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Could you be a magistrate?

217 replies

Netcurtainnelly · 03/01/2026 15:03

There's a big volunteer recruitment drive for magistrates at the moment?
Does it interest you?

OP posts:
TheMerryJoker · 06/01/2026 17:04

lilkitten · 06/01/2026 15:19

I would love to, but am very wary that my private life (polyamorous and on the kink scene) wouldn't be compatible or could be problematic

hope its ok to ask, how common is the jealousy aspects of the poly scene ?

lilkitten · 06/01/2026 18:03

TheMerryJoker · 06/01/2026 17:04

hope its ok to ask, how common is the jealousy aspects of the poly scene ?

I don't think jealousy is so much of an issue with people I know, as the communication is really involved. There's an idea that every day you actively choose to be with those partners, so it can make you feel happy knowing that partners wouldn't spend time with you if they didn't want to. I don't worry about my two life partners as I know how they feel about me. But envy is definitely a thing - I can feel envious if a DP were to spend more time with another partner, or doing things with others that they say they don't want to do with me. Again it's important for us to vocalise our worries, and work it out. I think jealousy in my monogamous past has been more of a self esteem issue, worried that they might prefer someone else, and once I realised that I tried to work on myself.

maggymcmagface · 06/01/2026 18:24

lilkitten · 06/01/2026 15:19

I would love to, but am very wary that my private life (polyamorous and on the kink scene) wouldn't be compatible or could be problematic

I have never asked a fellow Magistrate what they do in bed
I think your idea of what's involved is quite strange

JadeSeahorse · 06/01/2026 18:26

I would but my scoliosis wouldn't.

Jury duty was pure agony enough for me.☹️

SleafordSods · 06/01/2026 18:44

JadeSeahorse · 06/01/2026 18:26

I would but my scoliosis wouldn't.

Jury duty was pure agony enough for me.☹️

Oh they have much comfier chairs than the Jurors! Smile

MemorableLlama · 06/01/2026 20:07

Yes I’m very interested but there aren’t any vacancies in my area.

grumpygrape · 06/01/2026 20:21

lilkitten · 06/01/2026 15:19

I would love to, but am very wary that my private life (polyamorous and on the kink scene) wouldn't be compatible or could be problematic

No Magistrate has ever discussed their sex life with me. Do you usually share your 'private' life with the people you work with ?

Teajenny7 · 06/01/2026 20:28

I considered it years ago. I attended meetings an sat in on several court days.
The two weeks inital training was in the midde of August when we had bookedour holiday.
In retrospect, I am glad I didn't go ahead with it.

OscillateItsTitsALot · 06/01/2026 20:32

I’d love to do it but I work FT

Parcell · 06/01/2026 20:39

I applied last July in London and my application has not progressed. I received an apologetic email a few weeks ago but it sounds like they haven’t even interviewed the cohort before mine. An utter shambles. It doesn’t exactly fill me with confidence!

Squirrelchops1 · 06/01/2026 20:59

OscillateItsTitsALot · 06/01/2026 20:32

I’d love to do it but I work FT

So do a lot of us. Ask your employer about paid time off.

Squirrelchops1 · 06/01/2026 21:00

Parcell · 06/01/2026 20:39

I applied last July in London and my application has not progressed. I received an apologetic email a few weeks ago but it sounds like they haven’t even interviewed the cohort before mine. An utter shambles. It doesn’t exactly fill me with confidence!

Oh it is a shambles! It took a colleague 18 months to get from applying to the swearing in ceremony! Honestly the cogs grind very slowly...

maggymcmagface · 06/01/2026 21:11

Squirrelchops1 · 06/01/2026 21:00

Oh it is a shambles! It took a colleague 18 months to get from applying to the swearing in ceremony! Honestly the cogs grind very slowly...

That's including two minimum court observations, two minimum interviews, presumably initial training.
Not dynamic, but not overly long

Eyeshadow · 06/01/2026 21:20

I would love to but can’t due to my profession (not my sex life) but I don’t understand how anyone does things like this for no money.

I am assuming it’s much more challenging that jury service and so I don’t understand why they can’t give you money for it.

