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Getting out of handcuffs?

258 replies

FrostedWoods · 01/01/2026 14:34

This is such a bizarre thing to write about but hear me out!

Had a weird situation with the police last night. Won't fully go into it but they mistakenly thought there was a criminal in my house and I was arrested then unarrested when they realised their mistake. I was put into handcuffs. I have hypermobility. And I think due to this I could get out of the cuffs pretty easily. Has anyone else experienced this?

I was so suprised at how easy they are to get out of. Do they have any kind of back up if they really need to keep someone secure? Just keep thinking about it! 😄

OP posts:
Isinglass20 · 03/01/2026 17:06

Erm? What police force is this? Wrong house? Handcuff the quite obvious householder and mother without checking their information on which they re basing their search?

presumably the alleged offender got away laughing his head off at the gross incompetence. This is what we pay our taxes for?

Justsean · 03/01/2026 18:09

Zip ties

Aspire5253 · 03/01/2026 21:26

As an ex Pc trainer I can say that handcuffs should be put on at the rear and are virtually impossible to get out of. I suspect some training is required.

BarMonaco · 04/01/2026 09:41

kierenthecommunity · 02/01/2026 20:34

You do deserve an explanation and apology if they’ve cocked up. We have been to the wrong address on occasion (it’s easy to do in Leeds as there are so many streets here with the same name so you’ll have a bank of addresses all called, say, Brownhill Terrace, Brownhill Crscent, Brownhill Avenue etc) and I have never been anything but very apologetic if I’ve got the wrong person out of bed 😂

I am at a loss what you were arrested for though, sorry! If they genuinely thought you were the partner of a wrongun and hiding them being there, maybe assisting an offender? I once had to deal with an arrest where the partner (a large lady) laid on the stairs stopping police going up to the suspect. She wasn’t the victim of the alleged assault so she ended up coming to the cells too for obstructing police

Could OP have been arrested because she was refusing to let them come in the house? (Causing an obstruction)

FrostedWoods · 05/01/2026 00:03

BarMonaco · 04/01/2026 09:41

Could OP have been arrested because she was refusing to let them come in the house? (Causing an obstruction)

I think it must have been something like that.

OP posts:
DadBodAlready · 05/01/2026 17:17

Sounds like a prank. Standard procedure when arresting someone is to handcuff behind the back, because you could still grab something or attack hurt an officer if your hands are handcuffed in front.

Tandia · 24/01/2026 20:22

I've just come across this thread. Did you hear back from the police following the complaint @FrostedWoods ?

pipthomson · 01/02/2026 19:02

Why don’t you complain to the chef constable?

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