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To think that 4 G.C.S.E's needed to do business studies is ridiculous

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magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 12:17

My eldest DS is 16 and been at college since September. He has 2 G.C.S.E equivalent certificates in English and Maths.
I'm sure back when I was in college business studies was always a foundation course?
He really wanted to do business studies and they have put him on some really rubbish courses that he is super bored with.
Is it me or is education getting much harder now?
Hardly any of his school friends passed any g.c.s.e's :(

OP posts:
Maddy70 · 26/01/2026 14:11

I'm a business teacher. It isn't a foundation course it's robust A level with high standards as any other A level is. If he isn't very bright he will certainly struggle with the course and the depth of analysis required in the essay questions

Needanadultgapyear · 26/01/2026 14:11

“The one he complains about is called Technical skills, which he says isn't challenging enough.”
You both need to view education as a ladder only when you have successfully climbed one rung can you move on to the next.
Because he hasn’t completed the level 2 rung ( getting 4 GCSEs or a level2 qualification) he can’t move on to the next rung level 3 or apprenticeship.

80smonster · 26/01/2026 14:12

Yep, lots of OFSTED outstanding schools are churning out kids with barely any qualifications. Education needs such a huge injection of cash and there isn’t a way to fund it. I reckon they should put a charge on state education. Schools need money and those who access them should pay. Otherwise parents are going to find it awfully hard to shift grown up children from their homes, who don’t have what they need to parlay into a successful career, thus pay their own bills.

Butonlyjust · 26/01/2026 14:12

magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 13:44

He doesn't live with me and his dad works long hours. i'm doing what i can from a long distance.

Do you live in the same country as your son @magicalmadmadamim ?

x2boys · 26/01/2026 14:13

Looneytune253 · 26/01/2026 14:03

To be fair missing a Cpl of months of school before his exams should not have caused grade 1 and 2s to be fair. doesn't sound like he has the academic ability for college. My daughter was very academic and unfortunately hit a bad patch before gcse and ended up 'only' with 5s and 6s. There was questions over whether she should have her place at college but with a few adjustments she went in the end. She did find it challenging though and this is with decent grades. It might be worth managing his expectations and get him into something more vocational or hands on. College will be very challenging for a child with 1s and 2s at gcse

This doesn't make sense you say your daughter was very academic and ended up with only " 5,and 6' which are still equivalent to Bs and C,s ,
But you must be aware not all kids are very academic,?
My son missed a whole half term of year 11 due to being critically ill in intensive he isn't academic and it had a detrimental affect on his already not highly predicted GCSE grades.

Bess91 · 26/01/2026 14:13

Hardly any of his school friends passed any g.c.s.e's :(

This is not normal, unless there's a drip feed that he and all his friends have learning difficulties? What the hell.

FartyAnimal · 26/01/2026 14:15

English and maths functional skills are what students do (generally) when they have either repeatedly failed their GCSEs, or have no chance of passing them at all.

BunnyLake · 26/01/2026 14:15

magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 13:44

He doesn't live with me and his dad works long hours. i'm doing what i can from a long distance.

Unfortunately this has probably had a detrimental effect on him, even if not intentional.

Balloonhearts · 26/01/2026 14:15

A bit of teenage horseplay? Yeah ok. So he's immature, violent, didn't even put in the bare minimum effort to pass his exams and you're wondering why they won't let him onto a college course...

OP, even I passed all my subjects at GCSE and I handed in a grand total of 3 pieces of coursework. Scraping a pass isn't that hard. You don't end up with no GCSEs through not being academic, it's a lack of effort.

Octavia64 · 26/01/2026 14:15

WearyAuldWumman · 26/01/2026 13:43

Our local college used to run an Army Preparation course. (It might still be running, I guess.)

It was set at a very low level and those who passed were then allowed into Basic Training.

Lord help us, we had one former pupil who - it turns out - thought that he actually was in the army. (It didn't seem strange to him that he was going home to his mum every night.)

He managed to complete the course somehow, but didn't make it through Basic Training. My understanding is that he was told to leave very early on.

I've just Googled. The last mention that I can find of that course is 2017:

"Army Preparation at xxx College is a full-time course which focuses on Core Skills, fitness and transferable skills. As well as fitness work, you’ll study map reading and land navigation, circuit and resistance training, and a range of sports activities which include climbing, hill walking, mountain biking and orienteering."

I suspect that the army had to inform the college that the course wasn't fit for purpose.

They call it uniformed services preparation these days I believe,

Alltheyellowbirds · 26/01/2026 14:15

Agree with others that four GCSE’s is very low indeed, especially if you’re just talking about getting a pass. No criticism of kids who can’t manage that, but to expect to go onto further academic study without meeting this baseline is odd.

Suggest DS either resits his GCSEs so that he gets the required four, or looks for something less academic instead.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 26/01/2026 14:17

Butonlyjust · 26/01/2026 14:12

Do you live in the same country as your son @magicalmadmadamim ?

No, a post at 12.4? confirms that the DS lives in the UK and OP hasn't for some time.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 26/01/2026 14:18

Balloonhearts · 26/01/2026 14:15

A bit of teenage horseplay? Yeah ok. So he's immature, violent, didn't even put in the bare minimum effort to pass his exams and you're wondering why they won't let him onto a college course...

OP, even I passed all my subjects at GCSE and I handed in a grand total of 3 pieces of coursework. Scraping a pass isn't that hard. You don't end up with no GCSEs through not being academic, it's a lack of effort.

It can be caused by both things, to be fair.

Biskieboo · 26/01/2026 14:18

Bess91 · 26/01/2026 14:13

Hardly any of his school friends passed any g.c.s.e's :(

This is not normal, unless there's a drip feed that he and all his friends have learning difficulties? What the hell.

