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Im no fan of Starmer but …

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BettyWhittaker · 20/01/2026 08:11

I am very anti - Labour government, have never voted Labour in my life and never would and I hope an early GE is called …

BUT - AIBU to think he really couldn’t have handled Trump any better than he had? Christ the man is completely unhinged, his behaviour is getting worse and worse - AIBU to think Starmer really couldn’t have done more to handle this?

I thought his statement yesterday was pretty good. Let’s just hope the mad man gets taken out of office before he kicks off another bloody war

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PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:00

Starmer is criticised if he u-turns and criticised if he doesn't.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/01/2026 11:01

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 10:58

Fair. I’ll engage 😀

I wonder what the public sentiment is on Chagos, because if people think it’s a waste of tax payer money and would like a u turn Starmer won’t help himself with the rhetoric.

I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of people in the UK don't actually have a clue where Chagos is, what its history is, why it became an issue or what the nature of the deal involves.

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:02

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 10:58

Fair. I’ll engage 😀

I wonder what the public sentiment is on Chagos, because if people think it’s a waste of tax payer money and would like a u turn Starmer won’t help himself with the rhetoric.

Its laughable that Labour are trying to pin it on Kemi.
Are they suggesting that Starmer only signed the deal because he's too stupid to think for himself?

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:04

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:00

Starmer is criticised if he u-turns and criticised if he doesn't.

As Streeting said, better to get it right first time.

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:06

No-one has tried to pin the Chagos deal on Badenoch personally. 🤣 What a daft statement. She had zero interest in it until recently.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 11:07

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:02

Its laughable that Labour are trying to pin it on Kemi.
Are they suggesting that Starmer only signed the deal because he's too stupid to think for himself?

I think it’s this. Yes it’s great from Labour last year, no it’s not better try to dismiss. He and Labour generally really do need to take responsibility, he really is bad on that score.

Plus the what do people know about the place in pp it’s not a rebuttal.

For most it’s about where money is spent and whether Starmer has got that right. It’s also not in his favour to go from using the ‘bridge’ line not long ago and now to this. Apart from a few it seems the majority can see through it.

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:07

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:04

As Streeting said, better to get it right first time.

I agree.

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:11

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:06

No-one has tried to pin the Chagos deal on Badenoch personally. 🤣 What a daft statement. She had zero interest in it until recently.

Really? Posts above say otherwise.
She's been opposing it since the deal was signed. What a daft statement.

persephonia · 22/01/2026 11:13

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/01/2026 11:01

I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of people in the UK don't actually have a clue where Chagos is, what its history is, why it became an issue or what the nature of the deal involves.

I think the rent we will continue to pay Mauritius sounds like a waste of money and could easily be spun so people see it as a terrible deal. You could definitely phrase a poll.question that generates a strong negative response. But the rent is so that America can continue to use a military base even as the "ownership" changes hands. It is an odd thing to have to explain why the UK needs to pay rent on behalf of the US. But even though it's tempting to argue that we shouldn't have to pay it, after all America breaks agreements all the time etc, in practical terms this is the best outcome.
It's odd how apparently we should be responding to the changing world by ignoring the ICJ/leaving the EHCR etc. But the same people that argue that aren't arguing for breaking agreements with America even though it's America that is leading the charge in breaking agreements/the "international order". I don't think we should respond in kind. But if we did some consistency would be good.

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:16

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 11:07

I think it’s this. Yes it’s great from Labour last year, no it’s not better try to dismiss. He and Labour generally really do need to take responsibility, he really is bad on that score.

Plus the what do people know about the place in pp it’s not a rebuttal.

For most it’s about where money is spent and whether Starmer has got that right. It’s also not in his favour to go from using the ‘bridge’ line not long ago and now to this. Apart from a few it seems the majority can see through it.

Yep, this.
Also the hypocritical stance of defending Greenlanders right to self determination, but not Chagossians.

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:17

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:11

Really? Posts above say otherwise.
She's been opposing it since the deal was signed. What a daft statement.

She was party to 2 years of talks on Chagos, with the same aims as was signed off on

I assume this is what you are referring to?
This is not "pinning the deal on Badenoch" . It is just noting that she knew about it. Which she presumably did, even though she expressed precisely zero interest in the matter as far as I can tell.

