritates me ,only on MN .

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