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Mattel have made an autistic Barbie

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IwishIwasacaterpillar · 12/01/2026 08:54

I find this quite odd. Autism doesn’t have a look.
my child is autistic and I would not have bought them one when they were young

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Parsleyforme · 12/01/2026 09:52

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

There has been a wheelchair and ramp for Barbie for quite a while. They are quite sort after. They can be used for teaching about disability and differences, but kids can also see their older relatives like grandparents represented in their play.

People of colour talk about how important it was for them to see people like themselves represented on TV as kids. And I think it is no different for kids with a disability or disability in their family. I can imagine a child being thrilled that their toy represents them, their autistic best friend or sibling, and it sounds like Mattel has done research with real kids. But as not everyone uses fidget spinners or ear defenders, without them it’s just Side-Eye Barbie as it isn’t necessarily a physical disability

CautiousLurker2 · 12/01/2026 09:55

LadyKenya · 12/01/2026 09:45

It would not mean anything to your child then. That is fine. Not all children with autism are the same, of course.

Which is precisely why having a doll that purports to represent ‘autism’ is on many levels quite offensive? Is there a Black, Asian or Hispanic Autistic Barbie or just a white one? I get that it was well meaning, but autism is a socalled ‘hidden’ disability - why can’t they simply market the accessories so that any Barbie can have the items that a child might chose to use to adapt their doll to represent themselves, whether that be headphones, spinners, glasses, a walking stick or a wheelchair?

LayaM · 12/01/2026 09:56

ObladeeObladi · 12/01/2026 09:26

I think there are two only physical differences to the standard Barbie - the eyes are slightly aimed at the side (as so many autistic people find direct eye contact difficult) and the feet and therefore shoes are flat (as coordination/balance issues often go along with autism, so flat shoes usually work better).

My autistic 8 year old actually prefers the normal Barbie - he enjoys intense eye contact and almost always walks on his tiptoes - both of which I’ve been told by specialists are also well known autism traits.

The whole concept of “autism” as though it is one condition is misleading really, as there are so many differences in how autism presents and what challenges it causes, but I’m not sure it’s realistic to expect the general public to recognise 20 different types of autism or know all the different issues, so in general I’m all for wider representation and recognition of autism. If nothing else the new Barbie promotes discussion/better understanding.

I actually think this is the key point, it's good that Mattel are representing different disabilities, the problem is autism is still quite poorly understood (to the extent it may be several conditions under one umbrella). So inevitably any attempt to simplify it into a single doll will fail and offend those who don't fit the Mattel-defined mould.

I take issue with people scoffing at representation generally - it does play a part in normalising disability.

LemaxObsessive · 12/01/2026 09:56

Elisheva · 12/01/2026 08:55

Apparently she has a fidget spinner and noise cancelling headphones. So that’s her all sorted out then.

Exactly! 🙄 My Autistic girl has neither of those things, yet was diagnosed with Autism at 4yrs old… She looks (& dresses) exactly like any other girl her age!

LemaxObsessive · 12/01/2026 09:58

LittleCatClaw · 12/01/2026 09:34

I think it’s great, I have an autistic daughter and she definitely does have a look because people always ask me if she’s autistic even when she isn’t doing anything at all. I get asked all the time. She would love this and it actually does look like her 😆

I massively disagree, they do not have ‘a look’ at all. Certainly not the majority of girls with Autism!

Parsleyforme · 12/01/2026 09:58

Leavebarbiealone · 12/01/2026 09:47

It's great the Barbie has lots of accessories, so that the person playing with it can adapt to what they use. We don't use fidget spinners, but we do use ear defenders.
For those making comments regarding the "differences" to the standard Barbies, the blind Barbie is also a standard Barbie with a walking stick, the deaf Barbie is a standard Barbie with a hearing aid, the wheelchair dolls are standard dolls with wheelchairs.
You could use any Barbie for any condition. The only ones I can think of that are slightly different, are the amputee and down syndrome dolls.

Oh yes I forgot they did a Down Syndrome Barbie. On googling it there are also baby dolls from other brands with Down Syndrome. Never knew that

Changedmynameagain20 · 12/01/2026 09:58

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

There's been a wheelchair user barbie for over twenty years.

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 12/01/2026 09:59

LadyKenya · 12/01/2026 09:26

This. They really are a good thing.

I have no problem with this doll other than the one I have with Barbies generally which is that they promote unrealistic and toxic standards of beauty.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 12/01/2026 09:59

shouldofgotamortage · 12/01/2026 09:52

I think its silly, they did a T1d barbie not long ago but that actually has a look (cgm, pump etc) no autistic person is the same and they dont have a specific look either.

How is the diabetic Barbie any different? Not all T1 diabetics have pumps or CGMs.

LiveToTell · 12/01/2026 10:00

Elisheva · 12/01/2026 08:55

Apparently she has a fidget spinner and noise cancelling headphones. So that’s her all sorted out then.

And I think an IPad or some kind of tablet. And a “gaze to the side” to avoid eye contact.

