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Went to purchase phone instore how ridiculous and confusing is this?

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 00:18

Ive always gone into the EE store and bought a phone outright. Been with EE many years.

The store then changes the sim and does the photo transfer and everything.
I have recently been in to buy a new phone which I saw on their website at three hundreds and forty nine pounds.

We sat down to do the sale and the assistant told me it was Five Hundred as I am buying in-store. She said she didnt know why.

They said I could order it online for 349 on their website from my phone and get click and collected delivered to them. I could collect instore and they would help with sim change and everything.

I went to try this later, no offer to help me in the shop, and they said they couldn't order for me.

When i went online later after leaving the store, you could not order click and collect. I rang the helpline and they confirmed that. I could order to my home address only.

I could then take the phone to the store when it arrived and they would still help me with set up.

This is batshit bonkers isn't it.
First they wanted to charge loads more for me to buy in-store.
Then the assistant told me I could order from my phone click and collect to the the store and they would help.

That turned out not to be true when I got home. No click and collect. Direct to my home only, then take it to shop and they will help.

They could have just sold it to me in-store for 349. They are going to help set up apparantely anyway so why all this fuss?

Long standing customer both for phone and Sim.
Anyone work in a phone shop?
Any advice?
Why so much more in-store?
Why send me away telling me I can order myself and get click and collect to store and then help when the phone arrives when I cant?

Ive never known this before?
Very confusing and unhelpful and they have possibly lost a sale. I would have bought when I was in-store.

What would you do?🤔🙄
Should I complain?

I guess they are charging more instore because they are helping you with the sim etc but 150 more???

That still dosent make sense anyway because they are still helping if you order online and then take it in?
Be great to hear from anyone who has insight or works in a phone shop in particular.

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 23:02

rwalker · 12/01/2026 22:03

Retail and online are 2 separate entities with different cost and overheads hence different pricing

I think OP summed it up when she said she wanted to see it and a member of staff o activate and transfer data
shops cost money staff cost money these are factored into the sale price basically if you want those facilities you pay for them

Another not reading properly.

They help you either way.
Instore cost more you get help.
Order online take it in to shop you still get help.

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 23:06

BillieWiper · 12/01/2026 13:40

As long as you have your Google password switching phones should only take a few minutes. The phone literally tells you exactly what to do. If that's the thing you need help with?

I guess you could tried to do the click and collect thing in front of her, then at least you'd have known it didn't exist. And so would she.

It's common for retailers to have online only offers. It doesn't surprise me it's more in the shops as they have bigger overheads and probably less and less footfall as most buy everything online now.

I did ask gor help they said no.

They are always advertising for more customers why not help keep the ones they have got.

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Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 23:10

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 12/01/2026 22:49

To be honest, OP, they're streamlining their operations towards the vast majority of customers - who will be quite content to look through their website, choose a phone, order it, have it sent to their home address and then set it up themselves/ask a family member for help if they aren't tech savvy.

There won't even be any real benefit to going in to handle the phones, as they're mostly pretty identical size-wise; it's just the software and internal components that vary.

It will only be a matter of time before there are no 'standard' phone shops left soon, as they cost them a lot of money to run in building costs, overhead and staffing. Also, like with physical bank branches, the people who use the branches are mostly the ones who make them the least money.

I think, again like banks, we're currently coming towards the end of a unique 'dual' period of time - where most people do most things online, but facilities are still kept available for the people who aren't online. By the time the current oldest generation have all left us - if not before - I'm afraid the only solution that will be given to "But I'm not online/confident" will be "You need to get online and/or ask somebody else to help/teach you".

My DGM didn't have a landline phone, except for a few months when she had one installed with some persuasion, used it a very few times but couldn't come to terms with it and soon had it taken out again. We tried patiently to help her, but she just made up her mind against it. That didn't mean that all of the services and facilities that were (pre-internet) only available over the phone put themselves out to make themselves available to her and the rest of the tiny minority like her in person - it just meant that she had to get somebody else in the family to phone on her behalf.

It's fine if you're happy to choose to remain dependent on others - and you have family and/or friends who are willing to help - but most people who are able to do so prefer to keep/gain their independence.

Disagree, phone shops are often busy. Lots of people need help and assistance and what the hell is wrong with service.

Phones are very expensive too. There's loads of profit in a phone especially the new ones.

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rwalker · 12/01/2026 23:25

Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 23:02

Another not reading properly.

They help you either way.
Instore cost more you get help.
Order online take it in to shop you still get help.

Reading fine thank you

Pistachiocake · 13/01/2026 00:05

HoskinsChoice · 12/01/2026 08:53

Online purchases don't have anywhere near as high costs in rent, rates, fixtures and fittings, heating, insurance, staffing etc. They are encouraging people to buy online so that they don't need stores because it is less costly for both you and them. It's a win/win.

It sounds like you're very fixed on doing as you always have which is fine but it is probably costing you a lot of unnecessary money. Go on line, compare costs with other companies. Hope you get it sorted.

