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To feel very sorry for this doctor

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runningpram · 31/12/2025 09:07

I feel the way this lady has been treated is appalling.
Obviously this wasn’t the right thing to do but she wasn’t leaving early and there was no patient detriment. Why were her managers not supporting her better?
Why on earth could not this have been sorted out within the practise without a formal disciplinary process? As a working mum I really feel for her. Could someone medical shed light on why this would have been blown up into such an issue?

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15422147/amp/GP-faked-medical-appointments-work-not-late-afternoon-school-run-suspended-practising-5-months.html

GP faked medical appointments at work so she could make school run

A family doctor who faked medical appointments at work so she would not be late for the afternoon school run has been suspended from treating patients.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15422147/amp/GP-faked-medical-appointments-work-not-late-afternoon-school-run-suspended-practising-5-months.html

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Ihatetomatoes · 01/01/2026 19:05

PersephoneParlormaid · 31/12/2025 09:11

No, no sympathy whatsoever. She’s a liar, and I’d bet she’s done more than what she’s being done for

This.

Lied. Left work earlier than supposed to and worse faked appointments.

ThatCyanCat · 01/01/2026 19:07

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 18:49

The GP entered an incorrect piece of information about one of two patients she had had phone consultations with on the same day. This could have happened regardless of the fact that she put their appointments on her work system at the wrong time. This type of clerical error happens because humans make mistakes.

Doctors and nurses make mistakes all the time and this can lead to people dying in the worst case scenario. I'm not saying what she did was okay, I was replying to Salvadoridory's whinge that women like this GP make her life in the corporate world more difficult, which I personally find laughable.

"Struck off" means the GP can't work as a GP anymore so that would translate into being fired in the corporate world if you have difficulty in making that connection.

I also don't have an issue with this GP being struck off.
However, I do think that many more male doctors should be struck off but are somehow protected in ways that this GP was not. I'm basing that on having family members in the nursing profession who see what doctors do and don't do on a day-to-day basis.

Edited

So in short, you think intentionally falsifying medical records isn't that bad because she might have been negligent enough to enter the wrong information accidentally, and other medical professionals sometimes make genuine errors of judgement.

Either you do indeed not understand the severity of it, or you're just trying to save face.

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 19:08

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 18:49

The GP entered an incorrect piece of information about one of two patients she had had phone consultations with on the same day. This could have happened regardless of the fact that she put their appointments on her work system at the wrong time. This type of clerical error happens because humans make mistakes.

Doctors and nurses make mistakes all the time and this can lead to people dying in the worst case scenario. I'm not saying what she did was okay, I was replying to Salvadoridory's whinge that women like this GP make her life in the corporate world more difficult, which I personally find laughable.

"Struck off" means the GP can't work as a GP anymore so that would translate into being fired in the corporate world if you have difficulty in making that connection.

I also don't have an issue with this GP being struck off.
However, I do think that many more male doctors should be struck off but are somehow protected in ways that this GP was not. I'm basing that on having family members in the nursing profession who see what doctors do and don't do on a day-to-day basis.

Edited

Interesting article in the Guardian about male doctors not being struck off despite reports of sexual assault

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/sep/18/uk-doctors-guilty-of-sexual-misconduct-are-not-being-struck-off-research-finds

UK doctors guilty of sexual misconduct are not being struck off, research finds

Analysis reveals 24% of guilty doctors handed suspensions but are allowed to keep working in medicine

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/sep/18/uk-doctors-guilty-of-sexual-misconduct-are-not-being-struck-off-research-finds

Tootietoots · 01/01/2026 19:12

I think a last written warning would have been enough but have her name and face all over the press is just awful. She didn’t commit a huge crime. Yes I feel sorry for her and hope she and her family are ok.

nevernotmaybe · 01/01/2026 19:12

She commited fraud in a highly regulated extremely professional job, in a sector where not a second of anything unprofessional should ever occur for a second.

nevernotmaybe · 01/01/2026 19:14

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 19:08

Interesting article in the Guardian about male doctors not being struck off despite reports of sexual assault

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/sep/18/uk-doctors-guilty-of-sexual-misconduct-are-not-being-struck-off-research-finds

Gener baiting whataboutism doesn't change anything.

EchoesOfOurDreams · 01/01/2026 19:15

Grammarnut · 01/01/2026 18:34

PIcking up your DC is not 'personal time'. Caring responsibilities need to be built into the work situation so that women (it's always women) are not put in such situations.
And good on her for working full-time. One of the problems we have is the large number of women doctors who work part-time - mainly because of the problem this case has highlighted.
She should not have falsified the medical record, of course.

