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Do you really need to visit shops on Boxing Day?

352 replies

kolpa · 26/12/2025 08:26

Before you decide to go to half the stores which are open today, think - do you actually need anything? If not, stay away from them.

Those supermarkets that are open would have very few deliveries. Perhaps milk n bread as majority of these are delivered by the bakery and dairy. It depends on if they worked yesterday. As some distribution centres were closed yesterday.

I personally believe that people only shop because the shops are open. If some were open yesterday, they would have gone in.

A good number of the retail workers today are people who don’t have a car who usually bus it in. But no buses means either get someone to drive them in or get taxi/uber which are 1.5-2 times more expensive.

So if you can survive a day of visiting about half the stores which are open today, stay at home or go to others’ homes.

OP posts:
23doorsdown · 26/12/2025 18:39

@TidyCyan so did I & IT staff had to be available in case of website issues.

cadburyegg · 26/12/2025 18:43

Yabu. I went to Tesco and got some bargain wrapping paper for next year. If shops are open then people will go.

I also used to work retail at Christmas and never resented customers coming in. It was part of the job.

TidyCyan · 26/12/2025 18:43

23doorsdown · 26/12/2025 18:39

@TidyCyan so did I & IT staff had to be available in case of website issues.

Yes but not "at work". Laptop at home for a cursory check.

BauhausOfEliott · 26/12/2025 21:46

kolpa · 26/12/2025 08:54

I believe those who never worked in retail are shopping today.

I’ve worked in retail and I was bloody delighted that people shopped on Boxing Day because I was able to pick up a shift for double-time. Made a massive difference to me as I needed the money back then.

Stopthatknocking · 26/12/2025 22:03

Yes, I needed to go.to the shop today.
Ds had a mega nose bleed and used half a loo roll.
So I needed more, and stain remover for the sofa!
You.cant dictate to others, and you can't always plan for everything.

Wereongunoil · 26/12/2025 22:14

xanthomelana · 26/12/2025 13:47

Genuine question but what would you have done yesterday when everything was closed? I hope he’s home soon, there’s never a good time to be in hospital but Christmas is always worse, especially for children.

She'd have had to make do with crisps (he's allergic to dairy so she has to be dairy free) and I'd have had a round trip to her house to collect nappies and wipes.
It would have been possible, but much more of a pain than just going into the supermarket round the corner 🤷

ilovesooty · 27/12/2025 00:10

chattyness · 26/12/2025 09:01

I saw on social media that Morrisons dailies would be open on Christmas day! I don't know if our local one was. I won't be near a shop for a few days yet, thankfully I'm not desperate for anything, I can't bear the shops at this time of year.

One local to me was open on Christmas day. I passed it while I was driving to meet some friends.

I didn't go shopping on Boxing day but if I'd needed something I'd run out of I might have done I suppose.

KimberleyClark · 27/12/2025 00:14

We went car shopping today. Dealership was not actually open but we were able to have a good walk around the used cars outside and saw a few possibilities. It’s been a lovely day here, cold but cloudless and it was nice to get out in the fresh air.

Natsku · 27/12/2025 08:15

TidyCyan · 26/12/2025 17:57

It's a Tesco Extra with two floors.

I used to live in Trowbridge! Sudden wave of nostalgia is hitting me now Grin

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 27/12/2025 09:04

I’ve worked in retail and I was bloody delighted that people shopped on Boxing Day because I was able to pick up a shift for double-time. Made a massive difference to me as I needed the money back then.

maybe not quite as delighted if you didn’t get the double time

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 27/12/2025 09:05

I never resented customers for shopping in an open store but they did get short thrift if they said ‘ oh its such a shame you have to work boxing day’

idiots

SharpBrickMaker · 27/12/2025 09:09

As someone who used to work retail/hospitality. I hate it when someone says stuff like this. The vast majority of my work mates who worked xmas used to volunteer. Including me. We don't need saving or someone feeling sorry for us

MeAndTheDoggo · 27/12/2025 09:18

This Is similar to the person who doesn’t want people to eat out on Christmas Day because her son was working to save for a big trip?

Coconutter24 · 27/12/2025 09:39

kolpa · 26/12/2025 08:47

My sister who worked for one of these supermarkets that is open today. If Boxing Day fell on a scheduled day in, there was a race to book it off. It really pissed her off when colleagues that worked 5 hours (8-13) with all their family living within 4 miles of their home got the time off. She - both sets of grandparents (all died) and her OH’s family lived 2 hours plus @drive in different directions. We live in the Midlands. Family lived in Surrey, Liverpool and Bristol . She hardly got it off. So unfair. Those colleagues could have gone home, dressed and be with their families within the hour of finishing work. My sister, finishing at 6pm, not a chance.

Some retailers don’t allow employees to book time off between Xmas and NY

People have to work these shifts and unfortunately for your DS she doesn’t get priority to have time off just because her family aren’t local.