True, but the more we buy online (and I have bought my phones online for a very long time), the sooner shops will shut, so when someone does want help/advice, they won't be there. Some people don't have family to help, and I know some people don't like to bother their family, so do go in.
Guess it's inevitable, and when we look at photos of the past in a few years, phone shops will be a late 90s-2028(?) ish thing.
It does seem stupid to me that the price is so different. Apart from anything else, if the customer goes home and googles it, they could see another phone they prefer, so the shop could lose out on the sale.
OP, who knows how things will change, but I don't think you're unreasonable. My teenage niece went mad with delight when she went to a big mall, and said she can't believe we used to be able to buy clothes in every town (small towns now seem to have few shops teenagers like, here anyway) instead of having to wait for them to be sent after online order.

Netcurtainnelly · 13/01/2026 00:10

Pistachiocake · 13/01/2026 00:05

True, but the more we buy online (and I have bought my phones online for a very long time), the sooner shops will shut, so when someone does want help/advice, they won't be there. Some people don't have family to help, and I know some people don't like to bother their family, so do go in.
Guess it's inevitable, and when we look at photos of the past in a few years, phone shops will be a late 90s-2028(?) ish thing.
It does seem stupid to me that the price is so different. Apart from anything else, if the customer goes home and googles it, they could see another phone they prefer, so the shop could lose out on the sale.
OP, who knows how things will change, but I don't think you're unreasonable. My teenage niece went mad with delight when she went to a big mall, and said she can't believe we used to be able to buy clothes in every town (small towns now seem to have few shops teenagers like, here anyway) instead of having to wait for them to be sent after online order.

Thanks, someone gets it.
We dont want everything online.

There are always plenty of people in the local EE shop when I go past. Asking questions buying phones changing contracts, upgrading etc. Yesterday not so busy as a Sunday but generally very busy.

I dont think the shops are going anywhere soon.

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19lottie82 · 13/01/2026 00:14

My OH isn’t a phone guy. A basic android does the job for him, but his last phone was getting slow and the screen was cracked so we went into EE and they had handsets for sale out right for about £90. We asked to buy one and the sales assistant said oh I can give you an appointment in about 45 minutes?
I said no, we just want to buy that handset now please. Nope, we needed a bloody appointment 🤣 and they couldn’t fit us in for 45 minutes? WTH 🤦‍♀️?

We politely declined and went and bought a phone from Argos down the street.

LiveToTell · 13/01/2026 00:22

Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 01:38

I like having someone to change Sim, transfer photos, make sure everything is ok. Thats the service the shop offers. Ive always done that.

The difference in price and the wrong info is more what i am asking about, not opinions on whether I should do it myself.

You should learn how to do it yourself. It’s not rocket science by any means. My 9 year old could do it.

Florencesndzebedee · 13/01/2026 00:30

You’re right, customer service is really crap these days. It’s made life just that little bit more crap.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 13/01/2026 01:11

Netcurtainnelly · 12/01/2026 23:02

Another not reading properly.

They help you either way.
Instore cost more you get help.
Order online take it in to shop you still get help.

They're being realistic, though. Of course they aren't going to outright say that you aren't welcome to come to their shop for help after buying from their website, but they're relying on the vast majority of people not needing/bothering to do that.

They'll be assuming that most people will either know, ask somebody or look online for answers to any queries, rather than schlep all the way into the shop and take one of their (probably not very many) staff out of action.

If everybody who bought a phone from them online went into their stores and asked/expected them to set it up for them - a process which is largely automatic, but it can take the phone a long time whirring along to do all of its stuff; and you can't even just leave it and come back, because it periodically asks you to press a button or two to confirm your choices - they'd have long queues out of the doors. Their default norm is that customers will set up their phones themselves; it's the outliers who will need hands-on help from them to do so.

If having high street stores were so profitable for them, why would they have been closing so many of them down over the last few years? Actual bricks-and-mortar premises are great when it comes to things like cafes, hair salons, shops selling fresh/timely/impulse purchases and the like; but phones are one of the things that are so very easy for the majority of people to buy - and thus for the suppliers to sell - online. Again, a bit like with banking, where you can even pay in cheques online now. Other than paying in cash, there's very little indeed that you can't do quickly and conveniently online.

I may be wrong, but I'm as certain as I can be that you'll find the shops disappearing before long. Smartphones have only existed for less than 20 years and things move very fast indeed with tech. If I were you, I would try to find out how to do things like transferring to a new phone ASAP - by asking questions instore if need be, rather than just leaving them to do it for you - before there are no more stores and that avenue is closed to you. Most people don't buy a new phone more than once every two years at a minimum... a lot can change in two years, including previously readily-available high street shops becoming nothing more than a memory.

rwalker · 13/01/2026 07:34

Netcurtainnelly · 13/01/2026 00:10

Thanks, someone gets it.
We dont want everything online.

There are always plenty of people in the local EE shop when I go past. Asking questions buying phones changing contracts, upgrading etc. Yesterday not so busy as a Sunday but generally very busy.

I dont think the shops are going anywhere soon.

