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AIBU to wish primary schools would do away with homework

155 replies

Mondaymoanday · 19/01/2026 19:16

When I was at primary, kids would be expected to learn some spellings, read, do times tables, maybe do a termly project at home. I hate how much family time is lost to busywork homework.

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ImFineItsAllFine · 20/01/2026 13:12

I'm more than happy to support with practising reading/spelling/writing/maths at home.

Our DC also get various optional tasks/projects relating to topic work in school, which are always really woolly and hard to get them to engage with (mostly because DC always furiously deny having covered the topic at all in class). So we don't tend to do those as they feel more like homework for us than DC.

noidea69 · 20/01/2026 13:12

My kids would be worse are times tables, spelling, maths reading etc if they didnt do homework.

Normally do 10/15 minutes on a night after they've been in the bath, they grumble about doing it, but just part of our evening routine.

Cant say we lose precious family time to it.

canuckup · 20/01/2026 13:21

It's so bloody granular too

Refer to this page in that book, then check line 27 of the green folder etc etc.

They should just give them a book each week to read, then discuss it on Fri. That would be far more valuable.

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:25

Cairneyes · 19/01/2026 19:46

For every parents who wants to abolish primary homework, there is one who wants more! You can’t really win.

Well that's easy Just make it optional

Watchoutfortheslowaraf · 20/01/2026 13:27

Mine is year 5 and they don’t do homework in her school. She gets nothing- all school work is done in school. There are optional apps if you want to do them

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:28

Btwmum23 · 20/01/2026 10:01

Unfortunately if you want your kid to enter in an academic independent secondary or grammar school, homework and additional tuition are required. Many parents ask for it to understand what they are doing at school and make kids do additional work in preparation for 11+. There are very few kids who can pass 11+ without a lot of extra work. If your kid is going to the local comprehensive it is not required at all, if the kid does not want to do I would not force it and they can do extra work if they aim to go well in GSCE and A level to go to an academic uni. There are kids who enjoy extra work and they do it easily, these are academic kids who will do very well.

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The majority of kids DONT do the 11pmus though. My DD did but she was also at a primary school that didn't set homework and never had " tuition" for 11 plus either. Had some practice papers . Got her into a good grammar

BareGrylls · 20/01/2026 13:30

Pointless box ticking. I'd ban it altogether except for a gentle introduction in year six.
Both of mine were so tired after school it added nothing to their education but lots of stress to family life. In the end I told the school that DC2 wouldn't be doing it any more.
He still managed to get A*s in GCSE and A level and a first in maths at uni so I didn't ruin his education

Tina46 · 20/01/2026 13:32

I'm a teacher and I don't give any homework. I just encourage families to read with their children as often as they can - stressing that any reading is better than no reading, and if their child prefers graphic novels (for example) then encourage that. I'm not aware of any research that supports any good reason for primary homework. After school time should be spent on family time / relaxing and regulating / fresh air / moving the body / hobbies.

Cassan · 20/01/2026 13:36

It’s awful and it ruins family life. It also gives unfair advantage to children of engaged parents. The last hour or the first hour of school should be homework time.

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:38

SJM1988 · 20/01/2026 10:34

My Year 3 DS has spelling, reading and 10 mins time stables a day. The creative stuff is optional at our school and set termly. Some terms we do stuff some we don't depending on what else is going on.
It's still a drama to get him to just to that

Why are schools still teaching times tables in year 3. We learnt up to 12 time in infants

bunnylegs · 20/01/2026 13:42

2 of my kids never did homework in primary school. One of them has a first class honours degree and the other one is still school age but does the work required for high school/exams etc.

SJM1988 · 20/01/2026 13:44

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:38

Why are schools still teaching times tables in year 3. We learnt up to 12 time in infants

Its standard curriculum - they start in year 1 learning simpler times tables and progressing up to being able to recall all up to 12x12 in by the end of Year 4.

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:46

SJM1988 · 20/01/2026 13:44

Its standard curriculum - they start in year 1 learning simpler times tables and progressing up to being able to recall all up to 12x12 in by the end of Year 4.

That's changed then. I wonder why they've chosen to drag it out another couple of years.

Didimum · 20/01/2026 13:59

cramptramp · 20/01/2026 09:29

I was a working single parent. My children did all their homework. It wasn’t a problem to me.

Congratulations. Would you like to enter a battle of 'who has it harder'?

Btwmum23 · 20/01/2026 14:59

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 13:28

The majority of kids DONT do the 11pmus though. My DD did but she was also at a primary school that didn't set homework and never had " tuition" for 11 plus either. Had some practice papers . Got her into a good grammar

Unfortunately this is not the case in London. Every kid is so super tutored and you have 700-800 applicants for 60-90 places that without a lot of work you just don’t get in. I know super clever kids, top of the class, grade 5 and 6 in two instruments, who have spent the whole summer practicing 4-5 hours a day to get into St Paul, Westminster and the like. They were found around 1-1.5 hr homework (including paper) a day with and without tutor snd around 3-4 hours over the weekend since year 4. Kids in London are tutored since year 2, twice or three times a week. It is not openly spoken as parents are shy to admit but everybody does it.

cramptramp · 20/01/2026 15:11

Didimum · 20/01/2026 13:59

Congratulations. Would you like to enter a battle of 'who has it harder'?

