My daughter, 10 has autism and ADHD all traits seen at home and school. Waiting for assessment. Has been bullied by another kid in school since September. I've been in multiple times with no resolve. So I've now told her if she hits you, stand up for yourself hit her back. So the mum's gone to school and complained because I've told my kid to stand up for herself and she heard me. The head is fully aware where I stand in this and is trying to push blame onto my child. She needs routine but there has been supply's in the last 2 week to help with sats. This supply doesn't listen. He has shouted at my daughter for trying to stick to the "agreement" that the head put in place to separate them. But he's paired them in pe, made them sit together in class and made my daughter go to the back when she's been told to go to the front. She's tried to explain with no avail he just ignored her have her a c1 for answering back. Then the head told her off for not sticking to the "agreement" and just walked of didn't wait for a response and blatantly lied to my face saying that didn't happen. My younger daughter has an absolutely amazing teacher and I don't want to take her out as she's only just got settled. I'm at the point I'm ready to pull her out she went in absolutely crying her eyes out sat in a corner rocking. But she has sats soon and she's already struggling. I'm at my wits end, was stood outside school crying myself with it today. Please help me or advise me.