Ive been with my partner for 14 years off and on, we have one daughter together. Our whole relationship has been quite turbulent. Prior to meeting him, i feel i was a different person. Our relationship has trust issues, mainly due to him being an egoistic full of himself person when hes had a drink mainly. We have a female neighbour, who for years i haven been very good friends with. However, she has always been flirty around my husband and he has back, although he would never admit this.ive mentioned it a few times to him, only to be met with im jealous, insecure, pathetic. Last xmas, we were all having a few drinks, when she let slip in front of myself and partner, that she indeed has a soft spot for him and was subsequently trying to get him to stay for another drink. To the point, that her friend was telling her no, no more drinks and that we were all leaving. This clearly upset and annoyed me and i spoke to my partner about it the next day, which he states he did not remember and basically thought i was exaggerating/jealous etc. following on from this, i was really upset and felt quite betrayed by my friend/neighbour and our relationship literally changed overnight, where we didnt do much together as the trust was gone somehow. I felt quite hurt as this was also a friend who had previously supported me through a break up with my partner. Fast forward to the last few months and my partner has offered to lift share our children to a sports class. This upset me as we rarely bother with eachother, since that night. When i spoke to my partner about it, he said i was the problem for being pathetic and insecure and to get over it. Am i being too sensitive?? I feel humiliated and let down hy my partners response as he just doesnt get the concept of, why im hurt.