Edited

Honestly I agree with you. I think the system sucks, but where she was in the wrong was falsifying records. As someone else has pointed out that could have led to patient harm if it had been incorrectly recorded that a patient had been seen face to face when they hadn't. If they had only been seen by telephone but their problem hadn't got better, another GP might have not advised them to come in if they incorrectly thought they had already been seen face to face, but they might have actually needed a face to face assessment which they hadn't yet had.

Happilyobtuse · 01/01/2026 19:15

I don’t condone lying and I think another solution should have been found before it got to this stage.

But I do think the reporting on this has been appalling! It is like the people writing the article are stupid and don’t know the difference between the school run and after school pick up. She was leaving to make it for after school pick up and honestly what choice does any parent have with that?! In our after school club if we are late, for every minute after 6pm we are charged £5. This is to discourage parents from being delayed and to penalise parents. It always stresses me out when I am picking up after my office days on whether I will make it on time. I sometimes come back home by 5pm and work from there so as not to be delayed for the afterschool pick up. My manager is kind about that and allows flexibility.

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 19:28

ThatCyanCat · 01/01/2026 19:07

So in short, you think intentionally falsifying medical records isn't that bad because she might have been negligent enough to enter the wrong information accidentally, and other medical professionals sometimes make genuine errors of judgement.

Either you do indeed not understand the severity of it, or you're just trying to save face.

I said I had no issue with her being struck off.

I made two points:

  • One that her behaviour doesn't impact women in senior positions in the corporate world.
  • Secondly, that male doctors do far worse things than this GP did yet are not struck off.

For example, last September a male doctor left mid-way through an operation to have sex with a nurse but is still allowed to practice:
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/15/doctor-who-left-patient-during-operation-to-have-sex-allowed-to-practise

"Saving face on an anonymous forum"??? LMAO

Doctor who left patient during operation to have sex with nurse allowed to practise

Medical tribunal rules ‘very low risk’ of Suhail Anjum, who had been dismissed by hospital in Greater Manchester, repeating behaviour

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/15/doctor-who-left-patient-during-operation-to-have-sex-allowed-to-practise

Yourcatisnotsorry · 01/01/2026 19:41

Falsifying innocent patients’ records, lying about it repeatedly, blocking diary time when people are literally dying because of a lack of GP appointments. As a working mother I’m disgusted by her actions actually. No doubt there are people getting away with far worse but what she’s done is very wrong and deserves a proper sanction.

TurquoiseDress · 01/01/2026 19:43

angela1952 · 01/01/2026 18:53

Very many GP's already do work part-time, I can't see why she couldn't find herself a part-time job. What does she do in the school holidays?

Re school holidays, I’d imagine GPs would need to try & get annual leave to cover some of the time, book the kids into holiday camps, possibly have family who can help out…a bit like the rest of us with jobs & young children

Yes very many GPs work part time and then work locum/extra sessions to help with cover at their own surgeries eg to help cover colleagues annual leave or sudden sickness or perhaps at another surgery on a regular basis

CremeCarmel · 01/01/2026 20:06

The GMC obviously agree with you which is why she has been suspended for a few months rather than being struck off. She will probably have to undergo some more retraining and can then resume her

MILLYmo0se · 01/01/2026 20:17

Happilyobtuse · 01/01/2026 19:15

I don’t condone lying and I think another solution should have been found before it got to this stage.

But I do think the reporting on this has been appalling! It is like the people writing the article are stupid and don’t know the difference between the school run and after school pick up. She was leaving to make it for after school pick up and honestly what choice does any parent have with that?! In our after school club if we are late, for every minute after 6pm we are charged £5. This is to discourage parents from being delayed and to penalise parents. It always stresses me out when I am picking up after my office days on whether I will make it on time. I sometimes come back home by 5pm and work from there so as not to be delayed for the afterschool pick up. My manager is kind about that and allows flexibility.

I don't think we are stupid given we can see from the report that this was a shift she agreed she was not under pressure to take on, and she never mentioned to the partners, receptionist etc that there would be an issue with any appointments running after 4.45pm.
It's very different to her being contracted to work until 5 every day, then I'm sure she would have to have alternatives for childcare as faking appointments and subsequent reports every day would not be possible, she didn't have to do this

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:23

Happilyobtuse · 01/01/2026 19:15

I don’t condone lying and I think another solution should have been found before it got to this stage.

But I do think the reporting on this has been appalling! It is like the people writing the article are stupid and don’t know the difference between the school run and after school pick up. She was leaving to make it for after school pick up and honestly what choice does any parent have with that?! In our after school club if we are late, for every minute after 6pm we are charged £5. This is to discourage parents from being delayed and to penalise parents. It always stresses me out when I am picking up after my office days on whether I will make it on time. I sometimes come back home by 5pm and work from there so as not to be delayed for the afterschool pick up. My manager is kind about that and allows flexibility.

