Hi I don’t know if my husband is gas lighting me. If he doesn’t think something is true then he will deny it. Example had mould at old house, he insisted it wasn’t mould. New frying pan made mince beef smell funny and taste horrible. He said three separate times it didn’t smell funny and it didn’t taste funny. Last time even my son said it smelt horrible and it didn’t taste nice.
yesterday I got home and asked him if he had got the heaters out, our boiler has broken (my husband didn’t get it looked at like I said a few times it needed looking at, said it was normal to have to keep topping up the water in the boiler) we have no heating and no hot water. He said no, when he had actually got one out and put it on and just needed to get the other out of the shed. It’s like he will say stuff to wind me up or piss me off. He said that he is sarcastic, which he is but this feels different, my oldest son even said once a couple of weeks ago to his dad that he is sure that his dad is trying to wind me up.
yesterday I said it was cold and it was winter. He said it’s not winter. I asked him what season it is and he wouldn’t say. I’m becoming more and more miserable in our to marriage and it’s affecting my mental health.
i started staying up a bit later instead of been in bed by half nine. Suddenly he started going to bed early. Last night I’m sure he was going to go to bed as I heard him doing my meds. I said I’m going to bed and he stayed up.
is it me, is it all just in my head