Hi I’ve been with my partner for nearly 2 years we have a baby it all happened very fast…we really don’t get along we argue a lot he doesn’t help with the baby I mean he will feed her when asked bath her but it’s mainly when I ask .. he’ll take her upstairs be on his phone whilst she is laying there he will interact a bit then get back to his phone .. yetrday she was in the cot and he was on his laptop with ear phones in when he has time off work he don’t want to wake up do night feed.. he has also said he will not do any family outing with 2 of my older kids they don’t speak to him (asd) and the fact when I first met him they thought his mannerism was rude and they just don’t like him..I feel my family is now in 2 separate units me him baby and me my other kids (diff relationship) .. I have asked him to leave but he makes me feel bad days he wants to stay bond with the baby etc but he’s not really doing that but I feel so guilty if we go our ways I don’t know why maybe it’s because he don’t have family here or that I know he lost his mum at a young age but I know I cannot continue like this either .