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To wonder why the mainstream media is not reporting the massive anti-regime protests in Iran?

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supernaturalmilkshake · 08/01/2026 19:08

There are currently massive anti-Islamic regime protests all over Iran by civilians, many of them chanting for the return of the Shah.

These protestors are incredibly brave, many of them have been killed, shot or taken away by the regime police.

The protests, some of them hundreds of thousands strong, all over Iran have been widely reported and documented by exiled Iranians on places like Twitter/X but the mainstream news has been strangely silent, especially the BBC that would normally have non-stop, headline reporting if this was about happening anywhere else.

AIBU to hope the regime falls and that the Iranians finally taste freedom after 47 years (and that the BBC should be reporting on this)?

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Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:23

Ariana12 · 09/01/2026 23:13

I have heard several reports on the Beeb. It's not correct to say they aren't reporting. Ive also read reports in Times, Telegraph FT and Guardian. There are a lot of social media posts claiming that MSM isn't reporting but they are incorrect.

Yes, the Guardian has reported a lot, and those others.

What I find weird is people who damn the MSM as a whole forget we have a goodly number of right-wing papers too (DM, Express, Telegraph, Times etc). So when they complain about MSM, they implicitly mean 'left wing MSM'.

It frustrates me as we do have serious media issues but sometimes it strikes me that people who used to only read left wing media feel there is a 'lack of MSM reporting' when they then start on other news sources after being alerted to an issue, like trans issues eg. When actually the issue is not a 'MSM lack of reporting' but a lack of reporting on an issue from papers from one side of the political spectrum, which happens on both sides.

The solution is of course to read papers from both sides. Ideally everyone would report on everything, but this isn't an ideal world.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:28

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:20

No. How can it be a race? It's a religion. One of the hassles I have with Islam is the idea that we are all born Muslims and some of us have deviated and need to be pulled back into the faith i.e. the destruction of any religion except Islam. (It's not my greatest hassle, that's that the founder was an unrepentant rapist.)

You mean re Aisha allegedly being nine when the marriage was consummated?

Muhammad was clearly far from the ideal person Muslims want him to be, but Aisha being nine has always seemed dubious to me.

All his (many 🙄) other wives were adults, his first wife was older. Paedophiles tend to show a preference for a particular age group, even if they also have an adult spouse for whatever reason. I disagree with a lot of apologetics for Muhammad but on the issue of Aisha's age I do think the argument that it was later exaggerated for theological reasons has weight.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:28

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:05

Yes, the Gaza regime wanted to put news out, unlike the Iranian one. Whether it was true is another matter...

Looking at what happened once the shooting more or less stopped most of what Hamas put out was lies. Mind, a terrorist group feeds on collateral damage as it enhances their own image as the 'good guys'.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:30

SpikeGilesSandwich · 08/01/2026 23:23

It’s a belief system, it’s not a race.
Unfortunately, it’s a belief system that is hostile to unbelievers which makes it a problem.

That hasn't always been true. Jews like Maimonides lived peacefully in the Spanish Nasrid empire, one was even the vizier.

The Ottomans did make Christians and Jews live as dhimmis, but they lived in peace generally until the terrible events of WW1.

The Mughals were sometimes horrible to Hindus & Sikhs (Aurangazeb for one) but others were tolerant.

The real issue are the Salafi/Wahhabi/Deobandi fundamentalists who sprung up in the 18th century & caused today's problems.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:31

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:28

Looking at what happened once the shooting more or less stopped most of what Hamas put out was lies. Mind, a terrorist group feeds on collateral damage as it enhances their own image as the 'good guys'.

Of course it was lies! Hamas are pure evil..

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:31

Garlandedmantle · 09/01/2026 23:12

I was taught ‘hair,’ but to be honest it’s splitting them.

To me, the frightening thing is the received wisdom that men’s sexual impulses are the responsibility of pubescent girls onward.

I cannot fathom why western feminists aren’t lauding en masse their Iranian sisters. Well, actually I can and it is a disgrace.

I cannot fathom why western feminists aren't supporting Iranian women. It may be because veiling is 'cultural' and western feminists have a bad record on anything so labelled e.g. FGM. It may also be because Iranian women do not seem oppressed in the right way - there is some support for Afghan women but not much there, either. Strange.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:32

Dolamroth · 09/01/2026 06:29

It's also v prominent on their BBC Persian service

BBC Persian is really good.

nigelisalier · 09/01/2026 23:33

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:28

Looking at what happened once the shooting more or less stopped most of what Hamas put out was lies. Mind, a terrorist group feeds on collateral damage as it enhances their own image as the 'good guys'.

