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Sad situation with mouse

94 replies

CloudyYellow · 21/01/2026 22:03

Found a mouse in an empty plant pot in the house. I am an animal lover but don't want a mouse living in my house. If I release it into the garden it will die of cold.
Any suggestions?

OP posts:
FartyAnimal · 22/01/2026 09:55

I have an annoying cat who brings them in - have always just popped them out into the hedge. Not really anything else I can do!

xILikeJamx · 22/01/2026 10:48

We used to live in an old house that backed on to a large, wooded city park. A mouse got in and I caught it in a humane trap (peanut butter worked best) then released it over the back wall 3 times and it kept coming back in.

Eventually I took the trap in a bag on the bus and released the mouse into a graveyard a couple of miles away. Didn't come back after that. I also bought steel wool and stuffed it in any holes I could find about the place which may or may not have helped, but we never had any more mice!

gamerchick · 22/01/2026 12:08

OhNoYouDont2025 · 22/01/2026 07:36

Right, and if it is a field mouse then releasing it away from its territory means it will be running around petrified - brieflly.

Relocated mice experience predation due to an unfamiliar area without known escape routes, starvation as they cannot just magically find food and shelter and they also have to fight with the resident mice and voles in the new area, plus the stress and exposure.

They cannot be accommodated by humans, as they are filthy, disease ridden vermin who cause structural damage to the home, including chewing on wires, food and furniture (and anything else they can get their teeth into) and shit and urinate everywhere spreading diseases both through this and through airborne contamination.

And they cannot be relocated unless there's some sort of mouse magical kingdom a few miles away with no predators, plenty of food and lots of safe places to build a nest and they can bring their family with them, or they will just die anyway.

Being sentimental about filthy, disease ridden vermin can cause humans harm and ultimately gives the mouse a long, slow painful death. Far better just to kill them.

Edited

I'll never understand why people think it's a kindness to release miles away. Like they're doing it a favour. It's cruel.

Dogsinthediningroom · 22/01/2026 12:13

Motomum23 · 21/01/2026 22:19

Take it a few miles away and let it loose. I had a rat finding its way into my kitchen (it ate through fresh concrete to find a way back in and then through my oven vent... I caught it in a humane trap and drove it a good few miles away - hopefully it won't come back!)

This reminds me when I was a child we had rats. Some were caught in humane traps and DF was sent to ‘drive them far away and leave them’ which he did. My mother said a few days later she was worried they’d make their way back and DF said ‘ how ??! Those traps are quite secure!’ I was so upset and my mother called him a stupid bloody idiot as he was meant to release them.

dotsock · 22/01/2026 12:20

I caught a mouse once in a bin with a bit of Bakewell tart, I didn't want to kill it so took it to a local park and let it go in an area that seemed like it would give them a bit of shelter and protection. Honestly I don't know if he survived out there, it probably wasn't as nice as my flat but he was crawling into the beds and pooing on them (not that I am blaming him he was just a mouse) and my other flatmate had put down snap traps in his room. He was a little field mouse who had somehow got into our flat and so hopefully he had some decent outdoor survival skills.

MagpiePi · 22/01/2026 12:21

FartyAnimal · 22/01/2026 09:55

I have an annoying cat who brings them in - have always just popped them out into the hedge. Not really anything else I can do!

That's what I do.
There are loads living in the local back gardens as we are semi rural, and I always know if there is a newish litter as the cat will bring a couple of baby ones in.

I blocked up all the potential entry points that I could find after having mice move in under the washing machine, using wire wool in any gaps and a fine mesh over air bricks. There is no point trying to kill the ones that are in the garden as a new family would move in.

Cheese55 · 22/01/2026 13:26

I had a one off mouse once, no others. I've also heard that you can't release a mouse miles away as it will get attacked by the locals.

HangryBrickShark · 22/01/2026 13:28

CloudyYellow · 21/01/2026 22:03

Found a mouse in an empty plant pot in the house. I am an animal lover but don't want a mouse living in my house. If I release it into the garden it will die of cold.
Any suggestions?

Needs to be over 1.5 miles away as they have incredible homing skills.

HangryBrickShark · 22/01/2026 13:29

But not over 5 miles away!

