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AIBU?

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Calling Manchester Mumsnetters…

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MimiGC · 29/01/2026 10:33

AIBU to worry about my daughter visiting Manchester City Centre alone, at night? She’s arriving early evening, but it will be dark. She will have to walk from Manchester Piccadilly to a nearby hotel, which should only take 5 mins or so, but she doesn’t know the way, so will have her phone out , following Google maps.
I know I sound ridiculously over protective, but the last time I visited Manchester myself (2019), I had a short walk at night from the train station and was approached/accosted by about 5-6 different male beggars, asking for money, a few quite persistent. I was with another woman at the time and we were both quite startled by the experience. I grew up in London and still visit regularly, but had not experienced anything like that before.
My DD has only ever lived in a very safe, small town and is not really streetwise…the next morning she has to make her way to a Manchester Met Uni building on Oxford Road. I’ve suggested a taxi, but any tips for alternatives would be appreciated.
Is it comfortable/safe for a young woman alone in Manchester at night? I know the city is full of girls and women who live there, so I’m aware I’m sounding a bit ridiculous, but I guess I am asking what is the reality and how can I prepare her?

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CharlotteFlax · 31/01/2026 02:43

Friendlygingercat · 31/01/2026 01:38

She can take a taxi from the station straight to her hotel. Part of the Bee bus network travels free between the main line stations in a loop so she could use that. There will be plenty of people around at the time when your DD is arriving so no worries. I lived near Manchetsre city center when I first arrived for uni and was on a very tough council estate. As for the beggers I always walked swiftly past without making eye contact. Dont feel bad about this. Many of them are not genuine homeless - especially in the city center. Picadilly Gardens can be intimidating so best to keep her phone out of sight and valuables close.

A taxi would take her longer to get there than by foot. She's staying at Motel One which you can see from the station - and she doesn't have to go via Piccadilly Gardens to get there.

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 31/01/2026 02:49

She will be fine!
Airpods in with maps giving directions so no need for her phone to be out.

Freya1542 · 31/01/2026 02:49

MimiGC · 30/01/2026 23:15

Thanks, I did look on google maps today. She’s staying at the Motel One Piccadilly and on google maps the entrance is shown as Whitworth St, but the actual address is London Road, so that’s confusing for a start! I tried a virtual walk, but couldn’t follow it easily. I’m assuming there is more than one exit from the train station, as it’s a really big one, so maybe that’s where I went wrong.

@MimiGC have your daughter download citymapper

eta; she can keep her phone in her bag/pocket and listen to audible directions with earbuds

Freya1542 · 31/01/2026 03:05

this is route from hotel to MMU 16min walk or 13min by bus

DeftGoldHedgehog · 31/01/2026 03:14

Around Piccadilly was supposed to be really dodgy in the early 1990s but I never had any problems even then. It's a lot smarter now.

ThePoetsWife · 31/01/2026 06:51

She needs to leave via the back way - to the taxi rank and it’s much quieter and safer that way as well as more convenient for the hotel

Mt563 · 31/01/2026 07:03

Motel one is almost inside picadilly, you could barely get closer. If she follows the directions the previous poster gave, she be outside for about 2 minutes max and nowhere near picadilly gardens

Mykittensaremyfriends · 31/01/2026 10:34

Your daughter will be fine walking to her hotel but she shouldn't walk with her phone out she needs to put in one ear bud and have her phone tucked away out of site. The city is busy even on an evening so she won't be alone on the streets. Stick to the main streets and don't walk directly through Piccadilly Gardens as it is a bit notorious for being a hang out for sketchy characters. Everywhere else is fine. She doesn't need to get a bus or taxi to the uni either. Depending on where she's staying it'll be a 10-15 min walk to Oxford Road. It's easy to navigate and very busy. Look at google maps before she goes so she's familiar with her route

MimiGC · 31/01/2026 10:42

Bubobubo · 31/01/2026 00:43

I do live in a city - not London and Ubers are really cheap in Manchester and very quick to arrive too. Buses are fine to get around on.
Do parents not go on university tours these days? I remember my dad coming to all of mine.

It’s an all day audition/ acting workshop, rather than an open day, so nothing for parents to see or do.

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Mykittensaremyfriends · 31/01/2026 10:46

Just seen your update on hotel - it's across the road from the station and she will be perfectly fine. Ignore all the comments and tell her to walk in the morning - trams, buses and taxis will all take longer! It's an easy walk straight down Whitworth Street to the junction of Oxford Road at the Palace Theatre/Refuge hotel and then a left turn towards the uni further up Oxford Road. It'll take her 10 minutes to get there. Man Met is on the right hand side of the road and has buildings both sides of All Saints park. Manchester is a fab city

MimiGC · 31/01/2026 10:47

CharlotteFlax · 31/01/2026 01:16

If she's staying at Motel One she needs to follow the blue signs inside the station for buses and taxis, metrolink and way out (Fairfield St). She will have to go down some escalators within the station to get down to street level and will come out on the corner of Fairfield St/London Rd able to walk over London Rd and right towards Motel One. It will take her two minutes and she shouldn't have any hassle at all.

Try google mapsing a walking route from inside Picadilly (I chose Sainsbury's as a starting point as I know it's near the way out she needs to use). Most of her steps are within the station to get her down to street level. She will be absolutely fine to get to the hotel from the station, I promise!

Everyone else has explained the buses and google maps will see her right there, too.

ETA She doesn't need to go anywhere near Piccadilly Gardens on her walking route between station and hotel. The hotel is between the station and the Gardens so she's perfectly placed for getting transport the next day (I assume)

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Thank you, this is so very helpful, just the level of detail I was after.

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Dontcallmescarface · 31/01/2026 11:18

MimiGC · 31/01/2026 10:47

Thank you, this is so very helpful, just the level of detail I was after.

Another way is to exit the station at the front of the building on the concourse level, go across the walkbridge, turn back towards London Road, turn right, walk down to the Piccadilly Hotel (which is more of a pub), turn the corner and you are at the Motel One. Even with my dodgy hip it took me about 5 minutes to walk there.

Girl2345 · 31/01/2026 12:06

Recently visited to be fair it well lit up and hotels are close x

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