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Sudden cancellation I'm not very pleased

204 replies

PissedOffPetSitter · 29/12/2025 22:21

I was booked for a job from 23/12 to 14/01. The guy has gone to his home country to visit family. When I went today there was someone in the house. I assumed he'd got back early and decided to contact him but I got a text from an unknown number which turned out to be his girlfriend.

She said he's not able to talk to me but has asked her to tell me to drop the keys off tomorrow because as she's there I'm not needed. I've lost £160 with this. I'm so cross.

I can't really expect him to pay. I've gone over and above with them before and I'm so annoyed.

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Applecup · 29/12/2025 23:45

I would message him saying that the cancellation fee is half the agreed price due to you not being able to fill the days with another job. If he refuses then you know not to ever work for him again. Put the ball in his court.

Ohpleeeease · 29/12/2025 23:48

Under no circumstances should you hand the keys over to anyone but the client.

PissedOffPetSitter · 29/12/2025 23:51

I have seen this woman at the house before. He lives on the next street down from me.

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VivX · 29/12/2025 23:53

In addition to having a cancellation policy, consider also getting a deposit upfront in future.

Lunde · 29/12/2025 23:55

I wouldn't return keys to anyone but the client unless he explicitly instructs you to

Does he even know that she is using his house? What if she has a New Year Party, causes damage and then you get blamed for giving her the keys?

PissedOffPetSitter · 29/12/2025 23:57

She sent this.

So I wanted to tell you a few things, but just when I was upstairs it didn’t work out. So, I’m changing jobs and I’ll be coming to Town on Wednesday. So please come by tomorrow, on Tuesday, and leave the key where you usually leave it when you go out. Brian isn’t able to talk right now, and he asked me to pass this message on to you.

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Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 29/12/2025 23:59

That sounds dodgy AF.

Also, I agree with PP. They are no longer employing you so they can't tell you what to do with your time. They can pick up the keys when it suits you.

Tinsles · 29/12/2025 23:59

I certainly wouldn't be following any instruction regarding keys.

Anyusernamewilldo8963 · 30/12/2025 00:01

Nope, if he can speak to her then he can speak to you. Do not give anyone any keys until Brian himself tells you too. For all you know they've split up and shes broken in to boil his pets!

RetirementTimes · 30/12/2025 00:02

PissedOffPetSitter · 29/12/2025 23:57

She sent this.

So I wanted to tell you a few things, but just when I was upstairs it didn’t work out. So, I’m changing jobs and I’ll be coming to Town on Wednesday. So please come by tomorrow, on Tuesday, and leave the key where you usually leave it when you go out. Brian isn’t able to talk right now, and he asked me to pass this message on to you.

Not sure about this given that you normally deal with him. I think you need direct confirmation from him.

ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 30/12/2025 00:04

I'd text back - Brian can collect the keys when he returns.
My cancellation policy states he owes me £x.

Tinsles · 30/12/2025 00:04

He's treating you like staff, you're not.
He can collect your keys at a time that suits you.

Bellavida99 · 30/12/2025 00:05

We’ve used a lot of pet sitters, pet walkers and drop ins and all holiday pet care have been payment up front.this is the norm so make sure you do this going forward. Something like £25 on booking and total amount 7 days before holiday commences.

PissedOffPetSitter · 30/12/2025 00:06

ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 30/12/2025 00:04

I'd text back - Brian can collect the keys when he returns.
My cancellation policy states he owes me £x.

There's no cancellation policy though. Not yet anyway ....

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ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 30/12/2025 00:06

Yeah - but she won't know that.

Wallywobbles · 30/12/2025 00:07

I’d want to hear from him not a 3rd party.

ManyPigeons · 30/12/2025 00:09

I’d inform her that your services were not hired by her and so he will need to contact you himself as the employer to confirm if this is true.

Mistletoeiggi · 30/12/2025 00:09

He's under the patio

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 30/12/2025 00:10

Teado · 29/12/2025 22:31

Explain that you know you can’t enforce payment but you’re disappointed with the very short notice because this is your livelihood. He may feel guilty, and cough up. Otherwise, lesson learnt about T&C.

It would be silly to acknowledge OP can't enforce payment. The reality is that the person who made the contract never cancelled it so he is contractually bound to pay.

Zonder · 30/12/2025 00:11

I wonder if Brian even knows.

GoodQueenWenceslaus · 30/12/2025 00:12

Can't you contact Brian, OP? You don't actually know whether he has cancelled you at all, do you?

PissedOffPetSitter · 30/12/2025 00:13

I will be contacting Brian first thing in the morning and sending a separate message to the girlfriend.

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Rosealea · 30/12/2025 00:14

Same job, same issues. People don't seem to see us the same as other services. It's very annoying.

L0bstersLass · 30/12/2025 00:14

You need to speak to him @PissedOffPetSitter. You absolutely cannot be leaving the keys where she has access to them. That would be massively inappropriate without speaking to him first.

PissedOffPetSitter · 30/12/2025 00:16

Hello Mavis. As the booking is with Brian I’ll need to confirm any changes directly with him. Once I’ve heard from him, I’ll arrange returning the keys.

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