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Its a housecoat

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Helplessandheartbroke · 18/01/2026 19:27

Dressing gowns are silky and posh like Hugh hefner style. Warm fluffy housecoats are housecoats not dressing gowns.....

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Carnation25 · 18/01/2026 20:21

AllJoyAndNoFun · 18/01/2026 19:29

Well my nan wore a "housecoat" and it was more like a thinnish cotton coat you wore while cleaning to protect your other clothes so I'd disagree.

This. My dressing gown is nice and fluffy and warm.

Helplessandheartbroke · 18/01/2026 20:25

Well im glad to see a few agree with me. Glasgow and not sure where the others are from. Its like a coat you wear in the house (over pjs) so im gonna stick with it. I can't get on board with dressing gowns so will agree to disagree on this one :)

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Toottooot · 18/01/2026 20:26

It’s a goonie.

Aparecium · 18/01/2026 20:27

Originally, a dressing gown was literally something you wore while dressing. You would not want to get hair powder or Macassar oil on your delicate silk or wool garments, so you would cover them with your dressing gown until 'you' finished doing your hair. Or, as dressing could be a lengthy, complicated business, your maid or valet could give you your dressing gown to wear over your incomplete outfit if someone wanted to see you in your boudoir, and you did not want to be seen improperly clothed. It was a light garment that could cover or expose as much as needed.

A housecoat had a similar purpose: it protected your 'good' clothes. I remember my mum, who ran a business from home, would come home from a meeting, take off her smart suit and put her housecoat on over her tights and slip. Then she would get on with the housewifing and mothering, alongside fielding business calls, until she needed to leave for her next meeting. The housecoat would come off, the smart suit go on again, and off she went. DM's ankle-length, quilted housecoat buttoned up to the neck. Nothing showed.

A bathrobe was a thick towelling robe that men wore when walking to the bathroom, which could have been at the end of a corridor, or even in another building. Or an outdoor pool. Ladies were not expected to expose themselves in that way.

Nowadays these distinctions have bcome irrelevant. Our clothes are less complicated, less fragile, and easily cleaned. Our bathrooms are across the landing, or even in our rooms, and our houses are warm.

DinoLil · 18/01/2026 20:27

A housecoat is what my nan used to wear to protect her clothes when she was cleaning and cooking.

Bloodylovecheese · 18/01/2026 20:32

Housecoat doesn't exist in my world. Apron on top of clothes for cleaning. Dressing gown is something you wear on top of nightwear, before bed, after bath, in morning before shower, before getting ready whilst eating breakfast.
This is very emotive isn't it? 🤣

AffableApple · 18/01/2026 20:35

AllJoyAndNoFun · 18/01/2026 19:29

Well my nan wore a "housecoat" and it was more like a thinnish cotton coat you wore while cleaning to protect your other clothes so I'd disagree.

This. A housecoat is exactly this. My nan had a slightly quilted housecoat too, but it was very much a coat for housework. Nothing like a quilted dressing gown.

How is OP confusing these two very different clothing items?

Coffeeishot · 18/01/2026 20:35

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 18/01/2026 19:31

Same but my nanna's was shiny as heck quilted nylon. A complete fire-hazard of a thing and she smoked like a chimney in it. A wonder we all survived really.

We might have had the same Nanna 😀

Op i call mine a house coat but if i don't want to appear common i say dressing gown 😂

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 18/01/2026 20:37

sweeneytoddsrazor · 18/01/2026 20:01

I shall add this rather stylish attire

Smoking jacket! I knew there was another one

VenusClapTrap · 18/01/2026 20:37

I grew up in Yorkshire, and we wore housecoats over our pyjamas. They were quilted with buttons, or knitted by grandma. As I got older, fashions changed and they evolved into towelling creations, sometimes with a tie belt.

When I went off to uni in The South, nobody seemed to understand the word housecoat so I adopted dressing gown as the native lingo.

I married a forriner from The Continent who says ‘bathrobe’, and so I’ve ended up using that term for the past couple of decades.

Now I feel the need to revert to the term housecoat.

Alongthetowpath · 18/01/2026 20:38

My nan had a housecoat (blue nylon, worn while cleaning at home, she never brought it to our house), a dressing gown (long, pink quilted nylon, worn in the morning at our house while drinking tea or putting on face cream and powder) and a bed jacket (short, floral, quilted, nylon with random ribbons and frills, worn over her nightie while sitting up in bed).

Helplessandheartbroke · 18/01/2026 20:38

Coffeeishot · 18/01/2026 20:35

We might have had the same Nanna 😀

Op i call mine a house coat but if i don't want to appear common i say dressing gown 😂

Haha I guess it does sound more common but it doesn't stop me. House coat all the way.

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Whosthetabbynow · 18/01/2026 20:39

Perhaps a smoking jacket?

Butchyrestingface · 18/01/2026 20:42

Ruggerlass · 18/01/2026 20:02

I’m Glaswegian and it’s always been a housecoat. I remember my mum wearing her peeny.

My parents (1940s born) were Weegies and wouldn't have had a scooby what a 'house coat' was.

PauliesWalnuts · 18/01/2026 20:43

We’re in Manchester and have dressing gowns. My mum (raised in a council estate in the 50s) said that calling them a housecoat was common, like showing your bra strap or eating in the street 😂

FairViewRosie25 · 18/01/2026 20:46

I have a short pink fleece one that is only put on in the morning to sort the dogs. Also a grey long one that is only used when ill. Postman gets me in a hoodie & denim shorts lol

Ruggerlass · 18/01/2026 20:47

Flannelfeet · 18/01/2026 20:18

My glaswegian mother in law calls it hoosecoat 😆

she’s not wrong 😀

Butchyrestingface · 18/01/2026 20:47

Whosthetabbynow · 18/01/2026 20:39

Perhaps a smoking jacket?

A 'custard flavoured vaping jacket' just doesn't have the same ring, does it? Sad

Flannelfeet · 18/01/2026 20:48

Ruggerlass · 18/01/2026 20:47

she’s not wrong 😀

Is that you wilma? 😆 🤣 😂. Hoosecoat and baffies and the fire lit 😆 🤣

HeyThereDelila · 18/01/2026 20:50

Agree with PPs that a house coat is something older generations of women wore to do house work. Not remotely like a dressing gown.

Helplessandheartbroke · 18/01/2026 20:51

PauliesWalnuts · 18/01/2026 20:43

We’re in Manchester and have dressing gowns. My mum (raised in a council estate in the 50s) said that calling them a housecoat was common, like showing your bra strap or eating in the street 😂

Manchester too!

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WishingIwasyoungerandslimmer · 18/01/2026 20:55

Hopingforaholiday · 18/01/2026 20:06

Northern. Dressing gown if it wraps around and has a belt. Housecoat is more fitted and what women wore over clothes to protect from dirt while cleaning.

I hate wrap style dressing gowns with belts.

I'm always on the lookout for a good dressing gown with a zip or buttons at a pinch.

Unfortunately not many of them to be found in high street shops nowadays.

So I cherish my current zipped, snuggly and warm dressing gown.

Makemineacosmo · 18/01/2026 20:57

I'm a Weegie too, but a dressing gown and housecoat were always different in our house. I still call an apron a pinny.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 18/01/2026 21:03

Sybil Fawltey had some wonderful bed jackets

ChurchWindows · 18/01/2026 21:25

sweeneytoddsrazor · 18/01/2026 21:03

Sybil Fawltey had some wonderful bed jackets

I miss when TV looked like this.

Do you think Sybil would have called this a peignoir?

Its a housecoat