I have moved over 32 times and am a bit of an expert now. Last move was to france and we bought 25 cubic m of cross border moving space so had to whittle down everything to fit.
And as I was moving a dismantled polytunnel within that, I really had to whittle things down.
Before moving use your dirty bedding to stuff the fridge and freezer to soak up any water and pop those straight in the wash when you get to the new house.
First evening
First things to unpack are beds, bedding and basic kitchen and cleaning stuff.
First full day
Then get every box into its correct room. Get furniture in situ and bung all clothes onto the beds, and put them away. Then shoes and coats etc.
For front rooms and dining rooms, unpack stuff for eating, sitting down and coffee tables etc. Pop rugs down before tables and sofas. Then set up tvs record players, bookcases etc and get records, cos and books into place. Makes it feel like home.
Day 2 just go room to room and unpack each box. Dont be tempted to leave any. If it was worth bringing it was worth unpacking.
Day 3 unpack the rest. Then either put all the boxes on offer to be taken away by someone else.moving, or take them to the recycling or let the cats play in them and put the rest in the garden for making compost in the spring.
If you can get round and clean before your furniture arrives then that's fab otherwise clean each room before unpacking and dont try to do too much other stuff those first few days, just concentrate on the job in hand. Make up a trug of hot soapy water and have a load of dry cloths with you at all times.