second, while I sympathise about childcare/school runs (as a mother myself I know it’s hard) - I’ve noticed that people increasingly seem entitled to say “childcare needs” and leave work to take care of their kids. There are some jobs you can do this for - a doctor is not that type of job. That is why paid childcare exists
100%. Why is it that it has become an unmanageable situation since Covid when many women had to deal with the sane issues 10, 20, 30 years ago? My mum was a professional single mum in the 70s with no help. I became one myself in the 00. It was OUR problem to sort. No such law as carer days, work flexibility and all what working parents get nowadays. Yet you'd think it's never been worse!
I remember being stuck in a snow storm on a A road after a work meeting a Friday at 5pm, not moving for hours and panicking that I wouldn't be able to pick my kids on time. It was so stressful trying to sort things out and yes, I ended up in tears. Yet I was so mighty grateful that I had a mobile, only had it for a year by then. My mum wouldn't have been able to call. I would have been left there with a disgruntled staff moaning about my mum, but I survived it all without scares. My mum would have been so horribly stressed but she survived it too.
Working mums don't realise how good they have it now!