When did the shooting more or less stop? 14 Gazans including 5 kids killed today. Hey ho.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:33

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:31

I cannot fathom why western feminists aren't supporting Iranian women. It may be because veiling is 'cultural' and western feminists have a bad record on anything so labelled e.g. FGM. It may also be because Iranian women do not seem oppressed in the right way - there is some support for Afghan women but not much there, either. Strange.

Didn't a lot of Western feminists oppose FGM from early on? I wasn't aware many defended it on those grounds of culture?

Garlandedmantle · 09/01/2026 23:33

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:18

It is disgusting people are ignoring it, esp 'feminists'. The Guardian has had some good coverage so left wing media is entirely not ignoring women rebelling against misogyny. The BBC is a different matter..

May I ask if you grew up under a Salafi/Wahhabi regime? I understand totally if you'd rather not give more detail.

The latter. Thank you for your thoughtfulness.

I also grew up listening to the BBC. I barely recognise it nowadays.

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Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:34

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:31

Of course it was lies! Hamas are pure evil..

I know. But for some reason some people still believe genocide happened in Gaza. It didn't, it happened on 7th Oct 23 - and that was dismissed by many western feminists as 'okay' or at least understandable because it was resistance. I think if you put such a scenario in a novel it would be considered unbelievable - because it is.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:37

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:34

I know. But for some reason some people still believe genocide happened in Gaza. It didn't, it happened on 7th Oct 23 - and that was dismissed by many western feminists as 'okay' or at least understandable because it was resistance. I think if you put such a scenario in a novel it would be considered unbelievable - because it is.

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It's possible to criticise the Netanyahu government's war tactics, at least partially and still affirm that what happened on Oct 7 was genocidal barbarity.

I agree that genocide was not committed against the Palestinians though. Words have meanings, and if it gets used for every terrible civilian-heavy conflict with questionable ethics at several points, then Hiroshima & Dresden would be genocides too.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:38

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:28

You mean re Aisha allegedly being nine when the marriage was consummated?

Muhammad was clearly far from the ideal person Muslims want him to be, but Aisha being nine has always seemed dubious to me.

All his (many 🙄) other wives were adults, his first wife was older. Paedophiles tend to show a preference for a particular age group, even if they also have an adult spouse for whatever reason. I disagree with a lot of apologetics for Muhammad but on the issue of Aisha's age I do think the argument that it was later exaggerated for theological reasons has weight.

No. Consumation of a marriage once a girl reached puberty was normal at that time in the Middle East and was not considered improper (bear in mind that the age of consent in the UK was 12 until as recently as the 1880s). It is that he raped the widow of a man he had executed after defeating him in battle. That's what I object to.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:41

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:33

Didn't a lot of Western feminists oppose FGM from early on? I wasn't aware many defended it on those grounds of culture?

Some did, along the lines that it was women who carried FGM out and it was part of their culture - a bit 'if women do it it's ok'ism, I think.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:43

nigelisalier · 09/01/2026 23:33

When did the shooting more or less stop? 14 Gazans including 5 kids killed today. Hey ho.

No-one is being bombed, hopefully. Why were the Gazans killed? Did they by any chance breach the ceasefire? And if Hamas reported it I wouldn't trust it as far as I could throw it.

CloudyYellow · 09/01/2026 23:44

I wish the Iranians success. Not so sure about re-establishing the Peacock Throne though.

TempestTost · 09/01/2026 23:45

Bringemout · 09/01/2026 08:04

The global implications of the Iranian regime falling are extremely consequential. ICE shooting someone is extremely sad but it’s really not as big a story as this.

Trump kidnapping Maduro is tied into this, weapons manufactured by Iran in Venezuela have ended up in aftrica, iraq, iran. Various countries use Venezuela to avoid sanctions. Hezbollah uses Venuezuala as a drugs hub, cocoaine is shipped to europe there to fund terrorist activities. Thats just publicly available info. Fuck knows what else they are doing.

We can’t tell whats important these days. This is not just an internal matter. We are two weeks into what may be the most important global event for a decade and it does feel like the media is sleeping on it. It shouldn’t just be mentioned it should be rolling news tbh.

This is however the kind of context good, serious journalism should be giving. If all the news can do is tell us something is happening somewhere, we might as well just get it on Twitter or some other internet platform. Where institutions like the BBC earned their credibility was giving the background in a neutral way that allowed the viewer to make their own informed assessments of what was happening. Rather than the current approach of withholding information they think might lead people to make assessments they don't approve of.

Are the BBC just too clueless and not aware themselves, even their Middle East experts? Is it, as a pp said, about supporting people they see as supporters of Palestine, or not supporting people they see as anti-Islam? Is it about not wanting to reveal the shit Venezuela gets up to?

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:46

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:34

I know. But for some reason some people still believe genocide happened in Gaza. It didn't, it happened on 7th Oct 23 - and that was dismissed by many western feminists as 'okay' or at least understandable because it was resistance. I think if you put such a scenario in a novel it would be considered unbelievable - because it is.

