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...To Think There Is Male Shopping Brain...?

81 replies

AlteFrau · 03/01/2026 09:13

Spouse said he'd do the shoppipng we needed yesterday, to stock up after the holiday break.

He went to the local High Street a few minutes away, and spent an hour shopping. On his return he said he'd been to two supermarkets, the two Asian run grocery shops and the chemists.

What he came back with
400 g cumin seed
1 jar mango pickle
4 bottles beer
2 toothbrush heads in contrasting colours - because the old ones were the same colour
Fancy little tomatoes
Sliced white sourdough

What he didn't get
Butter
Bananas
Frozen Peas
Bacon
Cheese
Milk

Thoughts?

OP posts:
Nantescalling · 04/01/2026 23:08

GCSEBiostruggles · 03/01/2026 09:57

I bet he doesn't do this at work? Unless he has a recognised disorder he is doing this because it will annoy you or he doesn't see the issue with you having to go out to actually complete what is a very simple task. Why are you making it a gender based issue? Does he struggle to perform self care routines also? I suspect not.

Because it's a bloke whose not getting at right, it's a male husband............................

esem · 05/01/2026 00:09

men are from mars - thats about it

WithIcePlease · 05/01/2026 00:16

Didimum · 03/01/2026 09:15

No, just ‘your spouse’s shopping brain’. My DH sorts the household shopping every week.

Same here. DH is always the one who knows if we are getting low on tea bags, exactly how much milk is left etc.

JohnBullshit · 05/01/2026 00:27

It's about individuals, not gender. I hate letting DH go shopping unsupervised. He can follow a list, obviously. What he can't do is think on his feet about items that aren't in stock. If I send DS instead, he'll know that without aubergines we can't have parmigiana, and will buy other ingredients to make a different dish. DH doesn't cook, or rather he doesn't cook anything good. He can feed himself when required.

BeatrizBoniface · 05/01/2026 05:37

he can feed himself when required
That's a relief! 😁

GCSEBiostruggles · 05/01/2026 09:28

Nantescalling · 04/01/2026 23:08

Because it's a bloke whose not getting at right, it's a male husband............................

He is an adult. He should be able to do simple tasks like completing a shopping list. He doesn't have a mental disorder FGS.

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