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cause he is Jewish

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Carycach4 · 13/01/2026 10:34

Apologies cant see a thread about this.
Staff at Bristol Brunel academy blocked a visit by Damien Egan, their local MP because he is Jewish. Clear case of antisemitism. AIBU to thinking that headteacher and those driving this decision should be sacked and reported to the Teacher Regulation Agency?
(Apologies thread title isnt correct, but i can't edit it)

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dairydebris · 14/01/2026 18:02

LadyBlakeneysHanky · 14/01/2026 17:43

No, it’s not because he is Jewish, it’s because he is heavily involved with Labour Friends of Israel (vice chair I believe) and visited Israel while Israel was carrying out genocide in Palestine.

Saying that it is antisemitic not to want him giving a talk in a school is frankly like saying it’s sexist not to have Andrew Tate give a talk in a school.

Being opposed to the atrocious slaughter of civilians, and refusing to give a platform to someone who openly supports a state committing genocide, is not antisemitic. Gullible people are being very badly misled on this point.

I'm embarrassed for you for this post. Haven't bothered to read the thread and made quite a few erroneous assumptions.
Boring.

Kingscallops · 14/01/2026 18:05

LadyBlakeneysHanky · 14/01/2026 17:43

No, it’s not because he is Jewish, it’s because he is heavily involved with Labour Friends of Israel (vice chair I believe) and visited Israel while Israel was carrying out genocide in Palestine.

Saying that it is antisemitic not to want him giving a talk in a school is frankly like saying it’s sexist not to have Andrew Tate give a talk in a school.

Being opposed to the atrocious slaughter of civilians, and refusing to give a platform to someone who openly supports a state committing genocide, is not antisemitic. Gullible people are being very badly misled on this point.

Jews aren't gullible. They are harangued, harassed and persecuted but they certainly know antisemitism when they see it. Fortunately 80% of decent people on this thread see it too.

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:05

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 17:59

So you haven't read the thread either. And it's goyishe, not goyshie.

It's actually גוייִש and I am happy to continue the conversation in Yiddish where I am far less likely to to make typos as it's my first language, if you like?

hihelenhi · 14/01/2026 18:05

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 17:56

Yes it absolutely would be because the issue is being a friend of Israel, which at this point probably has more goyshie members than it does Jewish.

I'm Jewish and this definitely isn't anti-Semitism and to conflate people taking issue with someone ardently supporting the Israeli prime minister, something most Israelis don't, in his devastation of Gaza and continued lack of policing settlers in the west bank with actual antisemitism is repugnant and belittles actual antisemitism.

Of course there is the arguement that he's unlikely to start chanting death to Ar@bs in the corridors or other sound bites of the current Israeli administration but equally I am sure Tommy Robinson would read a good story or deliver a good P.E lesson on self defence without being horribly racist but we, well those of use who are decent human beings, wouldn't want him near school kids.

Except Friends of Israel literally aren't "Friends of Netanyahu". Why are you claiming they are?

He hasn't done what you claim. He isn't responsible for decisions made by the Israeli government. He has not "expressed support for genocide" (and it's questionable whether or not the retaliatory actions in Gaza against Hamas terrorism count as "genocide in any case, no matter how brutal. Military action tends to be)." Are ALL Muslims in the world to be held responsible for the decisions of Hamas to murder and torture Jews, by the way? Or for the many Islamisist terrorist acts against innocent people around the world in recent years? Should they be? Because following your logic, it would seem you do.

What result would you like "protesting" this individual Jewish MP's presence at a school to talk about his own job have exactly?

I do wish someone would answer this very basic question, which I've asked several times now. Do you not know?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 14/01/2026 18:08

AnneWhittle · 14/01/2026 17:58

do you have any evidence this man 'ardently supports the Israeli PM' ?

An inconvenient question, AnneWhittle, and the answer is almost certainly no - not least because the antisemites would have been all over it if this was the case

So as I said we're into mental gymnastics, as in "I think he might suppport Netanyahu - so he must do - so he does"

5MinuteArgument · 14/01/2026 18:08

Livelovebehappy · 14/01/2026 18:01

Sometimes there are no words....

Yes, agreed. Of all the comments on this thread, I find this the most troubling. The idea that an MP cannot visit a school because of the 'demographics' of the area.

This is pure sectarianism and will end badly for this country if we continue to pander to it.

AnneWhittle · 14/01/2026 18:10

its OK I can wait @NotThisAgain1987

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 18:10

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:05

It's actually גוייִש and I am happy to continue the conversation in Yiddish where I am far less likely to to make typos as it's my first language, if you like?

I don't speak Yiddish so there wouldn't be much point. That's not the flex you think it is.

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:12

AnneWhittle · 14/01/2026 18:10

its OK I can wait @NotThisAgain1987

What are you waiting for?