How naive doesn’t matter how busy they are if there not making a profit then they shut

online will always had lower operating cost than the high st

SeaShellsSanctuary1 · 13/01/2026 07:45

Most of what you describe is anti fraud measures. Delivery to home address is more secure for the company

MikeRafone · 13/01/2026 07:54

Partyatno10 · 12/01/2026 09:20

I used to work in a phone shop. The incentive isn't there for a salesperson to sell you a non new contract/upgrade phone. They get commission for selling contracts/upgrades so are probably keeping that phone in stock for contract and upgrade sales. When I worked in a phone shop you'd get £1 for every pay as you go sale and £10 per contract/upgrades. This was almost 20 years ago though!

Edited

That makes sense then to keep the phone for upgrades

Jfmamjjason2 · 13/01/2026 08:08

Op have you actually tried setting one up yourself. It really is easy as long as you have all your passwords. Don’t make things a bigger problem in your head than they are. Try yourself and I bet you will be delighted

sorrynotathome · 13/01/2026 08:09

If you want to feel loved, cherished, listened to, taken care of - go to my local Apple Store. 😊

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 13/01/2026 08:40

sorrynotathome · 13/01/2026 08:09

If you want to feel loved, cherished, listened to, taken care of - go to my local Apple Store. 😊

Yeah, they’re always so lovely.

We had a house fire once. I took the only iPad l’d rescued which had a crack in it ( insurance takes months) and they just gave me another one💕

Fulmine · 13/01/2026 08:40

I'm probably more naive than OP, I thought I had to go to one of the shops operated by my phone provider to change my phone - but it looks as if I'm wrong. Can I just get a new handset, transfer everything across and continue on my current contract? Any recommendations for the cheapest way to get Apple phones?

KitsyWitsy · 13/01/2026 08:48

Do not see what is confusing here at all. Web store prices have been a thing for years and obviously you can’t get things at that price in the store, what would be the point?

You’re paying £150 more in store because people can’t be bothered learning the simple process of setting up a phone so they have to pay staff/overheads.

Modern phones have eSIMs so you don’t have to change the sim anymore, not that it was that difficult before, was it?

I am tech support for family/friends but push people to do as much for themselves. I don’t mind helping but some people don’t even bloody try. Everyone can google and make an effort to sort their own stuff out.

PhantomAfternoonTea · 13/01/2026 09:03

Fulmine · 13/01/2026 08:40

I'm probably more naive than OP, I thought I had to go to one of the shops operated by my phone provider to change my phone - but it looks as if I'm wrong. Can I just get a new handset, transfer everything across and continue on my current contract? Any recommendations for the cheapest way to get Apple phones?

Of course you can, I have done this for years! Buy new phone online, insert SIM, contract continues as normal.

KitsyWitsy · 13/01/2026 09:06

Fulmine · 13/01/2026 08:40

I'm probably more naive than OP, I thought I had to go to one of the shops operated by my phone provider to change my phone - but it looks as if I'm wrong. Can I just get a new handset, transfer everything across and continue on my current contract? Any recommendations for the cheapest way to get Apple phones?

Yes, I buy direct from Apple which is not cheap but I get a small discount for being a student. Apple products are never discounted.

Netcurtainnelly · 13/01/2026 09:44

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 12/01/2026 08:55

The difference in price is because they want you to buy online, not in the shop. It's an incentive to buy online.

The misinformation is likely a mistake. The assistant didn't know what she suggested wasn't possible.

So its ok to give out wrong info lol
Its their job, to know or ask.

Bet you'd like it if you booked a holiday and it didnt exist etc as the travel agent didnt know.

Or a solicitor gave you the wrong advice cos you they didnt know?
Really.

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Netcurtainnelly · 13/01/2026 09:47

KitsyWitsy · 13/01/2026 08:48

Do not see what is confusing here at all. Web store prices have been a thing for years and obviously you can’t get things at that price in the store, what would be the point?

You’re paying £150 more in store because people can’t be bothered learning the simple process of setting up a phone so they have to pay staff/overheads.

Modern phones have eSIMs so you don’t have to change the sim anymore, not that it was that difficult before, was it?

I am tech support for family/friends but push people to do as much for themselves. I don’t mind helping but some people don’t even bloody try. Everyone can google and make an effort to sort their own stuff out.

So you dont think travel agent, should exist then because people can sort their own holidays?

Everything online, no service, no talking to people face to face, wonderful.

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Partyatno10 · 13/01/2026 09:51

Travel agents charge extra for that service though, so if you book through a travel agent you'll pay an increased price. The same as your situation.

Shinyandnew1 · 13/01/2026 09:57

I dont think the shops are going anywhere soon.

Oh, I think that's almost certainly going to happen.

People liked going into banks and speaking to real people for advice, but many of them have now closed!

BigFatLiar · 13/01/2026 09:57

We're with Tesco. I went too see about changing phones, again we buy outright. They said they'd do all the swapping for me and then added that I could buy the phone cheaper elsewhere and if I brought it in they'd still swap everything over for me no charge.