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It was indeed vile what some 'Western feminists' said about Oct 7. I don't know what's happened : don't women realise male-led 'anticolonial struggles' often tend to be terroristic and misogynistic?

On a much less bad level, it's like left wing women who sympathised with the IRA. Who would have enforced the misogynistic harsh Catholic norms on N. Ireland if they'd won.

Some left wing Jewish women (usually not very religious but still close to Judaism culturally) in the US esp seem to have suicidal empathy on this. I used to read US lesbian magazines & several have recently gone crazy not just on trans issues but on Israel. Criticise Likud, fine. But I've read articles, in such magazines (with several Jewish women on the editorial board), arguing that Oct 7 rapes & murders didn't happen or were not that severe. In the comments, the people speaking up were non Jewish women, some Jewish women who couldn't understand what was happening with the editors & some Arab & Muslim women who had escaped from theocratic fundamentalist regimes and were astonished at what was being written.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:46

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:37

It's possible to criticise the Netanyahu government's war tactics, at least partially and still affirm that what happened on Oct 7 was genocidal barbarity.

I agree that genocide was not committed against the Palestinians though. Words have meanings, and if it gets used for every terrible civilian-heavy conflict with questionable ethics at several points, then Hiroshima & Dresden would be genocides too.

Yes, I would criticise Netanyahu. At the very least he did not protect the kibbutz ajacent to Gaza effectively. Also, he was not interested in what happened to women that day until it became useful to him. I would criticise some of the government's war tactics too, but am aware that fighting an enemy that hides among civilians is very difficult.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:47

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:41

Some did, along the lines that it was women who carried FGM out and it was part of their culture - a bit 'if women do it it's ok'ism, I think.

Ofc that would justify the Magdalene Laundries and much other misogyny. Incredible....

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:48

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:46

Yes, I would criticise Netanyahu. At the very least he did not protect the kibbutz ajacent to Gaza effectively. Also, he was not interested in what happened to women that day until it became useful to him. I would criticise some of the government's war tactics too, but am aware that fighting an enemy that hides among civilians is very difficult.

I agree. I also think the Nova festival should have been warned of the danger of the area more.

I agree re civilians.. it's horribly hard. Wars like Vietnam, WW2 & even the US Plains Indians wars show this problem is not unique to the Gaza war...

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:50

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:47

Ofc that would justify the Magdalene Laundries and much other misogyny. Incredible....

I don't think the Magdelen laundries would be accepted by feminists because they would not see it as 'cultural' but oppressive Catholicism. Cultural double-standards,😡 I am afraid.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 09/01/2026 23:53

Garlandedmantle · 09/01/2026 22:48

A stated aim of Islam is to impose the religion on the whole world. I attended a Muslim school in a Muslim country and lived under an Islamic theocracy. It is not a way of life that any thinking woman should be ambivalent about.

Would you be comfortable taking responsibility for men’s uncontrolled sexuality by covering yourself from top to bottom? Are you happy to believe that sometimes rape is acceptable?

We should be cheering from the rooftops at the incredible bravery of those Iranian woman.

In the west, many believe because it is a religion that there is an implicit kindness and decency and love and tolerance. It genuinely terrifies me.

No one is denying how brutal the Iranian government is, or how brave the women resisting it are. That is a criticism of an authoritarian regime, not proof that an entire religion or all Muslim societies think the same way.

We have seen similar things happen under other major religions when belief is tied to state power. Large parts of Europe lived under Christian rule where women had few rights, sexuality was controlled, and dissent was punished. Most people today would not say that this is what all Christianity is.

Billions of Muslims live ordinary lives, raise families, work, disagree with each other, and do not believe rape is acceptable or that women should be covered from head to toe. Focusing only on the worst examples ignores that reality.

Harm to women appears wherever power goes unchecked, religious or not. It is possible to strongly oppose theocracies while still avoiding sweeping claims about millions of people who do not live under them.

Carla786 · 09/01/2026 23:55

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 23:38

No. Consumation of a marriage once a girl reached puberty was normal at that time in the Middle East and was not considered improper (bear in mind that the age of consent in the UK was 12 until as recently as the 1880s). It is that he raped the widow of a man he had executed after defeating him in battle. That's what I object to.

I didn't know that about the widow- terrible.

Re age of consent : I know it was low in Victorian times but it was vanishingly rare for kids to be married at that age, and usually not with a huge age gap if it did happen. They goes back to medieval times. Cases like Margaret Beaufort consummated at 12 and giving birth to Henry VII at 13 were widely condemned. Not so much due to consent, sadly, as to the fact that they knew consummation and birth at that age were physically very damaging.

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