ACynicalDad · 22/01/2026 11:24

All that can be done with Trump is getting through the next year and hoping the midterms blunt him, or a heart attack. Then it's a case of getting through the two after that and hoping that there is a free and fair election. It would be great if at the end of that the democrats get enough seats to make DC and Purto Rico states, and with it tilt Congress and the Senete.

persephonia · 22/01/2026 11:26

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:16

Yep, this.
Also the hypocritical stance of defending Greenlanders right to self determination, but not Chagossians.

It really is unfair on the Chagossians. And has been for decades. But the reason they arent being given the right to return to Diego Garcia/and independant country is BECAUSE of respect for American interests. Specifically the strategic place the Chagos Islands occupy that is the reason for the Americans to have a military base there. Its important for the Pacific strategy (because not all US American spending is NATO despite their deeply held grievances).

If the UK gave Chagos Islands independance that very small independant country would be vulnerable to Chinese influence which America doesn't want. If the Chagos Islanders were allowed to return to Diego Garcia it would mean no US base. There is just no way America would agree to leave so there we are.

It really sucks. It does show up pre-existing weaknesses in international criminal law in that it will always be subject,.to an extent, to the existential security needs of great powers. So this is the best compromise the UK is able to find in the face of it. Its like the use of Iraq to justify Venezuela. I fail to see how "we let American interests ride roughshod over some aspects of international law therefore we should let them destroy all of it" is a convincing argument.

If anything I would love to see the UK respond to American griping re Diego Garcia by saying fine, your right the whole islands go back to Chagos Islanders directly. But I know that won't happen for lots of reasons. The real lesson is the more you give the current US administration the more they will take so everyone needs to draw a line now.

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:27

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:17

She was party to 2 years of talks on Chagos, with the same aims as was signed off on

I assume this is what you are referring to?
This is not "pinning the deal on Badenoch" . It is just noting that she knew about it. Which she presumably did, even though she expressed precisely zero interest in the matter as far as I can tell.

No, I'm referring to the political opportunism trying to paint Kemi as backing Trump. Its the other way round. Kemi has been making noise about Chagos since the deal was signed.

Labour agreed to the Chagos deal, they should defend it's merits. They can't, so are trying to blame the tories for it instead, which is ridiculous imo.

TopPocketFind · 22/01/2026 11:36

Labour are not blaming the Tories for the deal, they are agreeing with it.

Independence for Chagos has never been on the cards.

The comparisson with Greenland is neither here or there.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 11:36

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 11:27

No, I'm referring to the political opportunism trying to paint Kemi as backing Trump. Its the other way round. Kemi has been making noise about Chagos since the deal was signed.

Labour agreed to the Chagos deal, they should defend it's merits. They can't, so are trying to blame the tories for it instead, which is ridiculous imo.

Of course it is. Not long ago they and their supporters were defending it. What happened?

It’s that inability to hold to a line that sees them lose more each week.

Bummmmblebee · 22/01/2026 11:40

Fair play to Starmer, he has consistently handled trump extremely well. I'm mortified at the state of the economy and could not ve more relieved that he's dropped digital id (for now...) but he does well at this.

BIossomtoes · 22/01/2026 11:49

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/01/2026 11:01

I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of people in the UK don't actually have a clue where Chagos is, what its history is, why it became an issue or what the nature of the deal involves.

You took the words right out of my mouth - or off my keyboard.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 22/01/2026 11:50

PandoraSocks · 22/01/2026 11:00

Starmer is criticised if he u-turns and criticised if he doesn't.

Er, no. He’s criticised for having terrible judgement and being supine in the face of his backbenchers.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 11:57

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/01/2026 11:01

I would be willing to bet that the vast majority of people in the UK don't actually have a clue where Chagos is, what its history is, why it became an issue or what the nature of the deal involves.

I don’t think this line helps you much but I take it you still support the deal?

TopPocketFind · 22/01/2026 12:00

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 11:57

I don’t think this line helps you much but I take it you still support the deal?

What is Badenoch proposing instead?

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 12:17

TopPocketFind · 22/01/2026 12:00

What is Badenoch proposing instead?

She isn't the PM, she is leader of the opposition. Her job is to oppose the government.

EasternStandard · 22/01/2026 12:20

TheNuthatch · 22/01/2026 12:17

She isn't the PM, she is leader of the opposition. Her job is to oppose the government.

And surely for anyone opposing it the alternative is to just not do the deal. Keep as is.

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