I’m not really feeling anything. He’s still abusive towards me financially so the CMS takes money directly from his wages. He’s can’t get near me to abuse me in any other way anymore thankfully. He’s emotionally abusive towards our teenagers and has been physically abusive to our eldest who no longer has much to do with him. Despite saying he wanted to marry his affair partner they broke up and he’s now with someone else and getting married in a few months. Our eldest isn’t happy about it, the youngest is ok about it and his kids to AP are ok but they are still quite young.
His fiancée has two kids and is very vulnerable from what the kids say and I worry for her and her kids because there’s lots of arguments and questionable behaviour from him. He’s slept with most of the women he works with so that makes for a tricky guest list! Not my circus but two of those monkeys are mine and I’m worried for them. As a general concept I think he’s a fool to remarry at 50 with no kids together but on a personal level I expected to be upset but actually I feel very little. My main concern is getting our eldest through it. He’s not well mentally and although he’s left home now I still worry about him and how he’s feeling.