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Starting Teams meetings 5-10 minutes early

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MagicStarrz · 09/01/2026 16:12

Where I work, we have a lot of meetings on Teams, and certain people (not the meeting hosts or chairs, just attendees) will join the Teams meetings 5-10 minutes early which means everyone invited will get a notification that the meeting has started.

If you join early you just end up making pointless small talk with other attendees. I would understand this if it's people who want to have a social catch up but it's generally people who don't know each other so why to they join so early? Today it was 13:52 for a meeting scheduled to start at 2.

AIBU for just waiting until 13:59 or even 2 pm and then joining to avoid the pointless chat and also because I have other things to do?

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Tumbleweed101 · 09/01/2026 20:58

I've always logged on a few minutes early to make sure I haven't got technical issues to sort out. I didn't realise it triggered a meeting has started notification. The meetings never actual start until the designated time anyway so i find it easier to set up, log in and put everything on silent and then get a drink and finish getting prepped.

Catwoman8 · 09/01/2026 21:05

Cashew1 · 09/01/2026 16:50

People who don't have enough work on !!

Or maybe they are just more organised and efficient than others?

Notmyreality · 09/01/2026 21:07

SoapyDrama · 09/01/2026 19:09

Are you still working in 2020, what kind of workplace hasn't got that all sorted nearly 6 years after people started with?

Indeed!

Thewonderfuleveryday · 09/01/2026 21:08

I always join early so I can talk to people "face to face' for a couple of minutes.

Notmyreality · 09/01/2026 21:08

MasterBeth · 09/01/2026 19:14

What do you mean, "load the slides"?

Where are the slides?

You know, in the overhead projector

PhantomOfAllKnowledge · 09/01/2026 21:14

MasterBeth · 09/01/2026 20:56

Ok. I don't think I've ever been on a Teams meeting with 100 people and honestly I'm not sure it matters if people are 1 or 2 minutes late in that case! Who's going to know? How are they going to contribute?

The issue isn't people joining late, it's people joining early 😁

Bellyblueboy · 09/01/2026 21:16

MasterBeth · 09/01/2026 20:56

Ok. I don't think I've ever been on a Teams meeting with 100 people and honestly I'm not sure it matters if people are 1 or 2 minutes late in that case! Who's going to know? How are they going to contribute?

I don’t really classify 100 plus people as a meeting. Well I suppose a ‘town hall meeting’.

you are right, chairing these sort of events online is a nightmare - people drop in and drop out, half the people aren’t really even listening!

but I think it’s rude to be late to a proper meeting where you are exchanging information and are expected to contribute and add value.

Iwantsandybeachesandgoodfood · 09/01/2026 21:26

I have one team member who will always log on ten minutes early. They have a lighter workload than some of the rest of us and accept that the rest of us won’t log on until the minute before.
If I’m presenting then I’ll log on 10 minutes before to deal with any inevitable questions so they don’t run into other people’s time.

DidntHaveTheLatin · 09/01/2026 21:30

Tangentially, I work in a large org and in our unit (ca. 150 people) our default is that ALL meetings start at 5 past the hour or half-hour, to give people time for a brew/loo break between back to backs. (FWIW we have at least one meeting a week with the whole unit.)

At first I thought it was weird but it's strange how quickly you get used to something like that. When we have to go to other people's meetings we're all quietly horrified at the vulgarity of the on-the-hour start times, as if everyone was doing Teams nekkid or something.

BluntAzureDreamer · 09/01/2026 21:31

I join bang on the start time unless it's a small meeting with people I can't be arsed making small talk with, and then I join a minute late to avoid the chit chat ("sorry, got stuck on another call") 😂

EmbroideredGardener · 09/01/2026 21:37

MasterBeth · 09/01/2026 20:56

Ok. I don't think I've ever been on a Teams meeting with 100 people and honestly I'm not sure it matters if people are 1 or 2 minutes late in that case! Who's going to know? How are they going to contribute?

Phantom was saying that she logs in early as the host/meeting chair in order to get sorted, she wasn't talking about the attendees

shuffleofftobuffalo · 09/01/2026 21:44

Definitely people who don’t have enough work on. I couldn’t join a meeting earlier than the start time if I wanted to! If I see it’s been started early I join at the meeting start time.

Chinsupmeloves · 09/01/2026 21:52

I'm not office based so teams meetings are after work/unpaid. Hence not being used to them in daily life I click to join well before the time just to make sure I'm doing it right! I've found we're all just waiting for meeting to be let in, which happens at the exact time?

user2848502016 · 09/01/2026 21:54

That’s insane! I get annoyed even if people join 1 minute early

Mumofteenandtween · 09/01/2026 22:04

This never happens where I work. Most of us have a number of back to back meetings so you are (figuratively now it is all on teams - it used to be literally over 5 sodding floors!) running from room to room.

I chair a 100 people meeting a couple of times a year. We used to log on early to go through everything but then we had the odd person joining us which was awkward (my jokes are barely funny the first time, by the second they are rubbish!) so now we just book a separate meeting for the half hour before where we go through everything and then log onto the actually meeting at 1 minute to.

TheClocksFast · 09/01/2026 22:32

I join at the time the meeting is supposed to start.

peepsypops · 09/01/2026 22:34

I notice anyone who does that is usually the most inexperienced in the meeting.

silentpool · 09/01/2026 22:36

I click the link, check my camera, microphone etc a few mins early.

That's because I've had cases where Teams wasn't working and I had to restart the app. But I only click join about 1 min before so I'm on time. No interest in small talk.

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