If you want. I’d win though 😀

babyproblems · 20/01/2026 15:13

YANBU it’s a joke and I think primary schools behave like they are the police tbh

Changedmynameagain20 · 20/01/2026 15:30

Evidence suggests it has zero effect on educational outcomes. Why is primary education in this country not more informed by research?

nondrinker1985 · 20/01/2026 15:35

Prep school here: year 6
daughter had for the weekend:
mental arithmetic that’s bloody hard
a science project (research and write up)
And English comprehension!

i ended up doing her science project for cos cos she also had two parties and her sport to do. It’s ridiculous and im happy to tell the school we didn’t have a chance to do it.

i believe reading and spelling is all we should have

Changedmynameagain20 · 20/01/2026 15:36

Cassan · 20/01/2026 13:36

It’s awful and it ruins family life. It also gives unfair advantage to children of engaged parents. The last hour or the first hour of school should be homework time.

I think there's a couple of things to unpack, here:

It also gives unfair advantage to children of engaged parents. That's just always going to be the case, in all sorts of ways, and I don't think it's a reason to stoop to the lowest common denominator. For example, should parents stop reading with their children because it's disadvantaging other children? The actual homework tasks aren't making a difference educationally, though, which is what is so frustrating and what a lot of parents recognise. Sitting around the table fora meal together as a family and all chatting, with no devices, would have a more positive outcome than homework tasks.

Thechaseison71 · 20/01/2026 16:18

Btwmum23 · 20/01/2026 14:59

Unfortunately this is not the case in London. Every kid is so super tutored and you have 700-800 applicants for 60-90 places that without a lot of work you just don’t get in. I know super clever kids, top of the class, grade 5 and 6 in two instruments, who have spent the whole summer practicing 4-5 hours a day to get into St Paul, Westminster and the like. They were found around 1-1.5 hr homework (including paper) a day with and without tutor snd around 3-4 hours over the weekend since year 4. Kids in London are tutored since year 2, twice or three times a week. It is not openly spoken as parents are shy to admit but everybody does it.

Yes 99% of DDs school friends were tutored. People were prepared to move counties if their daughter got a place in the school. There's 130 ( 95 when DD went)places and had 1350 applications so not really any different from your London schools. It was the top scoring girls that were offered places. Passing 11plus wasn't enough

Didimum · 20/01/2026 16:18

cramptramp · 20/01/2026 15:11

If you want. I’d win though 😀

If blind arrogance wins, sure.

CurryTonite · 20/01/2026 17:02

I would have more, I buy work books for my DDs because they enjoy doing them, and as we’re in a grammar school area so the more practice they get before the 11+ the better.

Clumpled · 20/01/2026 17:58

Mondaymoanday · 20/01/2026 12:49

There is inconsistency too. It can be that one holiday, it’s nothing and the next holiday it’s get your wallet out and do hours and hours.
One of their teachers sets homework on a Friday for a Monday. It sometimes feels like they haven’t had time to cover a part of the curriculum, so that is sent home. It was such a battle with one of my children one weekend and he said he’d rather have the consequence (being kept in to do it at break) as that would only be fifteen minutes. He came home without a break, but obviously break was not long enough for the work set, so he had to do it that evening too.
It doesn’t necessarily reflect what they’ve been doing recently either. E.g. if they’ve been doing long division, maths homework might be general arithmetic. If they’ve been learning very dry grammar, homework might be to research Egyptians, make a poster of it and build a model of the pyramids.
If a child can count and do number bonds standing on their head, how is realms of busywork on that helping them, rather than a homework that might challenge them a little bit - it’s like smashing rocks. Some say it’s about cementing the building blocks and learning concepts - so why not ensure all kids have to do letter sounds or counting for an extra year or two so it’s cemented for them etc?

Well they can't do an extra year of counting/sounds because of the national curriculum which they have to follow. It's well known most primary teachers think the curriculum is too broad and too much too soon but they have to generally teach what it dictates in the year groups that it states.

I don't really understand your complaint with general arithmetic. That's all about keeping skills ticking over. Nearly all schools will do arithmetic starters (Tough Ten/Flashback Fours/Arithmetic Challenge etc) in class every week (or even day) even if the main focus for the week is long division or whatever. You can't do fractions once a year then not visit them again until next year or children would forget what they had learnt.

LlynTegid · 20/01/2026 18:01

I agree with the OP. Maths times tables yes, spelling yes, not something taking up a large amount of time each evening. Partly because I want to see children doing things other than being sat over a table or tablet especially in the summer, when they should be outdoors as much as they can.

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