For the millionth time ...

She had the choice NOT to take on the locum shift that she didn't have childcare to cover.

I don't think it's the people writing the article that are being stupid here 🫠

Cienna · 01/01/2026 20:55

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 20:23

For the millionth time ...

She had the choice NOT to take on the locum shift that she didn't have childcare to cover.

I don't think it's the people writing the article that are being stupid here 🫠

Just like people supposedly have the choice not to work at all?? Were her working hours meant to continue beyond the childcare she had booked? I would assume a locum shift is offered for a set shift.
I undertake clinics and even if blocked out the last few appointments would still have worked my contracted finish hours by the time I left at the end of the day when you take account of arriving early, lunch breaks usually worked through and post clinic admin. Fortunately I’m contracted to finish at 5, the last appointment is scheduled to finish at 4.20 and my childcare finishes at 6 and is only 20 minutes away so it gives me a bit of leeway. I’ve changed childminders when they’ve changed their finish times to earlier as I just don’t want the stress.There are absolutely no childminders in our area of any other area we have lived in that finish after 6pm. I’m sure she would not have chosen to put herself under this stress if it were just a case of being able to book childcare until 6.30

AgapanthusPink · 01/01/2026 21:04

HopeSpringsEternally · 01/01/2026 19:28

I said I had no issue with her being struck off.

I made two points:

  • One that her behaviour doesn't impact women in senior positions in the corporate world.
  • Secondly, that male doctors do far worse things than this GP did yet are not struck off.

For example, last September a male doctor left mid-way through an operation to have sex with a nurse but is still allowed to practice:
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/sep/15/doctor-who-left-patient-during-operation-to-have-sex-allowed-to-practise

"Saving face on an anonymous forum"??? LMAO

Edited

You picked a poor example. In what way did the male doctor behave worse that the female GP. She lied and lied again falsified a legal document. He should have what he did but he didn’t at least hand over to a colleague and returned 8 mins later?

If you want to try and push the idea that women are treated worse than men you should at least find another case where a Dr lied and falsified medical records.

How about the case to the male GP Dr Siong Lee?

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/gp-didnt-tell-patient-risk-31771781

GP didn't tell patient he was at risk of cancer - then lied to cover his tracks

The patient was later diagnosed with prostate cancer and died

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/gp-didnt-tell-patient-risk-31771781

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 21:06

Cienna · 01/01/2026 20:55

Just like people supposedly have the choice not to work at all?? Were her working hours meant to continue beyond the childcare she had booked? I would assume a locum shift is offered for a set shift.
I undertake clinics and even if blocked out the last few appointments would still have worked my contracted finish hours by the time I left at the end of the day when you take account of arriving early, lunch breaks usually worked through and post clinic admin. Fortunately I’m contracted to finish at 5, the last appointment is scheduled to finish at 4.20 and my childcare finishes at 6 and is only 20 minutes away so it gives me a bit of leeway. I’ve changed childminders when they’ve changed their finish times to earlier as I just don’t want the stress.There are absolutely no childminders in our area of any other area we have lived in that finish after 6pm. I’m sure she would not have chosen to put herself under this stress if it were just a case of being able to book childcare until 6.30

She signed up for a locum shift that she didn't have childcare to cover. In order to square that circle (a problem entirely of her own making), she put in fraudulent appointments and falsified patients records.

And this is seriously something you're prepared to condone?

Cienna · 01/01/2026 21:18

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 21:06

She signed up for a locum shift that she didn't have childcare to cover. In order to square that circle (a problem entirely of her own making), she put in fraudulent appointments and falsified patients records.

And this is seriously something you're prepared to condone?

My understanding is that she did have childcare to cover the hours she was meant to work but not for the possibility that she might have to stay late, the system shouldn’t be structured in a way which makes that a likely possibility? She didn’t do the right thing in the way she tried to work around the issue and I think she understands that. However the practice should have worked with her to solve the problem or she should of ideally been able to say it’s really not going to work putting in appointments at 4.45 for me as I’m bound to be already running late by then and just not going to be able to give all the patients I’m seeing/contacting a decent standard of care, post clinic admin etc if you do that, but sadly it isn’t a culture that accepts someone saying that

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 21:31

Cienna · 01/01/2026 21:18

My understanding is that she did have childcare to cover the hours she was meant to work but not for the possibility that she might have to stay late, the system shouldn’t be structured in a way which makes that a likely possibility? She didn’t do the right thing in the way she tried to work around the issue and I think she understands that. However the practice should have worked with her to solve the problem or she should of ideally been able to say it’s really not going to work putting in appointments at 4.45 for me as I’m bound to be already running late by then and just not going to be able to give all the patients I’m seeing/contacting a decent standard of care, post clinic admin etc if you do that, but sadly it isn’t a culture that accepts someone saying that

Obviously not, if she felt the need to book out her last two slots of the day to give her the time to get her children.

