Feeling unsatisfied in relationship- Is it a mismatch? Am I being too hasty?

[timesacharm]

I feel guilty typing this on this forum. I’ve been seeing someone over a year. At first it felt really good, we chatted loads, and I felt really attracted to her.

As time has gone on, I’m noticing more that has dampened my attraction. Sometimes we meet and I feel quite bored, not really sure what to talk about. I’ll ask questions etc but we have very different jobs, very different ambitions.
different levels of responsibilities. I have a child, own my home. She doesn’t have children and rents with a friend.
I feel understimulated in conversation and at times it can feel like a chore to read and respond to her messages which I feel awful about.

She is a lovely person.

I Wonder if I should end it or if I’m being too hasty.

“When it’s right you know it’s right.”
Do her a favour. Stop wasting her time.
End it.

You aren't compatible.

I think a year is a classic point of time to question whether it’s going to work. Don’t feel bad if she’s not for you, you’re probably thinking it will be difficult to end it if there’s not been any disagreement or event, and she hasn’t done anything wrong. But life is too short to coast along if you’re not happy, and honesty is the best policy.

Sounds like the relationship has run it's course. You're just not that into her and don't see a future together so it's best to end the relationship if you're not right for each other.

Sounds like you aren't that into her, so better to end it so she can find someone who is.