I get that they want to make it fair by not having money as an incentive but surely that aspect alone means only certain types of people can do it.

AnotherMagistrate · 06/01/2026 22:05

Another magistrate here. I sit in adult crime and youth crime but don’t do family court.

I’ve been doing it for over 10 years now and the stereotype self-important/ doctors wife type has largely been weeded out.

State school here but I’m pretty sure that your education does
not rule you out of anything nor is it actually asked about! I am self-employed and professionally qualified though which gives me the flexibility to sit. I do claim financial loss allowance for days I sit.

The vast majority of legal advisers are great and they provide invaluable advice. We don’t just make up sentences, there are sentencing guidelines which we need to stick to or explain exactly why we are stepping outside of those guidelines.

For me, I have always been interested in crime and criminal justice and it provides an interesting way to give back and consider the best thing to do in individual cases.

I have visited 4 prisons and it is expected that you visit one as part of your training. It would not be right to send people to prison without actually knowing what they are like. It was eye opening for sure but the young offenders institution was far worse.

While the requirement is a minimum 13 days per year very few sit that little. I do an average of two days a month.

Finally, there will be mass recruitment over the next couple of years due to upcoming extended powers of magistrate’s courts and the increased workload that will bring.

WhatTheFuk · 06/01/2026 22:23

If in Scotland, look into being a panel member for Children’s Hearings Scotland, instead. Like being a magistrate for children’s welfare, care, treatment, and justice. Much more rewarding!
https://www.chscotland.gov.uk/

Children's Hearings Scotland

Volunteer for the Children's Panel

https://www.chscotland.gov.uk/

Ohthedaffodils · 06/01/2026 22:34

I used to be a volunteer for the Independent Monitoring Board, based in a prison. Gave it up when Covid hit and I returned to nursing. They are probably also looking for volunteers.

SleafordSods · 07/01/2026 07:22

AnotherMagistrate · 06/01/2026 22:05

Another magistrate here. I sit in adult crime and youth crime but don’t do family court.

I’ve been doing it for over 10 years now and the stereotype self-important/ doctors wife type has largely been weeded out.

State school here but I’m pretty sure that your education does
not rule you out of anything nor is it actually asked about! I am self-employed and professionally qualified though which gives me the flexibility to sit. I do claim financial loss allowance for days I sit.

The vast majority of legal advisers are great and they provide invaluable advice. We don’t just make up sentences, there are sentencing guidelines which we need to stick to or explain exactly why we are stepping outside of those guidelines.

For me, I have always been interested in crime and criminal justice and it provides an interesting way to give back and consider the best thing to do in individual cases.

I have visited 4 prisons and it is expected that you visit one as part of your training. It would not be right to send people to prison without actually knowing what they are like. It was eye opening for sure but the young offenders institution was far worse.

While the requirement is a minimum 13 days per year very few sit that little. I do an average of two days a month.

Finally, there will be mass recruitment over the next couple of years due to upcoming extended powers of magistrate’s courts and the increased workload that will bring.

Education doesn’t matter you’re right.

Squirrelchops1 · 07/01/2026 07:42

maggymcmagface · 06/01/2026 21:11

That's including two minimum court observations, two minimum interviews, presumably initial training.
Not dynamic, but not overly long

No this didn't include training and it was one interview. You don't start training until after you have been sworn in.

Thewolvesarerunningagain · 07/01/2026 18:53

maggymcmagface · 05/01/2026 22:06

@Thewolvesarerunningagain do you seriously think that nobody should ever judge anybody ever? If your child was killed or injured, would you not want somebody to judge the perpetrator?