A good number of the retail workers today are people who don’t have a car who usually bus it in. But no buses means either get someone to drive them in or get taxi/uber which are 1.5-2 times more expensive.

That ⬆️ is irrelevant, people have to get to work whether people shop or not.

Changingplace · 27/12/2025 09:41

MeAndTheDoggo · 27/12/2025 09:18

This Is similar to the person who doesn’t want people to eat out on Christmas Day because her son was working to save for a big trip?

That goes down as the most bonkers take on anything I’ve read on MN for a long time 🤣

Wendywoopp · 27/12/2025 11:11

She knew that when she worked in retail. I’m sure doctors and nurses would quite like to not work Christmas Day but that’s the job.

latetothefisting · 27/12/2025 12:01

SharpBrickMaker · 27/12/2025 09:09

As someone who used to work retail/hospitality. I hate it when someone says stuff like this. The vast majority of my work mates who worked xmas used to volunteer. Including me. We don't need saving or someone feeling sorry for us

as a pp has pointed out, was this a few years ago when it used to mean double time or time and a half? because very few people in retail are on those sort of contracts now. I used to struggle to get people to volunteer to even do on call in my old job - essentially just being at home but available for an emergency, despite being paid, so forgive me if I'm skeptical that the loads of retail staff are eagerly volunteering to work over Christmas for £12.21.

I fully accept that some people in some shops might be perfectly happy to work Christmas and Boxing Day. I just think there are probably more than would prefer a few days off. I used to work Christmas Eve in retail - not feeling like I needed people to feel sorry for me doesn't mean I would still have preferred to have not been working it, or at least finishing early. Or that I wasn't judging all the people shopping at that time.

latetothefisting · 27/12/2025 12:31

Wendywoopp · 27/12/2025 11:11

She knew that when she worked in retail. I’m sure doctors and nurses would quite like to not work Christmas Day but that’s the job.

are you seriously comparing keeping people alive to selling pints of milk?

Or a professional nurses/doctor's salary to minimum wage?

NemesisInferior · 27/12/2025 12:36

I used to enjoy working boxing day in retail.

Everyone was in a good mood compared to the clusterfuck that was the few days before christmas, it got me out of the house and the triple time pay was always appreciated. Don't assume that all retail workers are seething for having to work.

HazelMember · 27/12/2025 12:38

MauveExpert · 26/12/2025 17:57

Seems an odd issue to be so opinionated on. Some people will be very lonely over Xmas so getting out to the shops provides them quite a bit of relief.
Some people find holidays really difficult so maintaining some normalcy is needed.

It’s easy to assume that all Boxing Day shoppers are consumerist, shopping addicts. They might just be really unhappy and need some social interaction

It’s easy to assume that all Boxing Day shoppers are consumerist, shopping addicts. They might just be really unhappy and need some social interaction

They might need shopping. They might have been away like me so need to shop. They might be shopping for vulnerable people or SEN children. Lots of valid reasons for needing to shop.

HazelMember · 27/12/2025 12:40

cadburyegg · 26/12/2025 18:43

Yabu. I went to Tesco and got some bargain wrapping paper for next year. If shops are open then people will go.

I also used to work retail at Christmas and never resented customers coming in. It was part of the job.

15p a roll in Morrisons!

user33992020 · 27/12/2025 12:42

Well, I went food shopping yesterday and found it quite lovely. The shop wasn't rammed, everyone seemed to be in a good mood (including the staff) and it was far less stressful and terrible than it was a few days prior to Christmas.

A few days prior to Christmas it was horrific - rammed with people, everyone pushing and shoving and grabbing, the till queues were awful and the shop assistants looked genuinely really fed up and stressed then. Yesterday was completely different.

I am going to go next year too now 😚

lastminutepicks · 27/12/2025 12:57

Can I just point out that not all supermarket staff are paid minimum wage. It seems to be assumed, why?

I don’t know about other stores but Tesco pay more than minimum wage at entry level.

It’s quite rude and disrespectful to make such assumptions about other people’s earnings.

Rainydayinlondon · 28/12/2025 10:44

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 27/12/2025 09:05

I never resented customers for shopping in an open store but they did get short thrift if they said ‘ oh its such a shame you have to work boxing day’

idiots

I always say something to the cashier if I’m going into a shop late, to the effect that I hope they get to enjoy some sort of evening.

I think people who say that they’re sorry staff are working bank holidays are feeling slightly guilty at being in the shop in the first place and hoping they’re being empathetic.

I read so much on here about customers being rude to shop staff, but reading this thread, I’m starting to wonder if in fact it’s some staff being extremely touchy when the customer is merely trying to “communicate”.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 28/12/2025 11:44

I read so much on here about customers being rude to shop staff, but reading this thread, I’m starting to wonder if in fact it’s some staff being extremely touchy when the customer is merely trying to “communicate”.

wouldn't mind the evening comment …but in the shop i worked in i was literally only there because the customer was, and its not a rude comment for the customer to make, just thoughtless