My ex partner is only allowed supervised visits to our son after he was reported to social services for emotional abuse to his child (not the child we share) and domestic abuse to myself.
Since this happened I have been having to take our child to public places to meet him once a week. However he keeps kicking off and sending nasty messages if there's things he doesn't like about my life. For example, he will look at my family members on Facebook and get nasty with me if he sees I have been out with family and he's never been told. He also recently was driving past my home, he then sent me nasty messages because my living room looked like it had changed and I hadn't told him. I checked my doorbell after he had told me and he had drove past my house 4 times as slow as he could. This made me feel very uneasy but when I voiced my concerns, of course I was overreacting and accusing him of being a stalker (I never even suggested he was stalking.) He went on to tell me he had only drove round because I hadn't answered the phone to him that day and he thought it meant I was seeing another man (I am absolutely not)
I then said I didn't feel comfortable communicating with him anymore and he started sending a lot of abusive messages. This went on for a few days until he wasn't getting a response from me, he then apologised. I tried to be civil with him and have seen him once in a public play area so he could see our child. However the whole time I felt uncomfortable. He asked to see our child Christmas day, I said no cause there wasn't a public place to go to and I would not leave my other child on Christmas day. He is also pushing to try get me to go to his new place with our son, even suggesting we stay over.
This has since kicked him off again and I am once again getting nasty messages, saying horrible things about myself, my child that isn't his and my family. I said we need to sort something else out as I don't want to have to see him myself anymore. I keep getting phone calls and messages.
Would I be unreasonable to block him and tell him if he wants to see our child he will need to sort this legally in someway, having someone other than myself supervising the contact? It's making me ill and ruining my life having to still have contact with him. He just won't let me be or accept that it's over, says I'm ruining his life and there's no point him living.