I'm waiting to learn if I can switch to my preferred language of Yiddish

Humdingerydoo · 14/01/2026 18:16

"LFI agrees with the UK government that the policies of the current Israeli government in the West Bank are utterly unacceptable. We totally oppose annexation of any part of the West Bank, and we abhor the violence perpetrated by extremist settlers and the manner in which this is encouraged and tolerated by far-right politicians in Israel."

"We welcome the government’s decision to impose sanctions on Itamar Ben-Gvir and Bezalel Smotrich. LFI has consistently supported action against violent extremists in the West Bank, as well as action to rein in illegal settlement outposts. We also opposed the presence of these far-right ministers in the current government, recognising that their agenda is antithetical to the values of equality and democracy set out in Israel’s Declaration of Independence."

"The humanitarian situation in Gaza is worsening and must be urgently addressed. As we have consistently argued, Israel must ensure that humanitarian aid can flow freely into Gaza. We abhor Hamas’ theft and profiteering and its cynical use of the people of Gaza as human shields, but restrictions on aid are utterly unacceptable."

"The Netanyahu government has been a disaster for Israel and its security, for the Palestinian people, and for the prospects of a wider regional peace. Netanyahu’s decision to stop aid flowing into Gaza at the bequest of his far-right coalition partners is unjustifiable and we have consistently opposed it."

"We share the Israeli people’s desire for new elections, a change of government, and an end to the Netanyahu era."

Various quotes from the Labour Friends of Israel website. So he wasn't banned for being pro-Israel's government. So why was he banned?

HappyFace2025 · 14/01/2026 18:17

hihelenhi · 14/01/2026 17:53

So I see you haven't bothered reading the rest of the thread then, and just prefer to regurgitate debunked talking points and mantras like a dimwit?

Labour Friends of Israel are pro a two-state solution and anti-Netanyahu.

Visiting Israel when your husband is Israeli is not a sign of "being pro genocide".

All Jewish and Israeli people aren't Netanyahu supporters

The question of whether a "genocide" was actually taking place is debatable, actually. Wars tend to involve appalling loss of life. Horrendous as it is, it doesn't mean the intent is "genocidal".

Meanwhile, Jewish and Israeli people throughout the globe are not a) responsible for what the government of Israel does, any more than YOU are personally responsible for what Keir Starmer or any other government official of Britain or our army does b) individuals being blamed and targeted for the actions of a foreign government because of their ethnicity or that of their partner is kind of the definition of racism.

Claiming that all Jewish people or all people who support the existence of the state of Israel are "genocide supporters" is lazy, old school anti semitic shite, repackaged.

Have you always been an easily led bigot, or is just where Jewish people are concerned?

I suggest you learn some critical thinking skills. And perhaps to have some principles, because I really can't see people who spout the bullshit you do can possibly have any.

Excellent post, thank you.

Kingscallops · 14/01/2026 18:17

hihelenhi · 14/01/2026 18:05

Except Friends of Israel literally aren't "Friends of Netanyahu". Why are you claiming they are?

He hasn't done what you claim. He isn't responsible for decisions made by the Israeli government. He has not "expressed support for genocide" (and it's questionable whether or not the retaliatory actions in Gaza against Hamas terrorism count as "genocide in any case, no matter how brutal. Military action tends to be)." Are ALL Muslims in the world to be held responsible for the decisions of Hamas to murder and torture Jews, by the way? Or for the many Islamisist terrorist acts against innocent people around the world in recent years? Should they be? Because following your logic, it would seem you do.

What result would you like "protesting" this individual Jewish MP's presence at a school to talk about his own job have exactly?

I do wish someone would answer this very basic question, which I've asked several times now. Do you not know?

You struck a chord with me when you mentioned this point earlier: why aren't all Muslims held to the same standards that Jews are - why are they never cancelled due to their -'links' with Hamas or just for sharing the same heritage? That's how ridiculous an assumption and stereotype this MP is the latest one to face. If not all Muslims are grouped with Hamas why are all Jewish linked with Israel's war conduct? I feel dirty just typing the very proposition with regards both groups, yet pro Pals seem to have no trouble holding all Israelis accountable. It's back to victim blaming.

Kingscallops · 14/01/2026 18:17

HappyFace2025 · 14/01/2026 18:17

Excellent post, thank you.

I second that.

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 18:21

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:12

What are you waiting for?

I'm waiting to learn if I can switch to my preferred language of Yiddish

You must've missed my answer above. Tbh it's a bit Ashkenormative of you to assume I speak Yiddish.

HappyFace2025 · 14/01/2026 18:21

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:05

It's actually גוייִש and I am happy to continue the conversation in Yiddish where I am far less likely to to make typos as it's my first language, if you like?

