‘Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?’

[Sadalot90]

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Not a resolution in the traditional sense but I want to do something epic in 2026. Something that will make my toddler son proud in years to come but not sure what. I’d love some inspiration and to hear about your own wonderful plans.

And @JacknDiane made it bingo!

Do something that will make someone's life better.
Look at your community, find out what the biggest need is, and join a charity or organisation that is working to meet that need.
That the world is better because of you is the most impressive thing of all.

The best thing you can do for a toddler imo is to be there and be present for them. Don’t take stupid, selfish risks, you have plenty of years for that. All he needs from you is your time, attention and love. Toddlers are so much fun and develop so much each day if you take the time and put in the effort with them, that’s the most precious thing of all.

I would like to create more space in my life for putting nutritious foods inside my body.

I feel like that pretty directly also benefits my husband and children.

I hate to say it OP but I suspect nothing you do will make your son proud, especially when he's a teenager. More likely to embarrass him!

Write a book?
Ultra marathons?
Jumping from planes?
Charity work with sick kittens?

All will be met with distain and embarrassment.

When they hit their 20's they may be a little more impressed ;)

I suggest you think of this in an onion way -
Start close to home and progress outwards:

Firstly, ensure your home is tidy, clean, food is nutritious, there is lots of love and kindness.

Then focus on yourself: exercise and feel good about yourself. No need for marathons, but getting some time to be healthy will make a long term difference for your family.

Progress to your professional life/ career: perhaps retrain or increase qualifications, so you progress in your work/pay.

If any time left then focus on community work / art.

However, of course, if there is actually something you would like to do, then just prioritise it and do it.

Thanks to everyone who took the time to post thoughtful replies - it is very much appreciated.
My dad was in the Royal Marines/SBS in the 70s and ran marathons in the early 80s. I am extremely proud of him.
I also remember Rosalynn Carter’s grandson delivering a eulogy at her funeral and saying how proud he was that she achieved so much in her life and her can do spirit.
All the best to everyone who has exciting plans next year, epic or otherwise. Let’s ignore the naysayers and hopefully this time next year we’ll be able to say this year I achieved …..

I love your enthusiasm! We need more people like you. So, time to think what kind of thing you'd like to do. Fundraising? Setting up a small business? Getting into adrenaline sports? Learning an art of craft? Singing or performing to an audience? The world is your oyster!