It’s been a busy few days.
Today, DH and DS go out to watch football and I had booked panto with additional family members so they met us there.
I tidied, walked the dog, made pack up for the panto etc.
Im menopausal and struggling with memory.
his memory is bad and has been for a while so normally we ‘joke’ about brewing fog/forgetting etc.
we have just got home and it appears I forgot to lock the door. My bad.
no harm done and obviously a mistake. The door was closed and we live behind a fenced gate that you need an access code to in a small village.
we both leave the house unlocked in the day to walk the dog etc but I wouldn’t intentionally leave it unlocked for a longer period of time or with the dog home etc.
It’s an error.
oh my god, you would have thought I had scarified our first born child.
He has been so sanctimonious about it and it not being acceptable here. I’ve lost it, my bad again, and sworn and yelled at him.
Im hurt as I’ve rushed around sorting and doing and I’ve slipped up (no harm done and obviously my mistake re the door)
to make matters worse, our daughter, 18 has got involved telling me how bad it is to leave it unlocked and how I’ve over reacted by shouting etc. I’ve kept my calm with her but feel so upset and furious with him.
he has left the door open on numerous occasions and obviously I didn’t flippen mean to. It was just his over reaction and repeated criticism to it but now I’ve gone over board yelling and ruined a Christmas night.