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To think you can be perimenopausal at 39?

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Catlover465 · 25/01/2026 21:20

Can you get Perimenopause symptoms at 39?

once a month I suffer with vaginal dryness and basically for 3 days I just sit on the toilet weeing. It feels like a uti though without pain, just a constant need to go. Would vaginal oestrogen help? Has anyone tried it? Also have a uterine prolapse.

also have the mirena coil fitted.

haven’t had sex in months.

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Kalanthe · 25/01/2026 21:24

You could get an at home test kit to check your Anti-Mullerian hormone (AMH) which costs £63. This will tell you if this hormone is much lower than it should be at your age and hence you will experience menopause sooner

Isit2026yet · 25/01/2026 21:24

@Catlover465 unfortunately yes you can.

steff13 · 25/01/2026 21:25

I think you can be perimenopausal at 29.

StephensLass1977 · 25/01/2026 21:26

Yes. A few of my friends did. I am 51 and still struggle through monthly periods just as if I were 16. But none of my friends do anymore, and haven't for many years.

Maria1982 · 25/01/2026 21:26

Catlover465 · 25/01/2026 21:20

Can you get Perimenopause symptoms at 39?

once a month I suffer with vaginal dryness and basically for 3 days I just sit on the toilet weeing. It feels like a uti though without pain, just a constant need to go. Would vaginal oestrogen help? Has anyone tried it? Also have a uterine prolapse.

also have the mirena coil fitted.

haven’t had sex in months.

I mean, yes, you can be in perimenopause at that age as far as I know.

I started on vaginal oestrogen when I was a couple of years older than you and I find it very helpful. I would talk to your GP (and I hope you have a good, helpful GP.... mine is a star). fwiw I also have Mirena.

HildaBWilderbeast · 25/01/2026 21:38

You may find it is being caused by the Mirena - it is actually a known thing. You could get it removed and see if things get better (with or without topical estrogen)?

44PumpLane · 25/01/2026 22:26

Yes it's possible but you need to go talk to your GP and get some blood tests

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