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The doctor won’t help and I feel powerless.

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GoldenMirrors · 12/01/2026 23:47

Me and DP have been trying to conceive for 2 years. I’ve had 4 miscarriages during that time. We’ve had every test done we can (privately) and nothing was a miss. Sperm tests, ultrasounds, we both are a healthy weight and take vitamins. Progesterone is strong. Lining is great. Egg count is great. However, the fertility specialist flagged a concern around my thyroid/TSH levels. It’s been consistently 5.5 in my last 3 blood tests, and the fertility specialist is concerned that I have subclinical hypothyroidism and this could be causing miscarriages, as it’s not optimal for conception and should be below 2.5. T3/T4 are fine. They suggested i go to my GP as they cant prescribe. We are 30 and 31.

this makes sense, I’ve been feeling fatigued, have struggled to maintain my weight loss and have been losing my hair. Both my parents have hypothyroidism. I contacted the GP about going on Thryoid medication and my concern around the miscarriages he looked at the blood test results and refused. Said they weren’t high enough. Wouldn’t refer me to endocrinology. I asked to see another GP who also refused. TSH affects the carrying of the baby, so I fear that IVF wouldn’t even be successful.

I feel at a loss. It’s not something I can lower naturally either. I’ve considered booking a private endocrinologist to discuss but it’s over £500 and if they don’t do anything either or can’t give a private prescription then I’ll be down £500 and nowhere forward.

does anyone have any suggestion on what to do? Or what you would do? I feel like I have no brain power after the past 2 years.

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Ella31 · 13/01/2026 00:14

Could you ring the private endo , explain your situation and ask if there's any point you coming in. You have nothing to lose doing that if you feel they dismiss you if you did pay the 500. Also could you ask the fert clinic to give you a letter regarding your thyroid.

I'm sorry you are going through this. I had my own struggles in the past with loss and it's very frustating.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 13/01/2026 00:16

Can you not get the GP to refer you for your fertility problems and see what that department say?

SlightlyHeartbroken · 13/01/2026 00:21

Ask for a blood test for thyroid antibodies, it maybe Hashimoto’s autoimmune thyroiditis. Make sure to tell GP of family history if there are other autoimmune diseases ( coeliac, type 1 diabetes).

EskarinaS · 13/01/2026 00:26

Complain to your GP practice, attaching the NICE guidance on hypothyroidism and outlining how it clearly supports your request. There's no good reason for them to refuse - the medication costs the NHS less than a quid a pack last time I checked.

Whatsherusername · 13/01/2026 00:33

The reference range of "normal" for TSH on the nhs is 0.3-5. I just checked as I've just had mine tested and mine was 0.2. They are re testing mine in 2 months. They don't even test t3 on the nhs so at least you know thats ok. I would deffo ask for the antibody test for hashimotos to rule that out.

JanuaryJasmine · 13/01/2026 01:32

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Stelmosfire1 · 13/01/2026 04:11

Can you contact Tommys? I work in early pregnancy and some of the clients I’ve seen after recurrent miscarriages have had great results with advice or treatment recommendations from them

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