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Mattel have made an autistic Barbie

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IwishIwasacaterpillar · 12/01/2026 08:54

I find this quite odd. Autism doesn’t have a look.
my child is autistic and I would not have bought them one when they were young

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x2boys · 12/01/2026 18:17

TempestTost · 12/01/2026 17:43

I find it a bit weird because her props seem to be things that I see more for children rather than with autistic adults. And in my experience, kids use Barbie to play at being adults.

Most children don't have an ACC device.

JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 12/01/2026 18:34

Disturbia81 · 12/01/2026 17:36

And boys..

How many boys do you know that play with barbies

Disturbia81 · 12/01/2026 18:44

SardinesOnButteredToast · 12/01/2026 17:39

Autists don't always 'want to be recognised for it's. What absolute nonsense.

I said the people I work with, not everyone.

Disturbia81 · 12/01/2026 18:44

JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 12/01/2026 18:34

How many boys do you know that play with barbies

Wow! Hello… it’s 2026.. talk about small minded.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 12/01/2026 18:48

JoannaTheYodelingCowgirl · 12/01/2026 18:34

How many boys do you know that play with barbies

Some do but I think they would prefer a male role model. It annoys me a little that boy figures are always heros not ordinary men that can be adapted to imaginative play. I work with kids and some boys do play with dolls, you'd be surprised when it's presented to them in a gender neutral kind of way.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 12/01/2026 18:53

pigmygoatsinjumpers · 12/01/2026 13:14

I was replying to @KimberleyClark who seemed to think it would be groundbreaking and aspirational.

HarryVanderspeigle · 12/01/2026 19:31

Disturbia81 · 12/01/2026 17:36

And boys..

I have autistic boys and they give zero fucks about barbies or dolls of any kind, so I was basing my statement on my family. But yes you are quite right to correct me, boys can play with barbies too.

2000Essays · 12/01/2026 19:52

TempestTost · 12/01/2026 17:43

I find it a bit weird because her props seem to be things that I see more for children rather than with autistic adults. And in my experience, kids use Barbie to play at being adults.

That just shows your ignorance re autism- comfortable clothes, headphones and fidgets are used by many autistic adults. The reasons for needing them don’t disappear when you become an adult.

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2000Essays · 12/01/2026 20:13

Dontlletmedownbruce · 12/01/2026 14:12

It seems incredibly short sighted to make one doll, why not make 4 variants of ND. Its such a broad spectrum it can't possibly be relatable to everyone. Everyone gets annoyed when someone tries to portray autism in any way. Its such a sensitive thing, every person i know with autism or an autistic child feels they are not accurately represented. Either show a variety or don't bother.

1 Barbie doesn’t represent all women so 1 Barbie doesn’t need to represent all autistic people.

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:16

When you think the world can’t get any crazier!

SENCoWithADHD · 12/01/2026 20:16

I will buy this at my earliest opportunity to join my wheelchair Barbie and Type 1 diabetes Barbie in my office at school- I know this will mean a lot of some of my autistic girls at school. Representation is so important.

2000Essays · 12/01/2026 20:17

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:16

When you think the world can’t get any crazier!

So inclusivity is crazy now. 🤔

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:22

2000Essays · 12/01/2026 20:17

So inclusivity is crazy now. 🤔

It’s not inclusivity - it’s let stick a pair of headphones and a fidget spinner on this doll and call it autistic and profit from it.

No harm done I suppose but yes - it’s laughable. I have an autistic dd and she bears no resemblance to that doll - she’s never had a fidget spinner or noise cancelling headphones - it reductive and borders on taking the piss imo.

Virtue signalling baloney.

2000Essays · 12/01/2026 20:26

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:22

It’s not inclusivity - it’s let stick a pair of headphones and a fidget spinner on this doll and call it autistic and profit from it.

No harm done I suppose but yes - it’s laughable. I have an autistic dd and she bears no resemblance to that doll - she’s never had a fidget spinner or noise cancelling headphones - it reductive and borders on taking the piss imo.

Virtue signalling baloney.

All Barbie’s don’t represent all women. This Barbie represents some autistic women not all autistic women. Many autistic girls struggle hugely with their ND and an autistic Barbie will help some autistic girls. What on earth is reductive about having a doll with accessories many autistic women use on a daily basis?

UncannyFanny · 12/01/2026 20:31

Chiseltip · 12/01/2026 09:12

What about

"wheelchair user Barbie"

Or

"Amputee Barbie"

Or

"Crohn's Barbie"
(Comes with realistic diarrhoea function)

Not to mention

"Mental Health Barbie"

🙄

Are you some sort of transphobe? What about they/them Barbie?!

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:31

UncannyFanny · 12/01/2026 20:31

Are you some sort of transphobe? What about they/them Barbie?!

I’m sure that will be next!

UncannyFanny · 12/01/2026 20:33

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:31

I’m sure that will be next!

Bloody better be! 🤬🤣

Kirbert2 · 12/01/2026 20:40

Dollyfloss · 12/01/2026 20:22

It’s not inclusivity - it’s let stick a pair of headphones and a fidget spinner on this doll and call it autistic and profit from it.

No harm done I suppose but yes - it’s laughable. I have an autistic dd and she bears no resemblance to that doll - she’s never had a fidget spinner or noise cancelling headphones - it reductive and borders on taking the piss imo.

Virtue signalling baloney.

My son who is a wheelchair user bears no resemblance to wheelchair barbie either.

Some little girls who are wheelchair users I'm sure are delighted with it, as will some little girls who are autistic and do see themselves in the barbie.

SpikeGilesSandwich · 12/01/2026 20:42

DS has a beaver with a hospital gown, a port and a dialysis machine, it’s fab!

youalright · 12/01/2026 20:49

That's so funny does she come with a McDonald's and a ipad.

Clafoutie · 12/01/2026 20:51

Needmorelego · 12/01/2026 09:17

Most of those already exist.

Yes, there’s already a Diabetes Type 1 Barbie

downunder50 · 12/01/2026 21:02

I think there's much more they could have done to 'suggest' she was autistic. Short hair for example to show sensory sensitivities, maybe dyed a more unusual colour to show less tied to social norms, vision issues are more common with autistic people than the average person so she could have been wearing glasses.

Also joggers and a hoodie where the hood fits her head properly would have been much more appropriate than that short, weird tent dress.

SardinesOnButteredToast · 12/01/2026 21:04

Disturbia81 · 12/01/2026 18:44

I said the people I work with, not everyone.

So don't assume the people you work with represent all autists. This doesn't represent any of the autists I've worked with or have in my family. Just because this isn't offensive to some people doesn't mean either of us can speak for all.

2000Essays · 12/01/2026 21:04

downunder50 · 12/01/2026 21:02

I think there's much more they could have done to 'suggest' she was autistic. Short hair for example to show sensory sensitivities, maybe dyed a more unusual colour to show less tied to social norms, vision issues are more common with autistic people than the average person so she could have been wearing glasses.

Also joggers and a hoodie where the hood fits her head properly would have been much more appropriate than that short, weird tent dress.

My autistic daughter and son refuse to have their hair cut which is common, long hair is more indicative of sensory sensitivities .