No. I would want revenge, as do most people who are wronged. But that’s not the point, and with respect, that would also be a very good reason for me not to be involved in any processes that are connected to that offence. The point I’m making is that, where I live, which may or may not be generalisable to a wider region, the people who do volunteer have a particular profile and a sense of personal entitlement that is visible from space. I would not want to be put in the same category. But equally I’m aware of the alternative argument that if the job is left to those whose initial inclination is to do it then it will only ever be performed by those who should never be allowed anywhere near it

OscillateItsTitsALot · 07/01/2026 18:58

So today I checked my workplace’s volunteer policy and we can take 10 paid days a year for volunteering (I know magistrates need a minimum of 13 days per year but I have generous annual leave and usually carry 5 days over). Fuck it, I’m gonna apply. Do observations days just mean sitting in court watching trials? How do you prove you did this? The application process isn’t hugely explanatory! But at least 2 observations are required before I can even apply

NewWinger · 07/01/2026 20:16

OscillateItsTitsALot · 07/01/2026 18:58

So today I checked my workplace’s volunteer policy and we can take 10 paid days a year for volunteering (I know magistrates need a minimum of 13 days per year but I have generous annual leave and usually carry 5 days over). Fuck it, I’m gonna apply. Do observations days just mean sitting in court watching trials? How do you prove you did this? The application process isn’t hugely explanatory! But at least 2 observations are required before I can even apply

Edited

Yes, observations are just going into court to observe the business of the day. Pick different days of the week, as this gives you the best chance of seeing different work on the two days. For example, my home court does Remands every day, but traffic on Fridays only. You might not see a trial, but will almost certainly see the management of cases, and a good deal of sentencing.

Courts are public buildings, so you can go at any time; my advice would be to go straight to the ushers’ desk/office, explain why you’re there, and ask for their help/guidance. They’ll know which courts are likely to be busiest, but also the courts where mags are sitting, rather than a judge. I would aim to be there from 9.30 (court starts at 10, but worth getting there earlier to get yourself in and settled) until lunch, which is usually 1. At that point, I’d take a view about the afternoon; if you’ve seen a busy morning with a variety of cases, you might well want to leave it at that.

Just make a note of the dates, you’ll need to mention them on your application; I’m pretty sure the dates won’t be checked. That said, I would expect at least one of the interviews to touch upon your observations, for example what you saw and your thoughts.

Good luck, hope all goes well.

maggymcmagface · 07/01/2026 20:56

Thewolvesarerunningagain · 07/01/2026 18:53

No. I would want revenge, as do most people who are wronged. But that’s not the point, and with respect, that would also be a very good reason for me not to be involved in any processes that are connected to that offence. The point I’m making is that, where I live, which may or may not be generalisable to a wider region, the people who do volunteer have a particular profile and a sense of personal entitlement that is visible from space. I would not want to be put in the same category. But equally I’m aware of the alternative argument that if the job is left to those whose initial inclination is to do it then it will only ever be performed by those who should never be allowed anywhere near it

How rude.

Squirrelchops1 · 07/01/2026 21:08

OscillateItsTitsALot · 07/01/2026 18:58

So today I checked my workplace’s volunteer policy and we can take 10 paid days a year for volunteering (I know magistrates need a minimum of 13 days per year but I have generous annual leave and usually carry 5 days over). Fuck it, I’m gonna apply. Do observations days just mean sitting in court watching trials? How do you prove you did this? The application process isn’t hugely explanatory! But at least 2 observations are required before I can even apply

Edited

Amazing! Good luck

grumpygrape · 08/01/2026 10:24

OscillateItsTitsALot · 07/01/2026 18:58

So today I checked my workplace’s volunteer policy and we can take 10 paid days a year for volunteering (I know magistrates need a minimum of 13 days per year but I have generous annual leave and usually carry 5 days over). Fuck it, I’m gonna apply. Do observations days just mean sitting in court watching trials? How do you prove you did this? The application process isn’t hugely explanatory! But at least 2 observations are required before I can even apply

Edited

In addition to the response from NewWinger, ask at Reception or one of the Ushers which court(s) has what type of case(s) and they’ll know how to get you something worth seeing.

If you can, introduce yourself to the Usher of the court you go into, tell them why you are there and say you might be taking notes for your own use. If you strike lucky you might be invited to meet the Mags and have a brief chat to them. We always did if possible if our Usher said there was a potential applicant in court.

At interview you may be asked what sort of cases you observed and your thoughts about what you saw.

Sorry, edited to say I've repeated some of NewWinger's response - maybe that shows it's good advice ? 😂

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