Mum29338 · 12/01/2026 10:00

BusMumsHoliday · 12/01/2026 09:32

As a parent of an autistic DS, I think it's fine. Yes, it does lean to certain autistic stereotypes and obviously all Barbies could be autistic - because there's no one "look." But it's good for autistic children to see themselves represented. My DS loves it when we can point out people who are ND on TV etc., and also getting to the stage of being more self-conscious about some of his assistive devices (like ear defenders). Normalising these is a good thing.

Likewise, mum of an autistic DC, I was a bit sceptical as I think kids will be into Barbies or not, but actually it sounds fine to me. Representation of some widely common traits seems like a good thing to me.

Needmorelego · 12/01/2026 10:01

Changedmynameagain20 · 12/01/2026 09:58

There's been a wheelchair user barbie for over twenty years.

The first one was in 1997 but unfortunately she (ironically) couldn't fit into the Dreamhouse but instead of adapting the house she was retired from sale.

Changedmynameagain20 · 12/01/2026 10:01

I think this is a classic example of parent of autistic children thinking they speak for all autistic children. Your child wouldn't like this: ok, don't buy it for them, then. Other posters have said their autistic DDs would like it. ASD is such a broad, complex spectrum.

x2boys · 12/01/2026 10:01

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

They have done several Barbies with different conditions i think they do have one in a wheel chair

FridayFriesDay · 12/01/2026 10:01

I think this is a good thing - it teaches inclusivity and that we’re all perfect and belong just as we are.

There must be a number of people out there that have waited for this doll - I’m happy for them.

Theresmoreroominabrokenheart · 12/01/2026 10:02

We're a ND family, I don't love it, it feels a bit heavy handed but I like the general move away from the typical Barbie? Maybe they could have done an ASD backpack of accessories as an add on

LadyKenya · 12/01/2026 10:02

CautiousLurker2 · 12/01/2026 09:55

Which is precisely why having a doll that purports to represent ‘autism’ is on many levels quite offensive? Is there a Black, Asian or Hispanic Autistic Barbie or just a white one? I get that it was well meaning, but autism is a socalled ‘hidden’ disability - why can’t they simply market the accessories so that any Barbie can have the items that a child might chose to use to adapt their doll to represent themselves, whether that be headphones, spinners, glasses, a walking stick or a wheelchair?

Edited

It is a fair point, about just being able to purchase certain aids for the dolls. The marketing teams would have no doubt looked at what would likely bring in more revenue, hence the different dolls, included with the aids, etc. Time will tell if 'Autistic Barbie' is a hit for them, or not.

CreativeGreen · 12/01/2026 10:03

CautiousLurker2 · 12/01/2026 09:55

Which is precisely why having a doll that purports to represent ‘autism’ is on many levels quite offensive? Is there a Black, Asian or Hispanic Autistic Barbie or just a white one? I get that it was well meaning, but autism is a socalled ‘hidden’ disability - why can’t they simply market the accessories so that any Barbie can have the items that a child might chose to use to adapt their doll to represent themselves, whether that be headphones, spinners, glasses, a walking stick or a wheelchair?

Edited

why can’t they simply market the accessories so that any Barbie can have the items that a child might chose to use to adapt their doll to represent themselves

££££?

Kirbert2 · 12/01/2026 10:04

I really don't see an issue. No different to wheelchair barbie or barbie with a hearing aid.

Some children really like seeing themselves represented with toys and it also might be a good learning tool for other children too.

Garroty · 12/01/2026 10:05

What's the problem? Not every autistic child will see themselves represented in the doll, but some will. Some will love the fact that she has accessories that represent things they might use, like the noise cancelling headphones and the communication device. No doll will ever be all things to all people but I think this is a nice form of inclusivity which will make some children very happy.

MJstarterbefore40 · 12/01/2026 10:06

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:19

No way . . . . .

I need links!

And there's a curvy Barbie that my daughter has 😂

x2boys · 12/01/2026 10:06

Rinoachicken · 12/01/2026 09:35

So just Barbie with ‘ASD Props’?

Because that’s what this reduces it to.

Well they can never truly represent everyone on the spectrum
But with an ACC device fidget spinner ,ear defenders at least trying to show how diverse autism is.

TheEverlastingPorridge · 12/01/2026 10:08

Rinoachicken · 12/01/2026 09:35

So just Barbie with ‘ASD Props’?

Because that’s what this reduces it to.

What would you suggest then?

Surely anything that is inclusive is a positive thing

Mydogisblackandwhite · 12/01/2026 10:09

Sleepasaurus · 12/01/2026 08:59

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/autistic-barbie-doll-buy-name-b2898599.html

While I agree that it could be stigmatising it sounds like they have done their research.

wouldn’t have got it for my Asd dd but her sister would have loved a doll that had a communication aid and loose clothing like her dsis.

My daughter has asd and would never wear clothes like that 🤷🏼‍♀️ not all children carry a tablet, wear ear defenders all the time 🙄

TheEverlastingPorridge · 12/01/2026 10:10

LemaxObsessive · 12/01/2026 09:58

I massively disagree, they do not have ‘a look’ at all. Certainly not the majority of girls with Autism!

Why are you disagreeing with a mother who is telling you about her own daughter?

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