Christmas Day with partners daughter (31) and family. Having a lovely time. His son (30) was with his mum amd grandparents. Firstly my partner thinking he wouldn't be seeing him on Xmas Day decided he was going to text to tell him what we had bought him which me and daughter suggested was an odd thing to do (he told us) and from my POV as gift was from me too I asked him not to as we were seeing them in a couple of days anyway. Got a bag on with that. Then there were messages during dinner from son saying could his dad collect him later. We both heard a phone call saying he could collect him at 530. Despite our plans of food then a walk then pudding. In the end daughter said do what you want and off he went to collect. She told me she had argued with brother the day before about him rearranging things and was cross with her dad for arranging behind her back
On the way home I mentioned it from the POV of be mindful in future as she overheard and was upset. He is now going to have words with her, is cross as we were talking about him and is generally being an arse. Was I unreasonable to mention it?