Spent the afternoon with them, food was laid out couple of people helped themselves , I got some for dd then me. One person asked why I didn’t serve everyone and then got someone else to get my dh food. (Dh said no he’d get himself) They then asked would I serve everyone at my house I said I didn’t know probably (we were not at my home we were at her home) Everyone else served themselves or their kids and she never said a word to them.
later she made a comment about a health issue I have saying I need to “try harder” to get better. She has no idea how hard I work to improve my health issues yet she assumes I’m doing nothing/ not enough.
My son (who is disabled) was singing to himself (quietly and not near anyone/at the table) dn (who was running around) kept running up to adults say DS was singing they told him ‘he’s just being annoying’ and to ignore him.
This was all in the space of a couple hours I really don’t enjoy going and find it stressful but dh says they don’t mean anything. Aibu to find this stressful or should I just put up?