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AIBU to think if you're a net negative in tax you shouldn't be able to vote?

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 13:21

Trigger warning: strong political views / rant incoming. A shrinking group is expected to fund an expanding system. The system increasingly penalises work while rewarding dependency.

AIBU to think the modern state is a parasite, and that only those who are a net positive in taxes should be able to vote, rather than forcing working people to support an ever-growing dependent class?

Currently ~21% of working-age adults are economically inactive, meaning not working and not actively seeking work (according to a research brief from the House of Commons). Democracy is broken if voters can vote themselves benefits paid for by others. Representation should be weighted toward those with demonstrable responsibility and contribution.

Currently, the state is extractive and hollowing out the middle class. As anyone that has the eyes to see and ears to hear will know, dependency is rising and and demographics are changing at a rate not seen outside of wartime.

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium.

This is essentially Chesterton’s test of a society.

"An honest man falls in love with an honest woman. He wishes, therefore, to marry her, to be the father of her children, to secure her and himself. All systems of government should be tested by whether he can do this.

If any system, feudal, servile, or barbaric, does in fact give him enough land, work, or security that he can do it, there is the essence of liberty and justice.

If any system, Labour, Conservative, Liberal Democrat, Green, Reform, or technocratic, does in fact give him wages so low and conditions so insecure that he cannot do it, there is the essence of tyranny and shame."

If the state could stop turning people into dependents that working people have to pay for, that would be great. The state is bloated, fixated on wealth redistribution rather than wealth creation, and actively working against the people it is meant to represent. It is incapable of creating the conditions for wealth, stability, and independence. This is managed decline, and we need some adults in the room who have read a book. AIBU?

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 12/01/2026 20:34

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 14:32

Raising my kids, providing and provisioning, moved location to ensure their environment is the best it can be. Ending generational trauma. Looking after my DW's family member with dementia. That good?

So nothing outside your family? No, not enough.

Give time, care, education, support to someone you don't care about. So far, all you do is pay tax. A bit of a taker really.

Society benefits more from nurses, social workers, road sweepers, teachers, carers than it does from you, Daddy Warbucks. Get off your high horse.

Kirbert2 · 12/01/2026 20:35

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:23

If you needed an operation @SweetcornFritter , you'd see a surgeon. I'm not willing to cut bits out of you!

I don't think harping on about the rights of the disabled is very helpful. Almost all of us acknowledge that their protection and dignity is essential to considering ourselves a civilised society. But if you asked me whose opinions I would rate more valuable between an orthopaedic surgeon and an activist quadraplegic, I would struggle to calculate the relative values.

As long as people are happy to suggest taking their rights away, be it voting or something else, it will get ''harped on'' about.

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:42

missedtherainbow · 12/01/2026 20:21

I’m a foster carer for our local authority to 3 children, 2 with complex disabilities. As a foster carer I don’t earn enough to pay tax. I’m not eligible for any benefits as my husband works full time.
By your reasoning I shouldn’t be allowed to vote as I’m not paying taxes? What about the amount the local authority are saving by paying me less than £1 an hour to care 24 hours a day 7 days a week for children/young adults with complex disabilities who will never be able to live independently, require all their personal care needs met, tube fed and medication through the night.
what about parents of disabled children who can’t work because of caring commitments do you think they aren’t contributing to society?

Under a plural vote system, you would probably qualify for at least two votes in my view. One for being over 18, and the second for your public service to looked after children. If you and your partner are married/in a recognised partnership, you'd probably qualify for a third for having some stability. So while it is quite complicated, it would actually grant you more influence over the political debate, not less.

ObelixtheGaul · 12/01/2026 20:44

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 20:24

Does your vote in the current system give you that?

Not as it should, no. But my not having a vote at all, which was your proposal, would give me even less, wouldn't it?

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:50

Kirbert2 · 12/01/2026 20:35

As long as people are happy to suggest taking their rights away, be it voting or something else, it will get ''harped on'' about.

I don't think I have said anything that could be interpreted as removing rights from anyone.

Kirbert2 · 12/01/2026 20:52

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:50

I don't think I have said anything that could be interpreted as removing rights from anyone.

You haven't that I've seen. I was responding to your comment about ''harping on'' about the rights of disabled people.

SweetcornFritter · 12/01/2026 20:52

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:23

If you needed an operation @SweetcornFritter , you'd see a surgeon. I'm not willing to cut bits out of you!

I don't think harping on about the rights of the disabled is very helpful. Almost all of us acknowledge that their protection and dignity is essential to considering ourselves a civilised society. But if you asked me whose opinions I would rate more valuable between an orthopaedic surgeon and an activist quadraplegic, I would struggle to calculate the relative values.

Weird post. I wasn’t harping on about the disabled. Also I don’t see what operations and surgeons has to do with the discussion, nor why the opinions of a surgeon vs the opinions of an activist paraplegic is relevant to this discussion.

1dayatatime · 12/01/2026 20:58

ObelixtheGaul · 12/01/2026 19:29

So why have you proposed a system that isn't meritocratic? Wealth generators do not intrinsically have more 'merit', and I explained why that is the case.

