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To want stew and dumplings

142 replies

Trippingthelighteddaylight · 02/01/2026 02:54

I’m on my own since DH passed away. Cooking feels like a massive chore. I’m lying here craving stew and dumplings. I think I’ll start a stew and dumplings takeaway. Do you think it would work?

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Soluckyinlove · 02/01/2026 12:36

I've just remembered that I have three double portions of beef stew boxed up in the freezer. I'm now going to see if I have any suet. I usually buy vegetarian suet these days to accommodate extended family. If the cupboard is bare it will go on Tuesday's supermarket delivery.

TFImBackIn · 02/01/2026 12:45

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 06:27

Bloody love stew and dumplings! We tend to have it weekly in the autumn and winter months, a little less frequently in spring and just every so often in the summer. I love putting on the slow cooker before I start work and the smell drives you crazy as the day goes on lol. Our family favourite at the minute is a chicken stew/casserole - I seem to have found the right balance of everything that makes it really rich in flavour and is one of the few dishes where everyone has the exact same meal and very little waste. Love the idea of the stew takeaway!

I’m really sorry for your loss - I hope you get your stew.

I'd love that recipe.

OP, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. That must have been heart breaking. Flowers

Tillow4ever · 02/01/2026 12:46

TFImBackIn · 02/01/2026 12:45

I'd love that recipe.

OP, I'm so sorry you lost your husband. That must have been heart breaking. Flowers

I shared it a few mins ago if you scroll back slightly!

SameShitDifferentDate · 02/01/2026 13:03

Will you be offering overcooked cabbage as a side dish?

Topsy44 · 02/01/2026 13:07

I am sorry you lost your DH.
I lost my DH 11 years ago and I know how painful it is.
Definitely have the stew and dumplings. Anything that can give you a little bit of comfort at this difficult time will help and grieving is exhausting so you need to keep your strength up.Sending a big hug. x

randomchap · 02/01/2026 13:28

@sashh

Thanks for the recipe, but I'll ask my mum. She's been feeling a bit useless since retiring and likes to make herself useful. She loves cooking with her grandkids and she'll enjoy teaching us all.

LatteLady · 02/01/2026 13:40

Since my oven decided to die a couple of days before Christmas, my slow cooker has become my best friend... Can I suggest you jazz up your dumplings, too? I usually split the mix in two when dry and will make, mixed herb, carraway seed, mustard, cheese etc dumplings... caraway seeds are brilliant with pork.

New cooker is due to arrive next week.

OttersMayHaveShifted · 02/01/2026 13:47

God - I really want stew and dumplings now! I'd definitely buy some from your takeaway, OP. But unfortunately only if you had gluten-free dumplings! I've not been gluten-free for that long and haven't really built up a tried-and tested list of gf recipes yet. Dumplings definitely need to be on it though!

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 13:25

Perhaps those who are too modern to even consider eating traditional British stew and dumplings would be less sniffy about this, which is delicious.

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/chicken-arrabbiata-stew-parmesan-dumplings

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

Thortour · 02/01/2026 13:52

I often make a savoury cobbler and put cheese in the scone mix. Yum.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:05

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

It really isn't a million miles from British stew and dumplings. Do you perhaps not cook very much?

British stew, as made in my family, anyway = meat, probably most often beef or lamb, but could be chicken; onions and other vegetables; a little flour; bayleaf and sometimes other herbs; stock; salt and pepper; some fat to brown the meat and soften the vegetables. Beef in ale is very similar but with all or part of the stock replaced by ale. In that case mustard is an excellent addition. A dash of Lea & Perrin's is good.

The stew I've linked to is really not that different except that there's a lot of tomato in it, some garlic and chilli flakes.

Dumplings: flour, fat, water, seasoning, herbs, possibly cheese. This is what is in the recipe you've just said looks delicious, and this is what's in British dumplings to be cooked in stew. In both cases the dumplings are not 'big white blobs of floury fat balls' floating atop a watery stew. They absorb liquid from the stew and make the stew thicker. Just like other things made from fat and flour, e.g. pastry, they cook and you don't taste the flour in the finished product.

upstairsdownstairscardboardbox · 02/01/2026 14:07

Gentlydoesit2 · 02/01/2026 04:22

I've never had dumplings! Where do you live? Probably work up north I guess

😂😂"probably work up North I guess" - WTF does this mean @Gentlydoesit2

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:10

I think she means that only in the backward north of the country would such a weird notion as stew and dumplings appeal to people looking for takeaway food. Hmm

I live in London where there are still quite a number of shops selling pie and mash and/or jellied eels. Not a million miles away from stew and dumplings, and yet not up north! Mindblowing.