In some jobs you can't guarantee that you'll leave on the dot of the hour. You need a degree of contingency in your childcare to cover that. This will not have come as any big surprise to a GP.

godmum56 · 01/01/2026 21:32

Cienna · 01/01/2026 21:18

My understanding is that she did have childcare to cover the hours she was meant to work but not for the possibility that she might have to stay late, the system shouldn’t be structured in a way which makes that a likely possibility? She didn’t do the right thing in the way she tried to work around the issue and I think she understands that. However the practice should have worked with her to solve the problem or she should of ideally been able to say it’s really not going to work putting in appointments at 4.45 for me as I’m bound to be already running late by then and just not going to be able to give all the patients I’m seeing/contacting a decent standard of care, post clinic admin etc if you do that, but sadly it isn’t a culture that accepts someone saying that

Have you not RTFT? She chose to take on extra sessions for extra money.

ThatBlackCat · 01/01/2026 21:40

randomchap · 31/12/2025 09:11

It's the daily mail. Therefore unreliable. There's probably far more to the story than they've published.

They love attacking the nhs.

The Daily Mail are subject to the same libel laws as everyone else. If a person is named, they cannot legally make up stuff. They're fucked if they do. So the 'oh it's the Daily Mail lol hahahaha' really doesn't make sense.

Cienna · 01/01/2026 21:42

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 21:31

Obviously not, if she felt the need to book out her last two slots of the day to give her the time to get her children.

In some jobs you can't guarantee that you'll leave on the dot of the hour. You need a degree of contingency in your childcare to cover that. This will not have come as any big surprise to a GP.

I very much doubt there was an option to book a later finishing time for her childcare, if she was meant to finish in time to get her children it’s irrelevant she had booked a locum shift. By your reasoning many mothers wouldn’t work at all. My employer says they expect you to be able to sort out childcare for a sick child within 24 hours, I know there are occasions when that would not be possible and so far I’ve just been lucky but like many mothers I wouldn’t be working at all if I had all the contingencies in place that our employers expect us to have. In fact I almost didn’t take my position because of it but thankfully attitudes seemed to become more relaxed about time off during the pandemic and flexible
working in general and it seemed viable to pick up my professional career As it is I have never actually taken a day off in 5 years. Attitudes such as yours set women’s access to work and many careers back decades

prh47bridge · 01/01/2026 21:53

ThatBlackCat · 01/01/2026 21:40

The Daily Mail are subject to the same libel laws as everyone else. If a person is named, they cannot legally make up stuff. They're fucked if they do. So the 'oh it's the Daily Mail lol hahahaha' really doesn't make sense.

They can make stuff up provided it is not defamatory or they think the person they are talking about won't sue them. In this case they haven't made anything up, but they have rather glossed over the fact that she put patient safety at risk by falsifying patient records.

TheKeatingFive · 01/01/2026 22:03

Cienna · 01/01/2026 21:42

I very much doubt there was an option to book a later finishing time for her childcare, if she was meant to finish in time to get her children it’s irrelevant she had booked a locum shift. By your reasoning many mothers wouldn’t work at all. My employer says they expect you to be able to sort out childcare for a sick child within 24 hours, I know there are occasions when that would not be possible and so far I’ve just been lucky but like many mothers I wouldn’t be working at all if I had all the contingencies in place that our employers expect us to have. In fact I almost didn’t take my position because of it but thankfully attitudes seemed to become more relaxed about time off during the pandemic and flexible
working in general and it seemed viable to pick up my professional career As it is I have never actually taken a day off in 5 years. Attitudes such as yours set women’s access to work and many careers back decades

No, it definitely isn't irrelevant that she booked a locum shift, because without that shift she would have had no problem picking up her children on time.

Attitudes such as yours set women’s access to work and many careers back decades

I have no words for how ridiculous this is. She committed fraud and falsified patient records. If you don't understand how serious that is, I can't help you.

C8H10N4O2 · 01/01/2026 22:21

Baggingarea · 01/01/2026 17:47

And all from the same news agency who attended the tribunal. The level of media literacy on mumsnet is quite worrying.

The full judgement is available on the GMC site. No need for you to worry about silly women’s media literacy.

If anything the press coverage of the facts understated the case.