It's an interesting conundrum from a psychological point of view.
It is considered reasonable and rational that there will be errors, misdiagnosis, false positives or indeed negatives and so many factors are involved, not least budgeting and protocols etc.
However, when one is on the receiving end of such, it's incredibly difficult to accept that "it's just one of those things" especially if the experience has included a cavalier attitude from the professionals involved, with good grace.
I've read some appalling stories on MN, which may of course be untrue or exagerrated, but the response when someone asks should I complain or what about compensation is usually robustly rejected with an air of "what do you hope to gain from this"? Personally I am sitting on a clusterfuck involving multiple agencies in both physical and mental health spheres involving my DF whose demise was ultimately and demonstrably hastened by multiple failings. I'm considering pursuing it once I can guarantee I won't just go full banshee at the wrong tone or immediate defensiveness, and my goal is not just personal - it's because vulnerable elderly people without advocates are likely suffering even more than my Dad did, and it beeds to be highlighted and examined.
It's a bit like the justice system as well, when people convicted on almost purely circumstantial evidence pursue proving their innocence after conviction. Should one really be expected to "take one for the team" if they are innocent? To protect a system which can be as prone to error or corruption as some cases have brought to light?
Obviously I'm talking about serious issues within the health system particularly, and it seems shocking to me in this day and age that things can go so badly wrong and yet be skated over with vague "lessons learned" rhetoric and little effective change.
My experiences with all official systems / authorities have been more negative than positive, and I have enough anecdata to fill volumes from friends and relatives in similar vein. While it could be argued that I may be the common denominator, it's not the people I've dealt with in the main, it is the system failures and the domino effect of trying to address that, at first as politely as possible, and then with growing frustration. The worst time was during the early days of lockdown when my Mum was in her last month of life, and palliative care went completely sideways, and accessing anything at all was nigh on impossible. At that point I did lose the plot with one GP receptionist who was so obstructive that the Practice Manager had to be called all because I wasn't allowed to drop off a poo test and pick up a prescription at the same time, despite the GP having okayed it. I was supposed to go home and my Mum had to ring for another slot, I couldn't do it from the car park. It was insane.
Anyway, sorry for the derail. I just feel very passionately that it's wrong that so many people suffer and die early because the NHS seems so broken at almost every level.