Yiddish is your first language? Where do you live?

andgoodnessknows · 14/01/2026 18:24

dairydebris · 13/01/2026 11:03

Should we be asking all adults who go to speak in schools their views on Gaza before allowing them to speak to children about their careers, or other matters unrelated to Gaza?

Or just the Jewish ones?

Excellent response to all those pretending it isn’t antisemitic/targeting a Jewish man.

Tooobvious · 14/01/2026 18:27

FrippEnos · 13/01/2026 18:47

Do you think that the headteacher should be putting the pupils at risk?

Do you think anyone should be able to dictate which events at a school are allowed to take place, by making threats of what they will do if events they disagree with are held?

dairydebris · 14/01/2026 18:27

andgoodnessknows · 14/01/2026 18:24

Excellent response to all those pretending it isn’t antisemitic/targeting a Jewish man.

The conversation has not moved on.

PurpleThistle7 · 14/01/2026 18:27

HappyFace2025 · 14/01/2026 18:21

Yiddish is your first language? Where do you live?

It was my grandmother’s first language. In 1920. Maybe this poster is that generation? Or maybe originally from an ultra orthodox sect? This is the most interesting and unexpected twist on this thread. Hope they answer!

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:29

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 18:10

I don't speak Yiddish so there wouldn't be much point. That's not the flex you think it is.

Then perhaps you should stay in you lane eh?

As for how do I know his attitudes? I don't know his personal ones but I know the inner workings of the two main Jewish groups in the Labour party Labour friends of Israel and Jewish voice for Labour, only the later insists you actually be Jewish to join. Just like any political parties there are overriding aligned you join LVI if you are a verdant Zionist and see no issues with Israel existing as it does and you join Jewish voice for labour if you are either more liberal Zionist or non Zionist. JVL leans more left wing. To continue the Tommy Robinson example I imagine not everyone goes on his marches agrees 100% with him but they are making a point by being there.

The fact that a PP questions that it's even a genocide when people far more qualified than any of us say it is speaks volumes about the attitudes held here. The Israeli military is capable of taking out leaders of hamas and doing targeted strikes with it's several special forces whereas it has instead chosen to level Gaza and work with developers that want to permanently displace Palestinians and build Jewish homes on the land.

As for what I want the protest/boycott to achieve rather nichely I'd quite like it to make members of LFI think about why they are considered toxic wherever they go when member of JVL and the smaller off shoots aren't. I would like him to consider why he an active MP in the UK is advocating for a country whos, regardless if mums net agrees or not, military leaders have commited genocide and have killed a young man and imprison many others for refusing to join the IDF. I can't possibly answer what the teachers want/wanted to achieve.

AnneWhittle · 14/01/2026 18:30

@NotThisAgain1987 I'm waiting for some evidence that this MP supports Israels prime minister. In English preferably.

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:30

HappyFace2025 · 14/01/2026 18:21

Yiddish is your first language? Where do you live?

I grew up hasdic in North London

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 18:30

@NotThisAgain1987 What lane might that be?

PurpleThistle7 · 14/01/2026 18:33

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:30

I grew up hasdic in North London

Genuinely super interesting. I was friends with some Lubavich families growing up in New York but they spoke English at home. Maybe they could speak Yiddish too but just didn’t with me? My grandmother would only speak in Yiddish when she was very, very angry.

HaimishaPickle · 14/01/2026 18:36

NotThisAgain1987 · 14/01/2026 18:29

Then perhaps you should stay in you lane eh?

As for how do I know his attitudes? I don't know his personal ones but I know the inner workings of the two main Jewish groups in the Labour party Labour friends of Israel and Jewish voice for Labour, only the later insists you actually be Jewish to join. Just like any political parties there are overriding aligned you join LVI if you are a verdant Zionist and see no issues with Israel existing as it does and you join Jewish voice for labour if you are either more liberal Zionist or non Zionist. JVL leans more left wing. To continue the Tommy Robinson example I imagine not everyone goes on his marches agrees 100% with him but they are making a point by being there.

The fact that a PP questions that it's even a genocide when people far more qualified than any of us say it is speaks volumes about the attitudes held here. The Israeli military is capable of taking out leaders of hamas and doing targeted strikes with it's several special forces whereas it has instead chosen to level Gaza and work with developers that want to permanently displace Palestinians and build Jewish homes on the land.

As for what I want the protest/boycott to achieve rather nichely I'd quite like it to make members of LFI think about why they are considered toxic wherever they go when member of JVL and the smaller off shoots aren't. I would like him to consider why he an active MP in the UK is advocating for a country whos, regardless if mums net agrees or not, military leaders have commited genocide and have killed a young man and imprison many others for refusing to join the IDF. I can't possibly answer what the teachers want/wanted to achieve.

And what on earth are you talking about? Jewish Voice for Labour doesn't insist you have to be Jewish to join and as you seem unaware that they've now changed their name to Jewish Voice for Liberation, I'd query your knowledge of their inner workings.