In the past, I've worked for people who fit your original 'net contributor' metric. If it was up to them, they'd vote for every policy that ensured they didn't have to provide any basic health and safety and should only pay the barest minimum of wages. In fact, I worked for some of these pre- minimum wage and I can tell you now, none of them would have voted for a minimum wage.

Many of the employment rights we have today we wouldn't have if only the 'wealth generators' had a say. How is the owner of a nursing home who cuts corners and pays staff as little as possible to gain the wealth which makes them a 'net contributor' of more merit than the minimum wage whistleblower who stood up to their practices? Yet under the system you propound, the supposed 'meritocratic' one, the owner would have a vote because apparently they are 'better qualified'.

A meritocracy is not a bad idea, your mistake is your quantification of 'merit'. Lots of absolute amoral shysters earn a lot of money.

It's basically the system that existed in the 1700s and 1800s. As you correctly point out the problem is that the wealthy (who are only allowed to vote) would always vote for lower taxes and only the minimum in healthcare and welfare to stop the poor from revolting. However as we saw with the French and Russian revolutions the poor make up the majority of the population so if they feel ignored or disenfranchised then they will simply start a revolution.

The problem with the current system is that it is in the interest of the majority of voters (who are not net contributors) to vote for whichever party promises ever greater Government spending (health care, benefits, education etc etc). There is a limit to how much this can be funded by "taxing the rich" so more and more is funded by Government debt. This ultimately results in fiscal collapse.

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 21:00

I apologise if my phrasing has offended. I did say above that our treatment of people with additional needs is central to being a decent society. I also said that a medical opinion and an activist opinion are unlikely to be similar.

1dayatatime · 12/01/2026 21:03

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 19:50

I posted this for fun and didn't expect to blow up as much as it had. What governance changes would you make? Keep it high level.

I agree it seems that many posters can't tolerate a theoretical academic discussion, if it's something they disagree with- no one is really going to take your vote away.

ObelixtheGaul · 12/01/2026 21:11

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 20:03

Of course it's low stakes. I seriously doubt that there are any senior SpADs lurking for ideas.

But I do think that there is room to explore a representational system that acknowledges effort and work. I award everyone one vote, at 18, to stick to the status quo. But when you might finish your degree, you'd earn another for being better educated. Complete professional training and the final exams would entitle a nurse, teacher, doctor or accountant to a third vote; this might encourage employers to buck up their ideas about staff training, which would be a plus. Marriage or property purchase could be another vote. None of this limits an ordinary person's aspirations via wealth or privilege, because they are all steps any sensible society wants its citizens to aspire to fulfil individually. It think it would be important to say there's not a ladder of completing the steps. Some of these votes would be parallel, so you might get 1-2-4-6. or 1-3-5-6.

None of them are purchasable.

One would be a period of civic/public/military service, which might parallel further or degree education, awarded for years of service. I haven't thought it through closely enough to explain any details, and I also think you have to plan in an entrepreneurial route.

So on election you hand your paperwork to the clerk and you get handed the appropriate number of papers. You can split your vote across parties, or cast them all for the same party. The vote count might be a nightmare however.

So you've still got a situation where a manual labourer has less say on health and safety in the workplace than somebody who has never done a manual job in their life, but has accrued more 'points' in a totally unrelated sphere of reference.

A care assistant who has worked for 30 years in the industry but has no degree and is single has less understanding of the industry and legislation pertaining to it than someone married with a Business Studies degree who works as an influencer.

Hmmm. You know what you said about wanting to be operated on by a qualified surgeon? I'd rather prefer decisions made about the welfare of workers in heavy industry and regulations pertaining to the care of the elderly to be made by people actually in the industry, regardless of their marital status.

We ALL need a vote. Because we ALL have something to bring to the table. Our experience is not invalidated by a lack of the 'right' qualifications.

Decent societies do not prioritise 'aspiration' over good, honest labour. One of the biggest problems with today's society is the lack of people willing to work at grass roots level, because they've all been told there's no value in being 'blue collar'. You seek to further devalue grass roots work by restricting the number of votes available to people who are round pegs in round holes, doing the work too many people don't want to do but which is necessary for society to function.

I've been 'blue collar' all my working life. I thought it was something to be proud of. Not something that decreases my value as a member of democratic society that I have forfeited my 'right' to vote. Good job I am married, at least not having the misfortune to have married an abusive so and so makes me 'worthier'. It's a shame my years wiping the arses of people like you don't qualify.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 21:18

ObelixtheGaul · 12/01/2026 21:11

So you've still got a situation where a manual labourer has less say on health and safety in the workplace than somebody who has never done a manual job in their life, but has accrued more 'points' in a totally unrelated sphere of reference.

A care assistant who has worked for 30 years in the industry but has no degree and is single has less understanding of the industry and legislation pertaining to it than someone married with a Business Studies degree who works as an influencer.

