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To answer one of those ”Hi Mum, this is my new phone number” texts?

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PuzzledObserver · 19/01/2026 15:57

I didn’t actually do it - I blocked the number. I know for fact it is not from my child on the grounds that I don’t have any.

But it crossed my mind to reply with “OMG! Hope you’re OK! Is that Johnboy, or Tracey?”

And then mess with them.

My other thought was to reply with “Which of my children are you?” As they would then have to supply a name. Which would probably indicate to them that they’d been rumbled. Much more fun the first way.

Anyone done this?

I admit this isn’t really an AIBU, so I’ve removed the poll. But this struck me as the kind of forum where people might enjoy kicking this idea around.

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YouBelongHere · 25/01/2026 10:51

It's why it's worth talking to people about scams - my Mum received the 'hi Mum' text but given two of her kids can't text she just asked me and I confirmed it wasn't me. Then I told her if I ever was in a situation where I didn't have my phone how I'd get in touch with her and that I'd never ask her to put money in a random account.

My great aunt nearly got taken in - she only has one child so she replied to the 'hi Mum' text with 'assume this is [name]'. Luckily she caught on when they asked her for money and she asked them to confirm the name of her childhood dog and the scammer replied 'we didn't have a dog'.

Easier and better to just block and move on.

TheZanyScroller · 25/01/2026 13:36

Scam baiting is fun. I following Scambait channels on YT and they're experts in p*ssing off scammers. Scammersbshouldnhave their time wasted 100%. Depending if and when I get a call or message I'll engage and wind them up. Whole they're investing their worthless lives trying to scam me, they're at least leaving others alone for a while at least.

I feel for vulnerable people who aren't savvy with these scumbags. So I'm all for having some fun to get the scammer irate. Faceless wonders.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 25/01/2026 14:01

JudgeJ · 25/01/2026 10:16

Not our problem to solve, their governments know exactly who and where they are, let them deal with it. India has some massive scam factories that their government don't deal with either.

They always say on Scam Interceptors that they will alert the Indian government about what's happened - and hand over any helpful identifying info that they might have; but I'm as sure as I can be that they just say thanks and then ignore it.

The owners of the scam factories almost certainly give them a very generous kickback - they might even treat it like a genuine business and actually pay tax on their ill-gotten gains; so what's in it for their authorities to care about somebody in the UK being stolen from?

I think they have it in their head that the UK is a very rich country, along with everybody who lives here; and so whatever they can get from British people is more in the territory of 'how annoying to lose that proportion of my wealth' rather than the reality of devastating their lives and often leaving them penniless.

letssayyesthencancel · 25/01/2026 20:17

TheLette · 19/01/2026 16:21

My dad unfortunately fell for one of those scams. It was surprisingly clever how it all panned out. Fortunately he got his money back from the bank somehow. Good idea to remind older relatives not to fall for them, and to always check with you by speaking to you before sending any money over.

My mum got caught out this week.
We reported to fraud, we’ll see if we get her money back.

However, the fraudsters called back later in the day pretending to be the banks fraud team. Used a number that had a bank logo as a picture.

They told her to download revolut, as her accounts had been compromised, therefore she needed a new one with revolut. Thankfully she didn’t pass the auto checks with them and it failed.

They called her at 4pm, she was on the phone until 8pm, when she messaged me to say that she’d sent me £1800, could I send it back to a different sort code and account number.

I went round to her house where I then discovered she had given them a photo of the front and back of her Santander card, and driving licence.

They had activated Apple Pay on her phone and tried to get her to buy items worth £2499 with another card.

They got her to use another card in the same way.

She had fraud text messages on her phone from all her banks asking about transactions, where you have to say Y or N, she said yes on about 5 of them… meaning she had said she was trying to buy the items.

Thankfully they didn’t get any money. The fraud protections at the banks stopped all transactions.

Usually my mum is sharp, and smells a rat, but this has devastated her. She wouldn’t have known how to deal with this if I wasn’t there to help. The technological march of banks is sadly making the older generation sitting ducks. There’s no local branch to talk to.

I had heard that this scam is prevalent due to the M&S and Co-op data leaks.

I hope your dad was ok.

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