Probably just bullshit that the OP was all too ready to believe.

magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 14:19

CatBooksWineInThatOrder · 26/01/2026 13:48

He can do an apprenticeship in tech, apprenticeships aren’t all building, joinery etc. I’d tell him to look up tech apprenticeships and see if there are any with employers that align to his area of interest.

Yes i think this will be the next option if he doesn't want to continue with the college.

OP posts:
magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 14:20

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 26/01/2026 14:18

It can be caused by both things, to be fair.

No he is not at all violent where did you get that from?

OP posts:
DevonRules · 26/01/2026 14:20

Mydogisagentleman · 26/01/2026 13:17

Is your DS a member of the manoverse or whatever ridiculous term Tate uses,
I was horrified to find out that my DD ex partner was a fully paid up member.
His 'successful ' FOREX endeavours earned him about £3.30 in 3 years

Off topic, but it’s quite scary that there are so many teenage boys who are now under the impression that they are going to “start their own business” and make a fortune because of Andrew Tate. Several of my 19 year old’s school contemporaries have said to him that this is their plan in life, with no apparent thought about what business they are actually going to create.

BunnyLake · 26/01/2026 14:20

Bess91 · 26/01/2026 14:13

Hardly any of his school friends passed any g.c.s.e's :(

This is not normal, unless there's a drip feed that he and all his friends have learning difficulties? What the hell.

Or they spend all their time loitering on street corners and parks late at night.

I think you are in denial OP. Your ds has obviously put in minimal effort regardless of expulsion (if he was expelled so close to exams surely he would have had most of his study and revision under his belt anyway. It also sounds like he is not keeping good company if all his friends pretty much failed their exams too.

WearyAuldWumman · 26/01/2026 14:21

Octavia64 · 26/01/2026 14:15

They call it uniformed services preparation these days I believe,

Thank you.

MegMez · 26/01/2026 14:23

This is a conversation you both need to have with the college to get a better understanding. My son did Business Studies BTEC alongside his GCSEs at level 2 and is now doing level 3 alongside his A Levels. He is a bright boy who was in a challenging school for GCSE years but did well despite not having teachers for every subject. I'd imagine that the college doesn't have the evidence to support any confidence in the level 3 BTEC being realistically achievable for your son. If he's genuinely passionate about the subject, and he's willing to put the energy, effort, time and attitude into his college experience, he needs to make that clear to the college.

Could it be an option for him to do the lower level BTEC to prove his capabilities and commitment?

If he's thriving in his own entrepreneurial enterprises, that's brilliant. Academia isn't for everyone. One of my children will be pursuing a degree apprenticeship in business which will mean he's earning alongside getting the next level of qualifications, contacts and experience. Another left 6th form college because she wasn't happy with the course. She went straight into working full time and she's doing amazingly, she's dedicated, well paid, and has been given responsibilities and training development.

So I recognise the power and importance of practical experience, and when A Levels aren't the right fit for some young people. My fear for your son is that his future options will be limited with the qualifications he's got under his belt.

You say his mates didn't get GCSEs either? Are they still a big group of friends? What else do they get up to? What are their and his ambitions? Where does he see himself in a year? 2? 5? What are his values? What matters to him? What sports does he play? What volunteering has he done? What work experience does he have? What's his part time job? He's going to be competing with kids with all of that. In his part time job, what does his employer say about him? Is he reliable? Curious? Hardworking? A team player? A quick learn? What's he doing when he's not in college?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 26/01/2026 14:23

Sounds to me like the kid is suffering from a distinct lack of parenting. This is likely to hold him back.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 26/01/2026 14:24

magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 14:20

No he is not at all violent where did you get that from?

You've got the wrong end of the stick.

I was referring to the end of the post I quoted.

You don't end up with no GCSEs through not being academic, it's a lack of effort.

Lack of GCSE attainment can be a result of both things.

FerriswheelsKissesandLilacs · 26/01/2026 14:25

Butonlyjust · 26/01/2026 14:05

Hardly any of his school friends passed any g.c.s.e's :(

I would bet none of them so much as opened a book to revise for 10 mins

Edited

Either OP's son is lying to her to try and normalise his results, or he's hanging out with the wrong crowd. I didn't know anyone who failed any of their GCSEs and everyone I was close to got all As and Bs. Failing all your GCSEs in my social circle would have been considered completely shocking and peer pressure meant that no-one would have been OK with risking that. Added to that, no-one was socialising beyond the odd get together for a revision session from about April onwards in Y11. Even if you hadn't been at home studying there was no-one to go out with.

I guess that's irrelevant now since you can connect with the whole world from an XBox in your bedroom.

Bess91 · 26/01/2026 14:27

magicalmadmadamim · 26/01/2026 13:15

Thanks for the useful replies.
I think it is a matter of sticking it out until the end of the year to prove himself. We haven't ruled out the possibility of an apprenticeship if college doesn't work out although he has no interest in practical things like building etc. He likes the idea of cooking but not overly passionate.
For now he has his server he made on minecraft and it is doing well so far.

Don't worry love, he's doing really well on his video game 🙄

Your attitude is the problem so it seems.

YourZanyNewt · 26/01/2026 14:27

My eldest is also an Sumer born baby! Came out with 9 GCSEs 4/6s. (Had 3 yrs of disruption with COVID!) Did level 3 Btec business and 2x A levels. The step up from gcse to A level is massive! She hardly has any time to herself, they need to be organised and dedicated to their study! Sounds like he just dicked at school, the college are going to need to see a change in his attitude or they won’t offer him a higher level course. Like in life , sometimes you have to suck it up, to prove your true potential xx