Hmmm. You know what you said about wanting to be operated on by a qualified surgeon? I'd rather prefer decisions made about the welfare of workers in heavy industry and regulations pertaining to the care of the elderly to be made by people actually in the industry, regardless of their marital status.

We ALL need a vote. Because we ALL have something to bring to the table. Our experience is not invalidated by a lack of the 'right' qualifications.

Decent societies do not prioritise 'aspiration' over good, honest labour. One of the biggest problems with today's society is the lack of people willing to work at grass roots level, because they've all been told there's no value in being 'blue collar'. You seek to further devalue grass roots work by restricting the number of votes available to people who are round pegs in round holes, doing the work too many people don't want to do but which is necessary for society to function.

I've been 'blue collar' all my working life. I thought it was something to be proud of. Not something that decreases my value as a member of democratic society that I have forfeited my 'right' to vote. Good job I am married, at least not having the misfortune to have married an abusive so and so makes me 'worthier'. It's a shame my years wiping the arses of people like you don't qualify.

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Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 21:32

@ObelixtheGaul , thank you for your post. I really grasp where you are coming from and I do understand, I think.

I am not blue collared, but I don't look down on it. I regard those skills as hugely valuable. Our company sells the ability to do soft soldering and lots of other engineering stuff that not many people know how to do any more, and if anyone wants it done, we charge a premium for the know how, but the person who knows how and does the work gets paid the extra. I can't, and nor can the person who created the company that gets the work that pays the wages. But we can be all over the health and safety rules that means honest labour is safe and properly paid.

Our micro engineering business is a fleabite, but no employee has resigned in 10 years, except the one who was groomed for six years to be the big chief who lost his bottle when he understood the scale of the responsibility he was taking on. Finding the profitable work to keep paying the payroll is as much of a job as doing the work, arguably much more of it.

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 21:35

The work does not just wash in with the tide @Obelix!

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 21:36

@ObelixtheGaul

He’s not worthy of you wiping his arse. Arrogant fascist prick.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/01/2026 21:39

The OP just needs to go back to his DVD of Starship Troopers and realise that Verhoven's work was a critique of the views espoused in Heinlein's book, not a further glorification of fascism.

Papyrophile · 12/01/2026 21:39

Err... not sure who is talking about what or whom here? I thought this was a conversation?

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 21:57

I was talking about the OP as an arrogant fascist prick. With his Alpha workers.

Whilst the drones carry the can

Does that help? I found the whole thing vile and repugnant.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 22:04

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 20:09

Better to exchange ideas and talk about them. Isn't that why we're here? You can change my mind.

The thing is, you might see it as "fun" to throw out these ridiculous, offensive ideas to see how much you can wind people up on the Internet. Your wife might find your trolling "hilarious". What you don't seem to appreciate or care about is the deep hurt that you may cause to people reading - who might not choose to post how they feel - who you are basically dismissing as having nothing to contribute to society.

That's pretty shit, and it isn't much fun.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 12/01/2026 22:05

missedtherainbow · 12/01/2026 20:21

I’m a foster carer for our local authority to 3 children, 2 with complex disabilities. As a foster carer I don’t earn enough to pay tax. I’m not eligible for any benefits as my husband works full time.
By your reasoning I shouldn’t be allowed to vote as I’m not paying taxes? What about the amount the local authority are saving by paying me less than £1 an hour to care 24 hours a day 7 days a week for children/young adults with complex disabilities who will never be able to live independently, require all their personal care needs met, tube fed and medication through the night.
what about parents of disabled children who can’t work because of caring commitments do you think they aren’t contributing to society?

This is giving back. Hats off to you missedtherainbow. You are a MAX contributor to society.

Pickledpoppetpickle · 12/01/2026 22:06

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium

I was a single working (full time teacher) parent of 3, one with a disability, for many years. I claimed DLA, Child Benefit and Tax Credits. I don't have the right to vote? Jesus fucking wept.

XenoBitch · 12/01/2026 22:07

Pickledpoppetpickle · 12/01/2026 22:06

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium

I was a single working (full time teacher) parent of 3, one with a disability, for many years. I claimed DLA, Child Benefit and Tax Credits. I don't have the right to vote? Jesus fucking wept.

OP probably thinks you should lose the right to fresh air if you are on benefits.

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 22:13

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 22:04

The thing is, you might see it as "fun" to throw out these ridiculous, offensive ideas to see how much you can wind people up on the Internet. Your wife might find your trolling "hilarious". What you don't seem to appreciate or care about is the deep hurt that you may cause to people reading - who might not choose to post how they feel - who you are basically dismissing as having nothing to contribute to society.

That's pretty shit, and it isn't much fun.

Are these people in the room with you right now?

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 22:13

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 12/01/2026 21:57

I was talking about the OP as an arrogant fascist prick. With his Alpha workers.

Whilst the drones carry the can

Does that help? I found the whole thing vile and repugnant.

Gosh. Big feelings. Let's sleep on it.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/01/2026 22:15

SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 22:13

Are these people in the room with you right now?

No.

Are you only able to imagine the potential impact of your careless words on other people if they are sat in the same room as you?

That explains a lot.

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