Sad situation with mouse
NomNomNominativeDeterminism · 22/01/2026 14:31

Kimura · 21/01/2026 22:44

I knew an old lady who had a similar problem - she'd tried everything, and ended up having to swallow the mouse.

Although it wriggled and jiggled and tickled inside her, so she subsequently needed to swallow a cat to deal with the mouse, and some time later she swallowed a dog to remedy the whole cat situation.

Gosh this is concerning! Is she ok? Someone on Facebook said the other day that they had swallowed a fly. I don’t know why. I was wondering about sending her a spider to catch it, but a mouse might be quicker, especially as @CloudyYellow has one handy, and it could sway the fly with its newspaper.

spiderlight · 22/01/2026 15:29

Highlandgal · 22/01/2026 08:24

I’d have released it straightaway. If it’s pregnant you could have had lots of babies to contend with.

I once hand-reared a litter of baby house mice after our hopeless cat 'caught' (sat on) their mum. They all came wobbling out a couple at a time over several days and I kept them warm in a box in the bathroom and fed them kitten milk from an eye dropper for three weeks. All but one survived. We released them somewhere very sheltered with outbuildings and left food for them - I don't know how they fared, but I hope they were OK. I couldn't bear to leave them to die.

TheHillIsMine · 22/01/2026 15:39

LadyMacbethWasFierce · 21/01/2026 23:27

Can I just say to you that I am trawling MN at the moment as a diversion (I am very very fragile indeed after a life altering huge bereavement) and the thought of you OP, afraid of mice, but still keeping this tiny creature warm and fed has brought tears of joy to my eyes. Bless you. Thank you for your kindness.

I just wanted to send you a message to say I'm thinking of you, not least because I am in similar position. Take care of yourself. 💐

Highlandgal · 22/01/2026 18:10

spiderlight · 22/01/2026 15:29

I once hand-reared a litter of baby house mice after our hopeless cat 'caught' (sat on) their mum. They all came wobbling out a couple at a time over several days and I kept them warm in a box in the bathroom and fed them kitten milk from an eye dropper for three weeks. All but one survived. We released them somewhere very sheltered with outbuildings and left food for them - I don't know how they fared, but I hope they were OK. I couldn't bear to leave them to die.

Yikes. My cat has caught a couple of pregnant mice. I only found out as he ate the mum and left the unborn babies. Not a pleasant sight or thing to clear up.

averylongtimeago · 22/01/2026 19:54

An individual mouse looks very very cute.
When they have eaten their way into food in your cupboards, weed and pooed all over your house, possibly spreading nasty diseases, chewed your clothes and carpets, made your house stink (mouse urine has a distinct smell) and not least caused a house fire by chewing through wires, they look a whole less cute.

There is never “just one mouse” . They breed at a frightening rate, and if you just let them go in “humane” traps they come right back with all their friends and relatives.

FatFoxie · 22/01/2026 19:57

I'd take him up the road to a tumbledown garage and pop him through a gap in the old wooden door. It's near a chip shop, I'd sure he'd find plenty to eat.

KilkennyCats · 22/01/2026 20:00

CloudyYellow · 21/01/2026 22:52

Unfortunately no car and live in a city. Worried there will be more.

I have given it something to eat and some bedding. Will take it to a park tomorrow.

You gave it some bedding? Confused
Have you corralled it somewhere?
What are you going to do with the other 10+ that are currently running round your house?
There is never only one mouse, they travel in packs and reproduce quicker than you’d believe.

Astra53 · 22/01/2026 20:04

We get mice bought in by our cats which they present fully alive. We then capture them, rehabilitate and put back outside. Mice are used to living outside in all weathers.

Xkk · 22/01/2026 20:07

Hundslappadrifa · 21/01/2026 22:53

I caught one in my house and relocated it to the greenhouse. Told it never to come back and it didn’t :)

Your mouse is very polite:)

KilkennyCats · 22/01/2026 20:35

Astra53 · 22/01/2026 20:04

We get mice bought in by our cats which they present fully alive. We then capture them, rehabilitate and put back outside. Mice are used to living outside in all weathers.

I’m boggling at the rehabilitation of mice 😆

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