I’ve been with my partner for 2.5 years. We don’t live together, we are about 40 mins drive from each other. In the beginning we used to DTD every time we saw each other which was a couple of times a week. He now says he has a low s*x drive and we only see each other at weekends for two nights. He has even started complaining that this is too much and wants to see me less. Like 2 or 3 weekends a month which doesn’t seem enough to me. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but now I have to practically beg for intimacy including kisses or cuddles and every time I suggest DTD he rolls his eyes and huffs and puffs, sometimes he eventually relents (most of the time he pushes me / my hand away) nowadays we DTD once a week at best. He claims he’s got a low drive and almost implies there’s something wrong with me, but I’d be happy with twice a week. He does put a lot of pressure on himself to perform and is apparently terrified of erectile dysfunction but we’ve never had that issue. He cheated on me a year ago and I can’t help feeling pretty rubbish about myself :( he also hates phone calls and has a go at me if I ring him 9 times out of 10. He says it’s because he’s autistic, but I’m autistic too and find it quite cruel.