(I come from the far north of the British Isles myself, before anyone gets the wrong end of the stick.)

LibertyLily · 02/01/2026 14:20

Sorry for your loss @Trippingthelighteddaylight 💐

We love stew (we're not from up north, born and grew up on the south coast) although DH hates dumplings.

I don't like suet dumplings so make mine with just self-raising flour and water, steam, then pour the stew over them to serve.

My maternal grandparents were from Norfolk and I just about remember that one of their traditions in the mid/late1970s was to serve a non-suet dumpling with beef gravy ahead of Christmas dinner.

RampantIvy · 02/01/2026 14:26

and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

Big white blobs of floury fat balls floating on a stew wouldn't appeal to me either.

I make dumplings the way my late MIL made them. They are light with a crispy top as I bake them in the oven.

My dumplings look more like the ones here.

https://www.taste.com.au/recipes/beef-casserole-parmesan-dumpling/74dd2974-e11a-4709-9935-c5d6127a7ba7

vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:30

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 13:48

That does indeed look delicious - but it's a million miles from British stew & dumplings!

It's not sniffy not to have had stew & dumplings - I've just never had it and it doesn't appeal to me to have big white blobs of floury fat balls floating atop a stew!

What kind of dumplings have you been seeing? 😂

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:41

vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:30

What kind of dumplings have you been seeing? 😂

Something like this 😄

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To want stew and dumplings
Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:42

Obviously too sensitive to show!

vanillalattes · 02/01/2026 14:43

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:41

Something like this 😄

Well, that does look revolting. Even my school dinner stew and dumplings looked nicer than that 😂

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:50

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:05

It really isn't a million miles from British stew and dumplings. Do you perhaps not cook very much?

British stew, as made in my family, anyway = meat, probably most often beef or lamb, but could be chicken; onions and other vegetables; a little flour; bayleaf and sometimes other herbs; stock; salt and pepper; some fat to brown the meat and soften the vegetables. Beef in ale is very similar but with all or part of the stock replaced by ale. In that case mustard is an excellent addition. A dash of Lea & Perrin's is good.

The stew I've linked to is really not that different except that there's a lot of tomato in it, some garlic and chilli flakes.

Dumplings: flour, fat, water, seasoning, herbs, possibly cheese. This is what is in the recipe you've just said looks delicious, and this is what's in British dumplings to be cooked in stew. In both cases the dumplings are not 'big white blobs of floury fat balls' floating atop a watery stew. They absorb liquid from the stew and make the stew thicker. Just like other things made from fat and flour, e.g. pastry, they cook and you don't taste the flour in the finished product.

Do you perhaps not cook very much?

I cook a lot - I'm the proverbial MN batch-cooker. Just don't do pesky dumplings or use much flour!

In fact I was going to do some batch cooking today with the yellow sticker beef and lamb from M&S but I'm laid low with The Lurgy so it will have to wait 😊

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 02/01/2026 14:52

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:50

Do you perhaps not cook very much?

I cook a lot - I'm the proverbial MN batch-cooker. Just don't do pesky dumplings or use much flour!

In fact I was going to do some batch cooking today with the yellow sticker beef and lamb from M&S but I'm laid low with The Lurgy so it will have to wait 😊

Best wishes for a speedy recovery! Good idea not to be outside today. It's brass monkeys out there. We were out for a walk earlier and thankfully now safely installed inside with the heating on. I only wish we were going to have stew tonight but I am going to make the next best thing - soup.

Westfacing · 02/01/2026 14:59

Thank you!

I would liked to have gone out as it's a gloriously sunny day in London but just not up to it.

Enjoy your soup - now that's a theme for a thread... is soup a meal? 😄

NorWouldTilly · 02/01/2026 17:24

It is freezing outside - so stew and dumplings would be very welcome. I’ve been pescatarian for a couple of decades and don’t miss most meat. But right about now, the memory of an oxtail stew takes over my brain …

DrinkingIssues · 02/01/2026 17:25

This was my sons one request when he was home for just 48 hours this week! Bliss!